||Zindagi Gulzar Hai #21|| Doori Sahi Jaye Na - Page 78

Originally posted by: OnlyHope

Dekho dekho..
I'm just typing up the very last scene's rant 😆

Started off with ZK walking along the shoreline. How beautiful was this entire scene, in terms of the natural beauty involved in the already blooming relationship of these two.

Did anyone notice the change here from the OST? In the OST, it's shown that Zaroon is videotaping Kashaf who is walking towards him as he moves backwards, but no such thing happened in this scene.

AND I must not leave this out..their casual hand-holding was so amazing in this scene...he just took her hand and took her further into the water..so beautiful! <3

Towel scene- now this was changed too, although very subtly and almost could've gone missed, I did notice the change in this scene from the OST as well.

Their nok-jhok..how cute can they get? For me, it only went on to symbolize how they are getting used to one another; the typical husband-wife talk and what not...and Zaroon is SO funny 😆 I mean..kaam wali ayegi to sochegi kitne khoobsoorat shohar hai? REALLY? 😆 but then of course he couldn't just praise himself because of how amazing of a husband he is, so he went on to mention their pair..how adorable! 😳

Then the little dialogue "Shohar aur biwi dono ko ek dusre ke nakhre uthane chahiye". This is so realistic. I can't imagine anything more real than this. In all honesty, it does hold true, if all the stereotypes are kept aside. I always feel it and say this to everyone that it's a two-way relationship; there are certain things only for a man/woman respectively, but when it comes to naaz/nakhre uthana, it does go both ways..the way you do approach this might just be different.

Kashaf getting used to Zaroon. I love how they're gradually showing her growing feelings..at this point, she doesn't say she loves him, rather she says that she is getting used to him. Truly said, when you love someone, you get used to the person first; or well, the two go hand in hand and that's when you realize you love them. But for Kashaf's confession of love to herself, we have another scene so let's leave this one at her not being able to imagine her life without him! 😳

The moon scene. Wait, rewind. I LOVED how Zaroon totally blackmailed Kashaf into going out by telling her that he'll sit out there and smoke if she doesn't go along with him! 😆 And like a caring wife who doesn't want her husband to smoke, she literally runs after him 😳 Nowww the so-called cheesy, corny, cliched scene, only in my words: a very beautiful romantic scene, with a lot of underlying meanings and feelings brought forth.

I couldn't help but notice time and again how "separation" is constantly being brought up, BUT another thing to notice: neither of them "fight" about it or make it a big deal. Zaroon affirms that he will never leave her; this doesn't mean we hold him accountable in the short run when there will be ups and downs; it just means eventually, in the long run, he will stick by her, through thick and thin, and literally never leave her hand 😆

AND another huge development: the jealous Kashaf! 😆 The Julia Roberts part cracked me up, but it definitely went on to show Kashaf's feelings for Zaroon. Even he was amused at her "jealousy"..ahhh this was beautiful in its own way 😳

The most important scene in this episode: Kashaf's monologue!

I had shivers down my spine, tears in my eyes, and goosebumps all through this. It's one thing that this girl is admitting to herself that she's starting to really love her husband, but what really made the impact here were Umera's dialogues. If I haven't said this enough earlier, UA leaves me speechless every single time and this was just an addition to those times. The powerful lines + Sanam's voice: a very beautiful scene on Pakistani TV. I'm truly happy that I'm an ardent fan of this show. It has so much more to offer than just a simple love story.
Back to the scene, yes, Kashaf said all that she felt, but she didn't just because those words without a reason; they held true for him. Zaroon really is worthy of all those words, and much more. The patience, the care, love, and admiration with which he is fulfilling his responsibility is truly admirable. I think what made me really emotional in her monologue was the fact that he is adjusting to her family, her environment, and everything, without complaining even once...that definitely shows his love for her.

Aahhh I can go on and on about this new development in their relationship! 😳

On to the last bit, starting with the button-stitching. Zaroon is one lucky chap to have found a wife who was once his ideal. So, this act is very petty in many people's eyes, hence not given much importance. Earlier in an episode, Sara actually did mention that who would learn how to do that, as if it's something derogatory, but Kashaf, a married & working girl, is here, taking care of the smallest of things for her husband, because it doesn't put her down in any way; rather, it elevates her status in her husband's eyes.

