How Far Would You Go For the One You Luv? - Page 4

MT, I love the questions, answers and analysis of charactes you post. I'm attempting to answer the questions for the first time. So I apologize in advance for any mistakes.

So, my question to you guys is :

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

Unanimous one that, you've stated it yourself - Bani

Yeh kahan aa gaye hum, yunhi saath chalte chalte
Teri bahon mein hai janam, mere jism o jaan pighalke


Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)
Bani again methinks .....Come to think of it, she's been let down by everyone in everything....
Her parents, her siblings, her friend, her in-laws, her husband...All of them have let her down when she needed their acceptance, love and support the most. And Jai most of all ...At least the silly facade she put on for Jai's benefit was still a facade, He didn't need an excuse to go running off in Roshini arms first and Pia's now

Dushman na kare dost ne woh kaam kiya hai
Umr bhar ka gham hamein inaam diya hai


Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?
Pia but of course....Men fall for her like a pack of cards ...Whatever may have been the final upshot, both Pushkar and Jai loved her deeply, one enough to fight against the whole world for her and the other wishing her the best on her wedding , venting his anger on her hapless sister instead.

Jab chaye mera jadu, koi bach na paye


Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!
Bani of course, she deserves complete undivided attention not only from Jai, but from Tarun (when he falls in love with her )
She's fought and still fighting for her love. Isn't it time she got a respite?
She loves everyone unselfishly and unconditionally, doesn't she deserved to be loved back with a fraction of the love she has for Jai?

Betaab dil ki tamanna yehi hai
Tumhein chahenge, tumhein poojenge, tumhein apna khuda banayenge


Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!
No one...Love is a beautiful emotion, sabko milna chahiye ek barabar na kam na jyada.....
You know even though it may be inherently inane, KS is beautiful because in some way or another, everyone loves someone!!!!!

Pyar baathe chalo, pyar baathte chalo


Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)
If I leave aside the rocking chemistry Prachi and Mr.Kapoor share, no.....
Jai has too little faith and trust in Bani...I mean he mouths all those heart wrenching dialogues true, but he's not a man of action to show those are not empty words....
And all his dilly dallying with Roshini and Pia prove that he hold very little worth for his marriage vows too...
Timeout and again Bani has proved her love for him, by placing his and his family's honor above that of her own, by placing his life above her own....
Pata nahi kyun Jai ki sabhi baatein khokli lagti hai,
He claims he knows and understands Bani, yet he believes the worst of her whenever Jigyasa tells him otherwise...Hell he chose to ask Pia whether Bani likes Pushkar, why not ask Pushkar himself?
And whatever he might believe she had done, looking at her condition after the miscarriage, shouldn't he have realized what the child meant to her? And he's so mad at her for it, what Pia did to her child was far worse...Did he confront her with it?No...Does he tell her off for trying to stick to him all the time? No.....

So Bani should be asking Jai
Tumko hum dilbar kyu mane,
Kuch karke dikhao to jane


Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?
Hmmmm Don't know....Perhaps perhaps not....Jai character seems shallow to me now...How can he hate so intensely when he cannot love with half as much intensity?

You know what would have been a good storyline???
Instead of rushing him Jai/Pia marriage, they should have dwelt on it sometime and made him slowly and surely fall for Bani instead....And meanwhile Pushkar,hurt by Pia's rejection, finally realizing that Bani means more to him than just a friend....It would have been good to see Pia as the insecure one, not Bani...

Yaar dildaar tujhe kaisa chahiye,
Pyar chahiye ke paisa chahiye
Yaar dildar tere jaisa chahiye
Pyar ke liye magar paisa chahiye


Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?
Of course...Would love to see him contrite and beg for Bani's forgiveness
And fighting to win Bani's love

Mere dil mein aaj kya hai
Tu kahe to main bata doon
Teri zulf phir savaron
Teri maang phir saja doon


Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?
Hmmmm....would say given up on love but would be a pleasant surprise to find that he indeed puts on an act to mask his feelings for the woman he supposedly loves

Is kadar pyar hai tumse eh humsafar
Ab to jeete hain hum bas tumhein dekhkar


Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

Depends on the situation I think....

nice questions MT!! loved answering them!!! and everyone...please watch the movie dor also!!! its an amazing movie..i dont mean to advertise it...but really...i loved it!!!

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?
hmm..id say bani...she never gives up!

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)
well unintentionally id say jai...he's been let down my pia...by pushkar...and from his perspective by bani as well because of all her sacrifice drama...
pushkar and bani have also been let down...but they still have very strong emotional backup!

