The Blame Game!!!

So finally, we are back to the blame game. Some are blaming Jai for what he is doing, some are blaming RK, because as an actor he let his fans down, some are blaming ekta, some are blaming pia, and Me like always still holding my motto, "Whatever happens it's ALWAYS bani's fault"

As much as i love this Blame game, but i think it's not anyone of their faults.

Let me try my hand justifying all of them, and justifying bani will be hardest, but i shall try.😳

Jai - Yes he should take control of his life, but isn't he the man who puts family before himself? and however bitter the truth may be, Pia is a part of his family too, whether she be his sister-in-law or.... The day he opens his mouth, that will be the end of ALL his relations and his family members, that's the only reason he is keeping quiet, not because he wants to HIDE it, and as far as i know, he attempted may be only twice, but with his facial expression, you can tell how hard that is. You can't blame him, for thinking about his family which is clouding his better judgment.

Ram Kapoor - All he is doing is acting, and doing his job. How many times do we do things at work we absolutely hate, but we still have to do it? So isn't his work similar? Why blame the actor? In the end he has to work for his family too, and that's what he is doing. and his responsibility towards his fans, i think he has kept that till now, one little thing shouldn't lead to us blaming him.

Ekta - well as long as she is making money of her shows, she won't change. We all know ekta's shows are same shit different actors and yet we watch it, obviously she will keep doing the same things. So you can't blame her for something we viewers are doing.

Pia - She is going for something she wants, yes it seems like immoral, but when did "love" know bounds? The pain that love causes leads us to do things that we can't imagine possible, and the things we do is just to lessen our pain. And IF she is pregnant, she wants to be with the father of her child. After all love conquers all.

Superwoman aka Bani - umm, She can't be blamed because she is blind in her love, even though it causes other people pain. She is just doing what she thinks is right, so i guess she can't be blamed either.

All i am trying to say it is NO ONE'S fault, it's OUR own fault, for not only watching it, but including the show in our daily lives so much that we tend to forget the fine line between reality and acting. I am not saying we are to be blamed for watching it, no matter what crap they show we will watch it, i am just saying we shouldn't let that affect our lives, and lose our senses, while watching the sheer stupidity they show on television.

Just watch the show, for the 30 min, have healthy discussions without letting that affect our daily lives, and go back to do doing the routine things, is the only way we will ever be able to enjoy the desi dramas completely.

Wow that took long, and i have absolutely no idea what i wrote, sorry if it was offensive, because i didn't mean for it to be

Take care,

Shina

P.S. i hope this will stop some blaming at least.😳

Originally posted by: lonely14

So finally, we are back to the blame game. Some are blaming Jai for what he is doing, some are blaming RK, because as an actor he let his fans down, some are blaming ekta, some are blaming pia, and Me like always still holding my motto, "Whatever happens it's ALWAYS bani's fault"

As much as i love this Blame game, but i think it's not anyone of their faults.

Let me try my hand justifying all of them, and justifying bani will be hardest, but i shall try.😳

😆😆😆 And you know my motto: "Whatever happens it's ALWAYS Jai's fault!!!"

Jai - Yes he should take control of his life, but isn't he the man who puts family before himself? and however bitter the truth may be, Pia is a part of his family too, whether she be his sister-in-law or.... The day he opens his mouth, that will be the end of ALL his relations and his family members, that's the only reason he is keeping quiet, not because he wants to HIDE it, and as far as i know, he attempted may be only twice, but with his facial expression, you can tell how hard that is. You can't blame him, for thinking about his family which is clouding his better judgment.

Nonsens! Jai should get up, dust himself off and be a man. He knows he has commited a crime and now its time to pay for it. He shouldnt hide behind his family or other excuses. Right now he doesnt have the right to keep silent or to let himself be blackmailed. He has a commitment to be honest, speak up and take responsibilty for his actions.

Ram Kapoor - All he is doing is acting, and doing his job. How many times do we do things at work we absolutely hate, but we still have to do it? So isn't his work similar? Why blame the actor? In the end he has to work for his family too, and that's what he is doing. and his responsibility towards his fans, i think he has kept that till now, one little thing shouldn't lead to us blaming him.

Agreed. Leave the guy alone. He is just doing his job to take care of his family. Its not like he has done undecent scene's. Please keep in mind that the actor is not the character Jai Walia.

Ekta - well as long as she is making money of her shows, she won't change. We all know ekta's shows are same shit different actors and yet we watch it, obviously she will keep doing the same things. So you can't blame her for something we viewers are doing.

Sorry yaar. This lady is to blame for the whole track KS is currently riding. She has the responsibilty to choose and appoint good creatives. I dont blame her from making money, very well, but she can still do so by making good and logic shows!!

