The Blame Game!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: lonely14

So finally, we are back to the blame game. Some are blaming Jai for what he is doing, some are blaming RK, because as an actor he let his fans down, some are blaming ekta, some are blaming pia, and Me like always still holding my motto, "Whatever happens it's ALWAYS bani's fault"

As much as i love this Blame game, but i think it's not anyone of their faults.

Let me try my hand justifying all of them, and justifying bani will be hardest, but i shall try.😳

Jai - Yes he should take control of his life, but isn't he the man who puts family before himself? and however bitter the truth may be, Pia is a part of his family too, whether she be his sister-in-law or.... The day he opens his mouth, that will be the end of ALL his relations and his family members, that's the only reason he is keeping quiet, not because he wants to HIDE it, and as far as i know, he attempted may be only twice, but with his facial expression, you can tell how hard that is. You can't blame him, for thinking about his family which is clouding his better judgment.

Ram Kapoor - All he is doing is acting, and doing his job. How many times do we do things at work we absolutely hate, but we still have to do it? So isn't his work similar? Why blame the actor? In the end he has to work for his family too, and that's what he is doing. and his responsibility towards his fans, i think he has kept that till now, one little thing shouldn't lead to us blaming him.

Ekta - well as long as she is making money of her shows, she won't change. We all know ekta's shows are same shit different actors and yet we watch it, obviously she will keep doing the same things. So you can't blame her for something we viewers are doing.

Pia - She is going for something she wants, yes it seems like immoral, but when did "love" know bounds? The pain that love causes leads us to do things that we can't imagine possible, and the things we do is just to lessen our pain. And IF she is pregnant, she wants to be with the father of her child. After all love conquers all.

Superwoman aka Bani - umm, She can't be blamed because she is blind in her love, even though it causes other people pain. She is just doing what she thinks is right, so i guess she can't be blamed either.

All i am trying to say it is NO ONE'S fault, it's OUR own fault, for not only watching it, but including the show in our daily lives so much that we tend to forget the fine line between reality and acting. I am not saying we are to be blamed for watching it, no matter what crap they show we will watch it, i am just saying we shouldn't let that affect our lives, and lose our senses, while watching the sheer stupidity they show on television.

Just watch the show, for the 30 min, have healthy discussions without letting that affect our daily lives, and go back to do doing the routine things, is the only way we will ever be able to enjoy the desi dramas completely.

Wow that took long, and i have absolutely no idea what i wrote, sorry if it was offensive, because i didn't mean for it to be

Take care,

Shina

P.S. i hope this will stop some blaming at least.😳

Lonely14,

I agree with most of what you've pointed out. Firstly, no one should blame the ACTORS as they simply are doing their job.

Secondly, coming to your justification for the character of PIA, may I ask you a two questions:

1. I don't know whether you have a sister or not, but assuming that you do, how would YOU personally react if your sister went after YOUR husband behind your back? and

2. Rightly or wrongly, had you been in Pia's position (I don't wish this upon you or anyone else), would YOU have taken the same course of action and say "love know no bounds"?

Someone wise once said to me that it's not the circumstances that we're in that matters, it's ultimately our reaction to our circumstance that matters in the end. Please note, I don't want to debate the rightness or wrongness of Pia's actions or whatever you answer, I just would like to have a better understanding of why it is that you say Pia is simply going after something she wants.

Originally posted by: lonely14

Originally posted by: shali

love.....

have you been reading fairy tales....

First let me make I thing clear......

nobody can imagine what pain this will cos to be betrayed by your husband and sis....... I have seen this pain in my sisters eyes..... but haven't experience the same....

but never I could imagine to have sex with my BIL.... that is so errhhh.....

your sec... answer.... their are ppl like pia....also ppl... with your thoughts.... but as far I know you... I can't think that this will be a step you can take.....

Shali, no i haven't been reading fairy tales, man i don't believe in those anymore.

as for my second answer, it was IF i was pia in the show, not in real life, haila i would kill myself, before i do anything to my sister. and yes you do know me, i won't take that step, i was talking about the character on the show.

Shina

Originally posted by: lonely14

Shali, no i haven't been reading fairy tales, man i don't believe in those anymore.

as for my second answer, it was IF i was pia in the show, not in real life, haila i would kill myself, before i do anything to my sister. and yes you do know me, i won't take that step, i was talking about the character on the show.

Shina

Lonely,

When I asked the second question, it was meant as the first one...if YOU were Pia in real, would you take the same course of action given the circusmstaces?

I know there is a clear distinction between reel and real, but oftentimes (more so than not) reel reflects real. I too have seen this happen on a personal level in REAL life. You say it's okay for Pia to act that way but yet given the same situation you wouldn't if you were in her place in real??? You wouldn't dare to that to your own sisters, but why is it that you say Pia's actions are perfectly fine and is simply going after what she wants? 😕

Is it simply a case of "After all love conquers all." If that's so, then JW clearly made it clear that he doesn't love her then how is it a case that love conquers all?

Originally posted by: kajolfan

Lonely,

When I asked the second question, it was meant as the first one...if YOU were Pia in real, would you take the same course of action given the circusmstaces?

I know there is a clear distinction between reel and real, but oftentimes (more so than not) reel reflects real. I too have seen this happen on a personal level in REAL life. You say it's okay for Pia to act that way but yet given the same situation you wouldn't if you were in her place in real??? You wouldn't dare to that to your own sisters, but why is it that you say Pia's actions are perfectly fine and is simply going after what she wants? 😕

Is it simply a case of "After all love conquers all." If that's so, then JW clearly made it clear that he doesn't love her then how is it a case that love conquers all?

I like pia's actions, because well she is not real. and it's hard for me to actually mix reel and real life, because in the end it's just acting.

I do know reel affects real life, but not in my world. For me there is a clear distinction, as soon as i leave this computer, then i forget about all this, and go back to my real life, so it's hard for me to be a reel life person.

and as for Pia's love, well at the initial stages of love, we do the crazies things(this exprienced first hand), so when the person you love says something, it doesn't register in your brain(those times), you only understand what you want to believe. Wow i tried to mix my reel life, with the real one.😆

I just hope all that made sense.

Shina