Ending with Zaroon giving her allowance. Now this isn't even about the money involved; it's more about the feelings and responsibility behind that action and Zaroon just knew he had to fulfill it. He didn't need to be baby sat and told by someone that listen dude, you need to give some money to your wife, etc. When he accepted her as his wife, he took the responsibility and giving her the money was part of the fulfillment of that very responsibility...totally shows his maturity 😳

In that instance, realization dawned upon Kashaf that this man really is something, someone really different than the guy she knew back in college...and now, that's making a difference in her life

Side note: I really look up to Rafia Aunty's upbringing and the way she lives life herself too. She's been on her own for the longest time, but never gave up. And now we see Zaroon admiring her too, which is really nice. I personally always thought of a guy being really kind (and a great husband) if he respects your parents. Zaroon is the perfect example of that.

Originally posted by: OnlyHope

Started off with ZK walking along the shoreline. How beautiful was this entire scene, in terms of the natural beauty involved in the already blooming relationship of these two.

Did anyone notice the change here from the OST? In the OST, it's shown that Zaroon is videotaping Kashaf who is walking towards him as he moves backwards, but no such thing happened in this scene.

I kind of was looking foward to that videotaping scene so hate how they edited it. Though I loved the scene in general😳

AND I must not leave this out..their casual hand-holding was so amazing in this scene...he just took her hand and took her further into the water..so beautiful! <3

I know I love how he did not leave her hand and they walked so casually it shows reality like a cute new married couple aww😳

Towel scene- now this was changed too, although very subtly and almost could've gone missed, I did notice the change in this scene from the OST as well.

Yeah wouldn't have noticed but seen OST million times so did😆

Their nok-jhok..how cute can they get? For me, it only went on to symbolize how they are getting used to one another; the typical husband-wife talk and what not...and Zaroon is SO funny 😆 I mean..kaam wali ayegi to sochegi kitne khoobsoorat shohar hai? REALLY? 😆 but then of course he couldn't just praise himself because of how amazing of a husband he is, so he went on to mention their pair..how adorable! 😳

You know the way he is all messy portrays reality a lot of girls face this problem 😆

So it was cute and adorable😳

Then the little dialogue "Shohar aur biwi dono ko ek dusre ke nakhre uthane chahiye". This is so realistic. I can't imagine anything more real than this. In all honesty, it does hold true, if all the stereotypes are kept aside. I always feel it and say this to everyone that it's a two-way relationship; there are certain things only for a man/woman respectively, but when it comes to naaz/nakhre uthana, it does go both ways..the way you do approach this might just be different.

Agreed I loved this small part

Kashaf getting used to Zaroon. I love how they're gradually showing her growing feelings..at this point, she doesn't say she loves him, rather she says that she is getting used to him. Truly said, when you love someone, you get used to the person first; or well, the two go hand in hand and that's when you realize you love them. But for Kashaf's confession of love to herself, we have another scene so let's leave this one at her not being able to imagine her life without him! 😳

Ditto Ditto She is getting used to them and it shows reality =))

Not Love at first sight you know all madly for him so glad :D

Loving it

The moon scene. Wait, rewind. I LOVED how Zaroon totally blackmailed Kashaf into going out by telling her that he'll sit out there and smoke if she doesn't go along with him! 😆 And like a caring wife who doesn't want her husband to smoke, she literally runs after him 😳 Nowww the so-called cheesy, corny, cliched scene, only in my words: a very beautiful romantic scene, with a lot of underlying meanings and feelings brought forth.

I couldn't help but notice time and again how "separation" is constantly being brought up, BUT another thing to notice: neither of them "fight" about it or make it a big deal. Zaroon affirms that he will never leave her; this doesn't mean we hold him accountable in the short run when there will be ups and downs; it just means eventually, in the long run, he will stick by her, through thick and thin, and literally never leave her hand 😆

AND another huge development: the jealous Kashaf! 😆 The Julia Roberts part cracked me up, but it definitely went on to show Kashaf's feelings for Zaroon. Even he was amused at her "jealousy"..ahhh this was beautiful in its own way 😳

Agreed my fav part had to be Julia Roberts🤣 She got so Jealous I loved it

The most important scene in this episode: Kashaf's monologue!