Pia - She is going for something she wants, yes it seems like immoral, but when did "love" know bounds? The pain that love causes leads us to do things that we can't imagine possible, and the things we do is just to lessen our pain. And IF she is pregnant, she wants to be with the father of her child. After all love conquers all.

Please! Pia has never loved someone besides herself! She is one confused and sick person. She has always reached for the unreachable. Right now Jai has nothing to do with her idiotic ambitions, she just wants him because he is off-limits!! And what child? 2 months back she aborted her legal child to not ruin her figure and because a child didnt fit in her amitious life, so what changed? She doesnt care a dime about the child. She is misusing her own baby to blackmail a man who doesnt love her! How disgusting!

Superwoman aka Bani - umm, She can't be blamed because she is blind in her love, even though it causes other people pain. She is just doing what she thinks is right, so i guess she can't be blamed either.

Ofcourse agreed! 😆 My poor girl is the victim of all the heartless and selffish people around her, like her dear sister Pia and her so called cheating husband Jai. She is good-hearted and people take advantage of her!

All i am trying to say it is NO ONE'S fault, it's OUR own fault, for not only watching it, but including the show in our daily lives so much that we tend to forget the fine line between reality and acting. I am not saying we are to be blamed for watching it, no matter what crap they show we will watch it, i am just saying we shouldn't let that affect our lives, and lose our senses, while watching the sheer stupidity they show on television.

Just watch the show, for the 30 min, have healthy discussions without letting that affect our daily lives, and go back to do doing the routine things, is the only way we will ever be able to enjoy the desi dramas completely.

Wow that took long, and i have absolutely no idea what i wrote, sorry if it was offensive, because i didn't mean for it to be

Take care,

Shina

P.S. i hope this will stop some blaming at least.😳

Originally posted by: inavars

Thanks Shina for trying to muster a decent explanation for Bani too 😉 😃

Now when it comes to JW, I was not overly disgusted at his character until today. I was angry and disappointed during the JP fiasco, but the whole cover-up today for Pia's sake really made me disgusted. Why, Jai, why?! What's the point?! The truth has to come out one day or another...is it better to have Bani know that there was that one day of adultery or to have her know there was a day he was unfaithful and days when he lied to her!! Lying is only going to make the truth uglier...it's time JW faces this situation and tell Bani the truth!

Is that what happened?! I don't read the updates anymore because I'm going to just wait till they are show in the UK, not as if they'll be great anyway.

Originally posted by: lonely14

So finally, we are back to the blame game. Some are blaming Jai for what he is doing, some are blaming RK, because as an actor he let his fans down, some are blaming ekta, some are blaming pia, and Me like always still holding my motto, "Whatever happens it's ALWAYS bani's fault" haha well said!

As much as i love this Blame game, but i think it's not anyone of their faults.

Let me try my hand justifying all of them, and justifying bani will be hardest, but i shall try.😳

😲you are going to justify bani!!!k it will be interesting to see what you come up with in her defence😆

Jai - Yes he should take control of his life, but isn't he the man who puts family before himself? and however bitter the truth may be, Pia is a part of his family too, whether she be his sister-in-law or.... The day he opens his mouth, that will be the end of ALL his relations and his family members, that's the only reason he is keeping quiet, not because he wants to HIDE it, and as far as i know, he attempted may be only twice, but with his facial expression, you can tell how hard that is. You can't blame him, for thinking about his family which is clouding his better judgment.

well like I said in some other threads its the fear of lossing bani that's holding him back from telling her the truth cus he knows that the day bani finds out the truth she will not be able to forgive him and leave him forever.Infact, he said hthat himself in today's episode "bani agar maine tumhe bataya diya ki yeh bacha pia ka hain toh tum mujh kabhi maaf nahin karoge aur mujhe kabhi pyaar nahin karogi"

Ram Kapoor - All he is doing is acting, and doing his job. How many times do we do things at work we absolutely hate, but we still have to do it? So isn't his work similar? Why blame the actor? In the end he has to work for his family too, and that's what he is doing. and his responsibility towards his fans, i think he has kept that till now, one little thing shouldn't lead to us blaming him.

yes RK is not at fauilt here...guys please leave him alone....cus at the end of the day he's just doing his job like most of us.Its unfair to hold him responsible for anything.Besides,no matter how how senior an actor is he dosent have a say in the script.Its the director and producer of the show who have the final word.

Ekta - well as long as she is making money of her shows, she won't change. We all know ekta's shows are same shit different actors and yet we watch it, obviously she will keep doing the same things. So you can't blame her for something we viewers are doing.

well I agree,most of us despise her for showing adulterous husbnds and domestic violence in her shows but the fact remains that such things do happen in society and you cant blame her for trying to bring these social issues to light.Offcourse, her way of dealing with these issues in her shows is ridiculous.

