How Far Would You Go For the One You Luv?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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How Far will you go for the One you Love?'

This thought provoking line is from the Movie 'Dor' which asks the viewer on the distance we would cover to protect and get back the one we love the most!

The overall theme of KS has been Love and the extent to which the characters have travelled to find their true love and protect them!

Lets take the four main character's one by one;

Bani : Oh, where do I even start on her! Bani has indeed travelled very, very far, not only in search of the one she loves but also to protect the man from doom! We won't talk about the methods she adopted to do so, but just look at the emotion behind her actions! Bani fell in love with someone whom she couldn't get and ended up marrying someone whom she didn't want! But true love found its way and she fell hopelessly and intensely in love with Jai. Bani sacrificed not only her happiness and future but also compromised on her self-respect, independence, family and her own personal security for protecting Jai! Bani is indeed still travelling for the man she loves, despite the fact that she has lost everything in the way, even the one she loves, yet her quest is not over and she has not given up on her Love!

Jai : Another person who took 40 years to find Love only to be let ruthlessly heartbroken and walked all over! He found Love again, in the form of a wife who cared and nurtured his broken heart with an impentrable silence and devotion and brought him back to Life! But lady luck never favoured Jai and he was let down once again (Or so he thinks) Jai covered his own distance for the one he loved, he not only fought against his beloved family, he was ready to give away ever single penny of his, if it could bring happiness to Bani. Jai has now given up, his saturation point of the relationship was the child that Bani was carrying and now that the child is no more, the distance that Jai covered for Bani has come to a full-stop!

Pia : Let her beloved sister down by running away with her lover and risked the ire of a powerful man! Personally speaking, I don't think Pia has travelled one bit for her love, because she has till date, not understood what love is! But I am sure there would be someone in the Forum who would think otherwise and hence I have added her name!

Pushkar : Once again, not only compromised on his loyalty to his Father like mentor, but also let his best friend down for the sake of the woman he loved! Fought with his family, fought with his ex-boss, fought with the whole world to be with the woman he loved only to be let down badly! Pushkar had tried to walk the steps back for Pia but gave up after she aborted her child. Just like Jai, Pushkar's standpoint of the realtionship he shared with Pia came to a break and he no longer wants to travel any further for his Love.

So, my question to you guys is :

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

Would love to hear your answers on the above!

Cheers,

MT

PS: Loved your answers to my last Q&A!😃

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

Defintely Bani

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)

Jai

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?

Bani because of the mistake of her sister she found her love jai

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!

Bani, because she is the only one who made big sacrifice in love

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!

Pia, she doenst know what she want first she wants jai then pushkar and now jai agian. make up you mind pia.

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)

they deserve each other (cant come up white the reason)

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?

No, i dont think she will be as silent as bani was and i dont think she will sacrefice her live for jai like bani would

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?

he atleast should understand where she is coming from so i go whit he should be racked with guilt and misery

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?

i think he really hates her know since she lost the baby maybe his feelings will changes once he knows the truth

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

Honestly i dont know

Great questions👍🏼

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Posted: 19 years ago
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MT please give your opinion.
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Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

NO DOUBT BANI

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)

PUSHKAR


Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?

RANO AND SAHIL (I KNOW ITS NOT FROM THE OPTIONS BUT THEY ARE THE LUCKIEST)

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!

BANI.. ALL SHE HAS DONE IS GIVE LOVE.. SHE SHOULD BE RETURNED THE SAME IN MULTIPLICITY

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!
PIA - AS SHE IS THE SELFISH

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)

THEY DESERVE EACH OTHER.. GOOD ONES DESERVE GOOD ONES..

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?

DO YOU FEEL MONEY IS EVERYTHING ON EARTH.. ?? NO YOU SHOW YOUR NEW CAR OR TOY FOR A WHILE TO YOUR FRIENDS THEN ITS ALL OLD.. SAME WOULD BE CASE FOR PIA

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?

YES HE WOULD BE

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

I CAN GO AS FAR AS BANI BUT MY WAYS WOULD BE DIFFERENT.. I WOULDNT HIDE ANYTHING FROM MY HUSBAND. WILL TELL HIM THE TRUTH NO MATTER HOW SHOCKING IT WOULD BE
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: mistletoe

How Far will you go for the One you Love?'

