Originally posted by: pj10
I agree with you Anju but to me her not wanting to change meant no love … nothing wrong with it but she did want both and in the end she did agree to marry him on her own. She needs to take responsibility for that.
It is true that she did agree to marry him and she did know the problems they would encounter. She does bear the responsibility for her decisions. Again all those happy wedding endorphins made them forget their issues for a short while!
As for her ambitions, she seems to be in a rush and they keep escalating in size. Until now her ambition was to be self dependent and support her mother and sister. Now she has added on Bhalla institute to her list of dreams. It is a pipe dream unless you are married to someone resourceful like Shaurya Saberwal. It is a noble pursuit and one should dream big but “ hawa me udne wale zameen par aayenge”. I guess I am frustrated because I see no sign of growth in her from any aspect. She has toned down her habit to fight in everything though.
She has a right to her ambitions. I don't fault her that. But now that she's part of a couple, she should probably run it by him, and not just her best friend and mother in law. I do think that she's capable of pursuing her dreams on her own, but that's not what you sign up for when you sign up for marriage. Again this time crunch isn't giving us the time table we need or the connecting scenes that are needed.
I understand the frustration for those that want an evolution. I just didn't expect it from Anokhi so I'm not frustrated seeing her stay true to who she's been since episode 1.
As for Shaurya.. I disagree with you, he is keeping his end of bargain. He is supporting his dreams but she keeps adding more and more to her dreams and associating it with her identity. He agreed to support her education and support her working when she is ready but now she wants to study and work at the same time. He would have never foreseen a fight over name change but it did happen. He is being very patient but she is on a roll. What I think he did not foresee was being stuck between his family and her at all times and being forced to choose. I do agree some of these issues are becoming bigger than they need to be because of elders trying to break them up which is unfortunate. If the couple were a nuclear family, none of the issues brought up so far would have mattered and they would have been solved amicably.
You're sooo right that all of these issues are only blowing up because of outside parties. People are adding fuel to this small spark and causing a wildfire. But again, Shaurya should have had the foresight and he was warned! He's the one that refused to see their issues. He just wanted her in his life, come hell or high water. He thinks he can deal with anything, well he gets to prove that.
They've definitely given him amnesia about Tejvi for the sake of SH drama. He knows about his family dynamics. He knows Tejvi hate Anokhi. He knows how Alok is. All that awareness he had pre-wedding is gone now for the sake of story.
In the end, Anokhi chose to go to SH. And at this point the only solution is for her to leave and see if Shaurya follows her or not. Will Shaurya go where his Anokhi is?
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