Pia - She is going for something she wants, yes it seems like immoral, but when did "love" know bounds? The pain that love causes leads us to do things that we can't imagine possible, and the things we do is just to lessen our pain. And IF she is pregnant, she wants to be with the father of her child. After all love conquers all.

no comments😆

Superwoman aka Bani - umm, She can't be blamed because she is blind in her love, even though it causes other people pain. She is just doing what she thinks is right, so i guess she can't be blamed either.

you know what thats so true!!I never thought about it that way!!lol

All i am trying to say it is NO ONE'S fault, it's OUR own fault, for not only watching it, but including the show in our daily lives so much that we tend to forget the fine line between reality and acting. I am not saying we are to be blamed for watching it, no matter what crap they show we will watch it, i am just saying we shouldn't let that affect our lives, and lose our senses, while watching the sheer stupidity they show on television.

yes its our own fault for watching the show insipte of the crap that has been dished out to us in the last 2 months.Well I guess the reason that we are so inolved with the show is that we discuss it so robustly on a daily basis.its easier said than done but yes you are right we really should try not to let it affect our lives.

Just watch the show, for the 30 min, have healthy discussions without letting that affect our daily lives, and go back to do doing the routine things, is the only way we will ever be able to enjoy the desi dramas completely.

Wow that took long, and i have absolutely no idea what i wrote, sorry if it was offensive, because i didn't mean for it to be

Take care,

Shina

P.S. i hope this will stop some blaming at least.😳

shina i really enjoyed replying to this post...very well written!!!thanks shina and yes hopefully this will put an end to the blame game!!

Originally posted by: lonely14

So finally, we are back to the blame game. Some are blaming Jai for what he is doing, some are blaming RK, because as an actor he let his fans down, some are blaming ekta, some are blaming pia, and Me like always still holding my motto, "Whatever happens it's ALWAYS bani's fault"

As much as i love this Blame game, but i think it's not anyone of their faults.

but love...... I love to blame....it my job.... cant live without that.....

Let me try my hand justifying all of them, and justifying bani will be hardest, but i shall try.😳

bani..... are you sure you are able to do that😉......

Jai - Yes he should take control of his life, but isn't he the man who puts family before himself? and however bitter the truth may be, Pia is a part of his family too, whether she be his sister-in-law or.... The day he opens his mouth, that will be the end of ALL his relations and his family members, that's the only reason he is keeping quiet, not because he wants to HIDE it, and as far as i know, he attempted may be only twice, but with his facial expression, you can tell how hard that is. You can't blame him, for thinking about his family which is clouding his better judgment.

oh.... so the poor chap is afraid.... do if I care???....No, maybe he had to think better before getting drunk and sleeping around......

in our live we all make choices, this can be right or wrong and it will not only effect us but also the ppl around us.... so before doing something always be careful.....and think twice.....

in jai case I would ad : stop drinking.......

Ram Kapoor - All he is doing is acting, and doing his job. How many times do we do things at work we absolutely hate, but we still have to do it? So isn't his work similar? Why blame the actor? In the end he has to work for his family too, and that's what he is doing. and his responsibility towards his fans, i think he has kept that till now, one little thing shouldn't lead to us blaming him.

thank god.... now everybody will know and understand that RK is just a working man who provides food for his fly.... and he has no obligation towards us....keep on the good work RK....

Ekta - well as long as she is making money of her shows, she won't change. We all know ekta's shows are same shit different actors and yet we watch it, obviously she will keep doing the same things. So you can't blame her for something we viewers are doing.

eekta.... dearest.... hasn't learned form her mistakes.... to bad.... hope she makes more money and will donate some % to me..........

Pia - She is going for something she wants, yes it seems like immoral, but when did "love" know bounds? The pain that love causes leads us to do things that we can't imagine possible, and the things we do is just to lessen our pain. And IF she is pregnant, she wants to be with the father of her child. After all love conquers all.

Crap......big bull..... pia and love.... love isn't only to have and hold.... it also sacrifice for the person happiness.... and love cant be push on....so it doesn't matter if the person don't love you back. just be happy with what you get....jai knows she " loves " him.....but in his live their isn't place for her.... and she is destroying his live and happiness ...only to get him and I can't call that love....

and where is pia sister love is it vanished here....bani is the same woman who had hold and stood behind her... in her bad times.... and now for pia "love" she has to move out off her way...... is this fair.....

Pia is the person who is going to lose big time, not only the person she claims to love , BUT ALSO HER SIS....and all this over a man...... pity on her......