This thought provoking line is from the Movie 'Dor' which asks the viewer on the distance we would cover to protect and get back the one we love the most!

The overall theme of KS has been Love and the extent to which the characters have travelled to find their true love and protect them!

Lets take the four main character's one by one;

Bani : Oh, where do I even start on her! Bani has indeed travelled very, very far, not only in search of the one she loves but also to protect the man from doom! We won't talk about the methods she adopted to do so, but just look at the emotion behind her actions! Bani fell in love with someone whom she couldn't get and ended up marrying someone whom she didn't want! But true love found its way and she fell hopelessly and intensely in love with Jai. Bani sacrificed not only her happiness and future but also compromised on her self-respect, independence, family and her own personal security for protecting Jai! Bani is indeed still travelling for the man she loves, despite the fact that she has lost everything in the way, even the one she loves, yet her quest is not over and she has not given up on her Love!

Jai : Another person who took 40 years to find Love only to be let ruthlessly heartbroken and walked all over! He found Love again, in the form of a wife who cared and nurtured his broken heart with an impentrable silence and devotion and brought him back to Life! But lady luck never favoured Jai and he was let down once again (Or so he thinks) Jai covered his own distance for the one he loved, he not only fought against his beloved family, he was ready to give away ever single penny of his, if it could bring happiness to Bani. Jai has now given up, his saturation point of the relationship was the child that Bani was carrying and now that the child is no more, the distance that Jai covered for Bani has come to a full-stop!

Pia : Let her beloved sister down by running away with her lover and risked the ire of a powerful man! Personally speaking, I don't think Pia has travelled one bit for her love, because she has till date, not understood what love is! But I am sure there would be someone in the Forum who would think otherwise and hence I have added her name!

Pushkar : Once again, not only compromised on his loyalty to his Father like mentor, but also let his best friend down for the sake of the woman he loved! Fought with his family, fought with his ex-boss, fought with the whole world to be with the woman he loved only to be let down badly! Pushkar had tried to walk the steps back for Pia but gave up after she aborted her child. Just like Jai, Pushkar's standpoint of the realtionship he shared with Pia came to a break and he no longer wants to travel any further for his Love.

So, my question to you guys is :

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

its gotta be bani....no one not even jai i feel has travelled this far for bani....she not only sacrified her love and happiness but also her self respect and dignity to save him....though she had implemented her theories to save jai in most ridiculous ways....but again she is the one who has suffered a lot than anyone.

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)

thats cuddu jai....he was in love with roshni who left her for her career.then it took him years to find pia.wrong choice again...she ditched him at altar and his manhood was questioned for that...and finally bani who made all his wait of 40 years seemed worth for...let him down by hiding truth all the time no matter how noble her intentions were....but how could jai come to know them unless being told.

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?

thats pia for sure...though this peaheaded girl never understood true love..but she was lucky to find pushkar who sacrified his career and faith that his mentor kept in him to support pia.....again she is the one who managed to change MR.walia into one wearing poloneck shirts.jai (at least he thought) was indeed in love with her....so all in all its pia..

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!

its bani and jai.....they should deserved to be loved the most....reasons??? well because both of them have lived their lives for others...bani for her sisters and jai for his sister and her family....both of them have lost their first love in life....so now i guess these poor creatures are also entitled to some love....(i just hope that they love each other)

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!

i dont think there is any character that should deserve this since everyone of them have their solid reasons for what they do...pia though she is horrible wife but we must accept is good sister...till now she has no bad intentions for bani...and i am quite sure that if she finds out the truth about jai bani's real relationship...she would play a major role in bringing them back together. jiggy has her reasons too...though a bad and scheming sister,she is very good mother who thinks about their security first...so i dont think there is anyone who deserve that....may be ranvijay cobra😃 if answer is must then

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)

they may be arent ideal couple that u could find but they certainly arent ill matched couple.....they compliment each other well....when it comes to bani's insecurity..jai is their to make her feel secure and lend his support. when it comes to his anger and impulsiveness...bani is there with her clam and composed nature. i wonder if pia or for that matter roshni could have matched those standards

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?

never....main reason is that pia never loved jai for what he is.she was more attracted towards his success in business world and his money and lavish lifestyle.even with jai it was all about her beauty as once he said that pia used to make him go blind,when they were together he couldnt see rest of the world....it was bani who awakened him and brought back to his true senses.....if jai had married pia...he wouldnt be the jai that we are seeing now...i dont think pia could have stir up those feelings and emotions in jai.besides that jai suits with bani and pia is too imature to replace bani...