I had shivers down my spine, tears in my eyes, and goosebumps all through this. It's one thing that this girl is admitting to herself that she's starting to really love her husband, but what really made the impact here were Umera's dialogues. If I haven't said this enough earlier, UA leaves me speechless every single time and this was just an addition to those times. The powerful lines + Sanam's voice: a very beautiful scene on Pakistani TV. I'm truly happy that I'm an ardent fan of this show. It has so much more to offer than just a simple love story.
Back to the scene, yes, Kashaf said all that she felt, but she didn't just because those words without a reason; they held true for him. Zaroon really is worthy of all those words, and much more. The patience, the care, love, and admiration with which he is fulfilling his responsibility is truly admirable. I think what made me really emotional in her monologue was the fact that he is adjusting to her family, her environment, and everything, without complaining even once...that definitely shows his love for her.

Aahhh I can go on and on about this new development in their relationship! 😳

On to the last bit, starting with the button-stitching. Zaroon is one lucky chap to have found a wife who was once his ideal. So, this act is very petty in many people's eyes, hence not given much importance. Earlier in an episode, Sara actually did mention that who would learn how to do that, as if it's something derogatory, but Kashaf, a married & working girl, is here, taking care of the smallest of things for her husband, because it doesn't put her down in any way; rather, it elevates her status in her husband's eyes.

Ending with Zaroon giving her allowance. Now this isn't even about the money involved; it's more about the feelings and responsibility behind that action and Zaroon just knew he had to fulfill it. He didn't need to be baby sat and told by someone that listen dude, you need to give some money to your wife, etc. When he accepted her as his wife, he took the responsibility and giving her the money was part of the fulfillment of that very responsibility...totally shows his maturity 😳

In that instance, realization dawned upon Kashaf that this man really is something, someone really different than the guy she knew back in college...and now, that's making a difference in her life

Side note: I really look up to Rafia Aunty's upbringing and the way she lives life herself too. She's been on her own for the longest time, but never gave up. And now we see Zaroon admiring her too, which is really nice. I personally always thought of a guy being really kind (and a great husband) if he respects your parents. Zaroon is the perfect example of that.

I have faith in Zaroon
The precap just makes that faith stronger because he says we should take steps to avoid any misunderstandings..and trust me, communication IS the key! 😳

Alu, thanks for actually reading through that long gibberish ...and even responding! 🤗

Hawww Fairy you wrote so much .. beautiful write up Fairy 😳

@Fairy - even I loved the bit in precap.. it was so much of understanding .. under any circumstances Zaroon doesn't want their relation to be falling apart because of miscommunication...

Hahah thanks Munni!
I do write, occasionally, though I never show case it..this wasn't anything creative and such, so I posted it...usually I post my analysis as I'm watching, but this time I was late due to my absence this week 😆

This show does leave me speechless..AND makes me go on and on at the same time. So many feels, I tell ya! 😆

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

@Fairy - even I loved the bit in precap.. it was so much of understanding .. under any circumstances Zaroon doesn't want their relation to be falling apart because of miscommunication...

he saw how Saara's marriage broke.. he saw how their parents were... he doesn't want that in his married life.. he is making sure they talk .. he aims for TRANSPARENCY in their relation

That's truly truly the key..and I just wish everyone took this ONE advice really seriously and applied it to their personal situations, whenever the need arises.
Communication and being honest about everything takes away more than half the problems!

Originally posted by: OnlyHope

I have faith in Zaroon
The precap just makes that faith stronger because he says we should take steps to avoid any misunderstandings..and trust me, communication IS the key! 😳

Alu, thanks for actually reading through that long gibberish ...and even responding! 🤗

Oh yes, one more thing: the part where she says the puppet stuff...I feel like it's a flashback..because she says "ab mujhe pata laga tum kya chahte thay"..so this had to have been before they broke up...and them meeting (him getting into his car), would be the present.
Again, just my opinion.

AND, considering he's sensible and mature, he would stand up for Kashaf..since he has been considerate enough about everything at her mom's house and all...