Originally posted by: mili9
Swati, I have a free day today, so decided to tackle # 5 today, if you don't mind.
Ruhaan had always cared for Mishti's emotional pain, he tries his best to relieve her of that or face it himself if he can help it , ahead of her. Case in question, he tries to break their news to the Veer guy himself, so he can take the wrath instead of Mishti😭I can' t even count the number of times he was just there for her emotionally. Coming to the physical pain, we need to talk about 3 instances.
1. The above incident where she twists her ankle and lands on the floor. After their quick back and forth and monkeying around, the whole scene here turns into a tender, heart-touching one. Ruhaan, with his heart literally in his throat asking her if it hurts a lot😳My initial reaction is that of "woh koi labor mein nahin hain, ki, Ruhaan itna bada expression dedein". Then, I was lecturing 🤓about how our ( mine and students' ) perceptions of disease are different than that of the people who we serve. Now, when I watch this shayari, I have to apply it in this context. More than the degree of pain, I guess we have to look at it from his aspect, he doesn't want anything, literally ANY PAIN to ever befall her. Imagine, if I said something as harsh to a parent that the child has a minimal scratch and not a fracture and that they really don't need to agonize over it, they would scratch my eyes off of their sockets. So, even if it is a scratch that is a big deal for him. He wonders how he can suffer the physical pain on her behalf. I even made fun of him when this episode aired, ki, thought achha hain, and if only the pain is transferrable, then all women would gladly transfer their labor pain to their partners. But, that was very mean of me to say that, I am ashamed😳. During all the times, he was with her as she suffers through her pain, he DID something or the other to help her bear with the pain❤️. Here, as he tries to snap that ankle back (please don't try this guys🤔), she lashes out at him and hurts his shoulder and forgets about her own pain😃
2. Jungle episodes- the way he holds her as she bears with the pain of her shoulder as he tries to probe the wound or use some God forsaken liquid on that ( again, please don't try this ). We will only talk about the sentiment and not the factual nitty gritties. He simply holds her close, as she goes through waves of pain, silent, understanding, yet firm. He lets her use him as a prop as she goes through her agony. Again, very natural, I see this unfold in front of me in my everyday life. I am not an obstetrician, but has anybody witnessed this in labor rooms? The guys standing with their partners as they go through their labor together, for HOURS🤗 and they don't even get any credit😳? Anyway, not to digress, can we not say that he suffered her pain with her???🤗
3. More recent kidnapping episodes. He can't see her in that condition, tries to console her but he himself breaks down as he tries to comfort her🤗. God, that was touching 😭
In short, Ruhaan can't see Mishti in pain in a literal sense or from an emotional sense. He will be there for her always to take that pain away. Beautiful, writers👍🏼 for giving us this. To show that there is somebody in this girl's life who cares for not just her happiness but also for her to remain pain free in all aspects❤️
Swati, I don't know if this really makes the cut for this shayari, but this is how I felt as I watched this shayari today. You may use it if you like it😃.
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