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?

he would feel guilty for sure....more because he himself is responsible for death of krishna however unintentially but he is the one. bani was trying to save his life and thus lost the baby.....more than anything this truth will trouble jai for rest of his life.....he should racked with guilt and misery as he wouldnt have had any life to go on with if bani wasnt there to save him

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?

i dont think he despises her...he did say that he doesnt want to see her face again and would not live under safe roof but..i feel he still loves her.he turned around while saying this,he couldnt meet masi's eyes when he said that.....he wouldnt have felt the jealousy and hurt after knowing her past if it wasnt love.......jealousy is amma of love

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

hmmmmmmmm very personal😆 for me i would have done same as bani if i were in her shoes but i would have certainly adopted some practical and sensible way to save my husband......i would go to the end of this universe for the person i love the most....

ohhhhh it felt like appearing for an online exam....tired..but very nice..rekhadi still waiting for your PM

Would love to hear your answers on the above!

Cheers,

MT

PS: Loved your answers to my last Q&A!😃

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Originally posted by: mistletoe

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved? BANI!!

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally) JAI!

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love? PIA?? actually RANO!! even if she isn't added.. she and sahil found true love.. no obstacles.. no nothing!!

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons! BANI!! she's gone a long wayy for her love.. and her childhood is rather saddening.. she deserves it and secondly comes jai (he's had a tough time too)!! then pushkar (atleast he's got the love of his family.. look at JAI?? he's sister is plotting against him!!) and must i say pia (...🤢)

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons! PIA PIA AND PIA!! c'mon.. she left the one she loved for money!! argh....

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!) ill-matched?? how can you say that MT?? NAH! they're a really GREAT COUPLE i say!! MT, i am a JB camper.. i can't say anything against them!! even after the obstacles, they're hopelessly in love with each other.. jai still trusts bani!! and bani is doing everything in her power to save him!! and you say ill-matched? i think NOT!😃

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani? maybe.. because.. jai thought that wjhat he had with pia was love! and pia was in love with money which jai has.. they'd get what they wanted!!

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life? he will be racked with guilt and will find someway out so that he can be UNITED WITH HIS LADY LOVE!😉

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most? it's a facade.. true love can't be forgotten.. he has many times showed that he still loves her.. remember anu's baby shower?? he couldn't believe that he shouted at bani!!

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most? i am a forteen year old kid MT!

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I believe that bani has gne furthest for her love.
But she has manage dto damage everything araoun her in the process.
Which i guess is right!
I mean when yo usay you wil do anything you have to look at the bigger picture right!

Her happiness lies in his long term happines and i guess she lost sigh or even never assume( because of teh lack of communication between them) that his happiness was her.

I guess as i am in the same sort of positiion =, as in i m also in love with someone, my best friend even and i woud do anything, for him even if it means losing his friendship as he doesn't love me, but his happiness doesn't lie in my friendship onl . so i cann understanfd whta she is doin
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Originally posted by: mistletoe

Jai : Another person who took 40 years to find Love only to be let ruthlessly heartbroken and walked all over! He found Love again, in the form of a wife who cared and nurtured his broken heart with an impentrable silence and devotion and brought him back to Life! What lovely lines, MT, !👏👏

So, my question to you guys is :

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

No one other than Jai............. who will still give all the trust he has to his wife who, according to the evidences ,has betrayed him?

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)

Jai............being let down by all the three women in his life..high time you gave up, darling!

Pushkar......... the guy doesn't deserve all this, his own love called him a loser...........

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?

Jai definitely, to get such a caring and loving wife.though he has no idea!

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!

Jai and Pushkar, they both deserve all the love , have suffered enough!