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?
bani...she loved pushky..when that didnt work out...she eventually loved/loves jai..and she is loved in return...romantically by jai..and otherwise loved by pushkar unconditionally as his best friend...by her sisters...she is the world to them...by masi, aditya, raashi, tony...the list goes on...

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!
sigh! deserves to be loved...everybody...yeah...but pia least among the three...the rest definitely!

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!
everyone needs to be loved!

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)
no the make a good couple...they arent exactly the same...like say bani-pushky...and therefore they compliment each other well...there is utmost faith in one and other...

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?
nope...i dont think so...because their relationship seemed too superficial...i dont think they even know/knew the "real" them

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?
no he shouldnt be racked with guilt and misery...because you cant blame the fellow...he didnt believe bani for a realllllllyyyy long time...she is a good actress! 😉

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?
nope...he definitely loves her a lotttt to despise her at the moment so much!

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?
id do anything for the person i love the most....this may include my family..best friends..etc etc...i can go till the very end...i wouldnt think twice about giving up my life for them...if i needed to...

Hi MT!

That was beautifully summed up dear 👏 . A very nice topic and relevant one too with ref to the story.

My answers to your Questions...

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

Jai and Bani!
Bani Walia... She can go away from her love for the sake of her love, hurt him for the sake of his happiness… hats off to her conviction that she actually finds logic in it! Nothing more needs to be said on his front… varna it will turn into something else! Bani was simply outstanding in the begining of their relationship... her uncondictional love laid the fountain for their marraige.

Jai on the other hand was ready to go all out for Bani's happiness... even if that meant he would never have to see his child again. It is not often that u see Jai seeing something going drastically wrong with himself, his home, his business, his family and still keep queit for Bani's sake. Just the trust and concern he displayed... stands unparrallel! His concept of Love is much more easier for me to understand....

If it was Bani who laid teh foundation, then it was Jai who protected it despite Bani herself wanting to destroy it.

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)
Jai Walia! Do I have to elaborate? 2 broken engagements and a broken marriage says it all!!!

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?
Jai and Bani! Look at their luck… they got married in the WORST of situations only to realize that they are eachother's soulmate and the source of incomparable Love, companionship, compassion, comfort, and support to eachother. Not everyone lucky to find their soulmate in love… U might find love, but may not find a soulmate. I always have believed that your are tremendously lucky in love if u find ur soulmate in them. Look at JB… one week into their forced marriage a sense of tolerating and understanding eachother came in which finally grew into love. If these two aren't lucky in love then no one can be lucky! It is a different question if they know to value it, Jai didn't value it back then… and Bani seemed to have lost that concept lately😡

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!

I would be tempted to say Jai, but I am more than sure Jai cant take anymore of Bani loving him than she already does… if she would have to love him more than what she already does… all of us would have hit the mental asylum by now!

I would say both Jai and Bani deserved to be loved(in what is considered NORMAL... Banigiri vetoed!) All their lives they have been worked selflessly for the welfare of their family, always making them their first priority, making sacrifices big and small and never expecting anything in return. There was always a void in their life when it came to themselves… which vanished when they came together. For the first time in life they felt loved, cared and cherished and yes, fiercely possessive about one another! Since Jai has had the extra 17 years of a meaningless life… may be he deserves to be pampered a bit more than Bani… Ok, that is the most illogical reasoning I could give myself😡😆… jokes apart… both of them deserves all the love… FROM EACHOTHER (ONLY!)

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!

Ha! This is the easiest of questions... PIA, hands down! She doesn't deserve any love when she doesn't know how to value such a beautiful, divine emotion!

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)

They are soulmates… so they cant be mis matched, casue there is only ONE soulmate out there for u. They are made for eachother… it is just that both of them have to treasure it enough to last a life time! Temperamentally, they are very different people, but both of them connect to the very being of the other… they do have the same values and beliefs, guess that is why they understand eachother. They don't contradict eachother, they compliment and complete the other.

Btw on Thursday seeing the dixits play havoc in Jai's life… I had concluded that Jai and Bani were better off without being a part of eachother's lives… I slept over it and thank god the next morning I was back to normal. Dixits do drive me crazy all the times…. I would be ecstatic if a stupid twist is brought in and it is declared Bani isnt a Dixit afterall… amongst the many things I hold against Bani, being a Dixit tops everything! But some respite since she is a Walia now...but what do i do about the inherient Genitic Disorder?

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?