Superwoman aka Bani - umm, She can't be blamed because she is blind in her love, even though it causes other people pain. She is just doing what she thinks is right, so i guess she can't be blamed either.

whoaa is this all you can say in her defence.... good try..... applause.... bani is bani, she will be the stupid and trusting wife ever.... till the moment truth is going to hit her left right and center.... then she will realiz that trusting her cheating hubby and unfaithful sister has cost her pain, that you will forgive.....but never forget.....

All i am trying to say it is NO ONE'S fault, it's OUR own fault, for not only watching it, but including the show in our daily lives so much that we tend to forget the fine line between reality and acting. I am not saying we are to be blamed for watching it, no matter what crap they show we will watch it, i am just saying we shouldn't let that affect our lives, and lose our senses, while watching the sheer stupidity they show on television.

that's right.......

Just watch the show, for the 30 min, have healthy discussions without letting that affect our daily lives, and go back to do doing the routine things, is the only way we will ever be able to enjoy the desi dramas completely.

amen to that..... just put your mind on hold and enjoy the comedy....

Originally posted by: lonely14

So finally, we are back to the blame game. Some are blaming Jai for what he is doing, some are blaming RK, because as an actor he let his fans down, some are blaming ekta, some are blaming pia, and Me like always still holding my motto, "Whatever happens it's ALWAYS bani's fault"

As much as i love this Blame game, but i think it's not anyone of their faults.

Let me try my hand justifying all of them, and justifying bani will be hardest, but i shall try.😳

Jai - Yes he should take control of his life, but isn't he the man who puts family before himself? and however bitter the truth may be, Pia is a part of his family too, whether she be his sister-in-law or.... The day he opens his mouth, that will be the end of ALL his relations and his family members, that's the only reason he is keeping quiet, not because he wants to HIDE it, and as far as i know, he attempted may be only twice, but with his facial expression, you can tell how hard that is. You can't blame him, for thinking about his family which is clouding his better judgment.

Ram Kapoor - All he is doing is acting, and doing his job. How many times do we do things at work we absolutely hate, but we still have to do it? So isn't his work similar? Why blame the actor? In the end he has to work for his family too, and that's what he is doing. and his responsibility towards his fans, i think he has kept that till now, one little thing shouldn't lead to us blaming him.

Ekta - well as long as she is making money of her shows, she won't change. We all know ekta's shows are same shit different actors and yet we watch it, obviously she will keep doing the same things. So you can't blame her for something we viewers are doing.

Pia - She is going for something she wants, yes it seems like immoral, but when did "love" know bounds? The pain that love causes leads us to do things that we can't imagine possible, and the things we do is just to lessen our pain. And IF she is pregnant, she wants to be with the father of her child. After all love conquers all.

Superwoman aka Bani - umm, She can't be blamed because she is blind in her love, even though it causes other people pain. She is just doing what she thinks is right, so i guess she can't be blamed either.

All i am trying to say it is NO ONE'S fault, it's OUR own fault, for not only watching it, but including the show in our daily lives so much that we tend to forget the fine line between reality and acting. I am not saying we are to be blamed for watching it, no matter what crap they show we will watch it, i am just saying we shouldn't let that affect our lives, and lose our senses, while watching the sheer stupidity they show on television.

Just watch the show, for the 30 min, have healthy discussions without letting that affect our daily lives, and go back to do doing the routine things, is the only way we will ever be able to enjoy the desi dramas completely.

Wow that took long, and i have absolutely no idea what i wrote, sorry if it was offensive, because i didn't mean for it to be

Take care,

Shina

P.S. i hope this will stop some blaming at least.😳

I don't think anyone should be blaming RK in the first place. My request to all is don't attack him.. hes just the messenger! And I totally agree that the fault is of our own for having this consume most of our time and become such a big part of our daily lives (him telling us to keep the faith was solely for the fact that Jai will not fall for Pia.. and he was right.. Jai hasn't.. in fact, he despises Pia.

But as for Pia.. there is no way she loves Jai. She's after the fame, the title, the power. She hated the attention that Bani received after being called Mrs. Jai Walia. She was simply jealous, and when Pushkar showed up, it proved that she was. She was ashamed at what she had because of the way she snapped at Rano as well. Its not a question of love.. it's a question of the luxuries that she can not have. She is not deserving of love if this is the case.

I agree with you that Jai is having the most difficult time dealing with this. And on top of that, the direction is done so that when they do show his face its with a look of shock. How else are we supposed to expect him to react? He himself is speechless about what is going on and can not comprehend the gravity of the situation. Bani is nave and is blinded in love.. so of course she would have no idea. You have to realize that she just got her love back, and she KNOWS he doesn't know the whole truth. For her she probably assumes this is why he is holding back, but still wants to be with her…

*~*HK*~*

Originally posted by: khattimeeti

hai KM..... where have you been.......better what has happend to you......