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!

Pia.................. for her actions have proved to be doomsday for her lovers.. she has been playing around with other's heart,cracking people up, killing the meaning of the word "love"

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)

Well, their kundalis should have been checked before their marriage,..... they defintely don't match😆..............but Jai's heart desires and longs for Bani, and Bani's for Jai, so if that's how its to be, let it be so, maybe God even had that in his mind.and personally, I'm of the opinion that love marriages don't last long, and couples who fight will have a longer marriage, couples who have had a lot of yps and downs will be together other than those who call each other"sweety, honey"

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?

I've always thought about this...........Jai would have been definitely happy in the beggining, the two would have had a wonderful suhaag raat, but slowly, steadily, they would have ended up in divorce.

The only time he was happy with Bani, it lasted only for two days, I THINK THE LADY MEANT FOR JAI IS SOMEWHERE ELSE, AND NOT BANI , OR PIA!He! would have been happy with anybody else

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?

No, for, any sensible person would get all angry, and ask her why didn't you tell me all this at the beginning...don't you have even that much trust in me?.there would have been some other solution......

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?

No, because I think he is just making Bani depressed and letting her have a feel of all that he was going through..

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

First, I should change my profile and make my date of birth a bit more earlier, because, at 16(I turned 16 today! Happy birthday to me!), i can't really talk about love, But yes, I would do anything for him, that doesn't make him hate me!

Would love to hear your answers on the above!

Cheers,

MT

PS: Loved your answers to my last Q&A!😃

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Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?

Love is the most beautiful essence that one feels. Love happens in the most unexpected ways and when u least expect it. The same happened to Bani, Jai and Pushkar. I will get to Pia later.😉

Look at Jai and Bani two people who are poles apart have never thought they would spend their lives together. Yet the twist of fate, got them together and today they hold a stonger bond between them and they both realize that. I think both Bani and Jai have equally gone the furthest for their love.

Bani fell in love with Jai when she least expected it and nutured him back to life. And Jai fell in love with Bani after she kept winning his trust in the most unexpected manner. And Jai fell in love with her and at some level he knows this but yet he has not confessed his love to her directly.

Both Jai-Bani are today willing to scarifice each others happiness so the other can be happy. If they only knew that their happiness was being with each other and not being away from each other. The time has come for a confession and hopefully they will reunite soon for eternity.

That is what I hope for😉.

Pushkar a man who I think has habit of being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Pushkar fell in love with Pia and went through hell to get her and yet he ended up betrayed and hurt. Whether he will ever find love is yet to be seen. He went through a lot but yet stopped when he realized he was chasing a dream and his love will never return to him.

Pia does not love if it came and bit her. She is suferficial and materialistic and the only thing I can identify with Pia is her love for her sisters and that I feel can never be questioned. Maybe when the truth comes out seh will realize that what love is all about? And maybe give her marriage another chance.

Maybe I am hoping for the stars. But then hope prevails than better sense for me.......😆

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)

I think Jai Walia is the most let-down and betrayed character in love whether intentonally or unintentionally. He is the one who has always suffered the most. Whether it was Roshini or Pia. And now even Bani to a great extent. I am huge Bani fan. But I feel that some of the methods employed by "Devi Bani" are beyond me even.

I cannot identify with her not telling Jai the truth about miscarriage I mean the father has the right to know. And now she does not even want to tell him about the truth about PR incident for the fear that he may not give her divorce.

I mean spare a thought for Jai Walia, when he comes to know the truth I think he will break down completely. Knowing how his emotions have been played with. I am sure he will realize that Bani loves him so immensely but somewhere I think he will feel betrayed that she did not trust him to come to him.

I think when Jai comes to know the truth. He will not let Bani leave his life that is a given. Also, he should make Bani promise that she will never hide anything from him and tell him everything and he will do the same.

Hence, I think Jai will have healed if Bani uses her head and not her heart to think the next time something bad is to happen to any one of them.

Afterall, when u love someone there should be nothing left to hide u should be able to bear your soul to him/her.

I think that is what love is all about.

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?

I think Rano is the luckiest in love. She met Saahil fell in love and was able to marry him even with some difficulty. That is love when u are able to spend ur life with him/her.