Na. Impossible… I will tell u why, if Pia was married to Jai, she would be hitting on at Pushkar… that is when LOVE for her would have been more important... she could file for a Divorce she can get it with a HUGE Alimony... that will take care of all the riches she desires😡🤢!(I hate talking like this... but has she given me one reason to talk positive about her?) She would remain fickle minded all her life and I don't expect her to change… I just hope the people in question to safe guard their interests around Pia😡. Bani, r u listening?

And I don't know why, but I always felt that if Bani is in Jai's life in whatever capacity, sooner or later he would relate to her the MOST. And invariably there would be a small voice in his heart that will go on bugging him about how alive and at peace it feels around Bani…. Some good luck stopped Jai from feeling guilty about this feeling when it did rise in his heart. She was his wife…it was only right for him to feel this way.

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?

Why should he feel guilty? He has done nothing wrong! He always maintained Bani has a purpose behind it… and he somewhere still holds that faith. He time and again asked Bani what was it that was making her behave the way she did… He tried every which way possible... He stayed silent and supported everything she did, Gave her whatever she wanted, had his friend fight the case against him, He spoke to her asking what it was that was troubling her, He made emotional appeals, he refused to believe what she said, he gave her ultimatums (making her swear on their child), he used anger, he provoked… Nothing worked! Oh yes, may be he should have taken her to the psychiatrist, had her hypnotized and should have come to know the truth! There is no need for him to feel guilty… infact he should blow up and give a nice dose for what she did and how dangerous it all proved to be. If he is guilty and says sorry… I will mad at him

He done everything he should have… I really don't expect anymore tolerance than he has shown till date. I don't want him to ask her to come back to him… I want her to go back to him, cause he never asked her to leave in the 1st place… and I want him to decide if he wants her in his life or not! She has always been the who decides when to walk into his life and walout of it and walk back in to walk out again!For this once atleast let him DECIDE rather than having decisions THROWN at him to accept. Saying that, I want him to decide, but I am not giving him options…they get back together, PERIOD!

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?

Jai can never HATE Bani, he is just ANGRY! He is completely messed up… thoroughly confused at this point...not so much about his love for her, but her love for him. If only he didn't have the faith in himself he would have probably gotten over Bani by now! I mean it!

But the problem is that there is a truth that his heart vouches for and his mind has some different tales to say. Both his Dil and Dimak are at war about what they think is right. The Heart had an edge all along cause of the trust and love he had for Bani… but with the lose of Krishna, the same heart his suffering… which has kind of weakened the heart's stand casue of the grief, while the mind grew stronger againt Bani blaming her for Krishna's death.

This war going to kill him😭! I don't know how on earth he is going to survive this… this complete confusion is what is causing the anger that he displays at the sight of Bani. He is so fierce about protecting what his heart secretly feels for Bani from his mind cause the mind will downright call him an emotional fool… hence he has slipped into the denial mode…telling himself time and again that Bani betrayed him.

I am going over board with Dil Vs Dimak and confusing every1… simply put he cant stop loving Bani and is angry about that with HIMSELF! There is no way on the face of this earth that he is going to get over Bani… not now. not forever!

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

To any extent… as long as my dignity, and integrity allow me to… I wont comprome on that front for anyone, for that matter not the dignity of my family and my loved one… or of anyother person. I cant just get away insulting someone just because it would help my loved one!

I stand by the person I love unconditionally, that def doesn't mean I turn blind to any wrong that they do… I reprimand them for that! But I def believe they deserve another chance and I am brave enough to give them one, without having to hold the past against them, cause that defeats the very purpose of giving a second chance… for me that defines being Unconditional. So me leaving them ever will NEVER happen, they will always have me by them no matter what.

First I really need to know what is situation that is driving me to extremes… once I know that, and believe in it and want to go all out to help… I would be more than sure about what I am doing, the purpose and the way I am doing it, isnt detrimental to the happiness or the honour of the person I am fighting this for.(U def know what I am talking about or rather who i am talking about😆) I would know my resources & limitations very well before I set out into any adventure of any kind. since the entire matter is so important I wouldn't let myself to assume stuff about matters and facts, if I need technical help, then I need the best! I would make sure that in my ways out to solve things, I don't end up being unjust to anyone else.

With reference to what triggered off this question in the first place… simply put I will NEVER do what Bani did! No Banigiri for me atleast when it comes to crisis management😆.

Would love to hear your answers on the above!
Me answered. Loved doing it… though was very lazy to do it before… How typically ME😡!
Lots of Luv
Anu.

PS: Loved your answers to my last Q&A!
Oye, Madam where are ur replies? If I remember correctly… you have answered questionnaire only once out of atleast 30 odd questionnaires that u would have posetd… We want to read u replies too, What say guys? So, can i look forward to ur say in this matter?😃