I would have called Pia luckiest in love had she not left Pushkar and been with him through thick and thin.

Also, I think if Jai-Bani realize the love that they have for each other then there is no other couple but them I would say to be luckiest couple in love hands down.

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!

I think both Jai and Bani deserve to the loved. As both of them have gone through a lot in their lives and they both deserve happiness. I think both Jai-Bani realize that live without one another is no life at all. Both are going through rough times, but the foundation of their relationship is strong enough and it is this love they have for each other will bring them together.

After all, I think true loves always finds a way to come back to one that the heart desires the most. Hence, a song of Taal comes to mind,

"Dil ko choodkar kis raste woh Jaate hain,

Sara raste wapas mere dil ko aate hain,

Nahin saamne yeh alaag baat hai,

Mere saath hai to mere paas hai"

It is one of the most beautiful song that I feel defines the love Jai-Bani feel for each other.

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons!

I think Pia hands down should be one person who does not deserve to be loved. She has betrayed trust and emotions and used them to her convienence. I think she played with Jai and Pushkar's emotions and dumped them according to her needs.

Will she ever realize how superficial she is one? One can hope but then again she is Pia. I think Bani's scarifice may show her what love is all about and maybe Pia may redeem herself by giving her marriage with Pushkar another chance.

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)

They are one of the most odd couple but they both deserve each other. And the reason is both have found each other through trial and error in their relationship. Both have flaws and both have to an extent have accpeted each other. They both share a bond that cannot be broken.

I think Jai-Bani may have been the most ill-matched couple on Earth but both have nutured each other and the love, trust and the understanding that they share has made this marriage stronger.

And hence, I think they are made for each other.

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani?

That is a tough question to answer. But I think Dubai may show Jai the stark contrast between Pia and Bani. I think Jai will realize that he would have never been happy with Pia and that Bani is the one for him.

I think in Dubai Jai will also realize that what he feels for Bani is love and nothing but love. What he felt for Pia was once was love and now he has no feelings for her. And he will also find out that Pia had aborted her child and then Pia will fall from his graces forever.

I also believe that Jai will make Bani jealous with Pia and in the process come to know that Pia was never meant for him.

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?

I think Jai will be too shocked and stunned to speak or react to anything. He will breakdown for sure. For Jai, bani is not a part of his life. She has become his life. She rules his mind, body and soul so even if he wants to let her go he will try and fail miserably.

Heart always desires what it cannot have. Jai only knows that he wants Bani and no one else. And the further he tries to move away from her the more she has come closer to his heart.

Jai knows that Bani resides in his heart and nothing will ever take her away from him.

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?

Jai loves Bani hands down. He is so possessive of her that the thought that Bani once liked Pushkar made him so uneasy. Jai knows Bani also feels the same way. Jai loves Bani so immensely that he is hiding behind a facade because the thought of life without Bani scares Jai to no end. He feels he has found his soulmate in her and he is having a hard time to let go of her and Jai will never let Bani go.

Jai knows what Bani means to him and hence J-B will reunite forever.

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?

When u love someone, u would do anything to ensure their happiness. And I would give the world to be with someone who I love. And love is the most beautiful thing in this world. If I find someone I love I would move heaven and earth to be with her.

And to love and to be loved is the most beautiful essence and moment in this world.

This is what I feel.

Would love to know ur comments.

Happiness Always,

Manish

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How Far will you go for the One you Love?'

This thought provoking line is from the Movie 'Dor' which asks the viewer on the distance we would cover to protect and get back the one we love the most!

The overall theme of KS has been Love and the extent to which the characters have travelled to find their true love and protect them!

Lets take the four main character's one by one;

Bani : Oh, where do I even start on her! Bani has indeed travelled very, very far, not only in search of the one she loves but also to protect the man from doom! We won't talk about the methods she adopted to do so, but just look at the emotion behind her actions! Bani fell in love with someone whom she couldn't get and ended up marrying someone whom she didn't want! But true love found its way and she fell hopelessly and intensely in love with Jai. Bani sacrificed not only her happiness and future but also compromised on her self-respect, independence, family and her own personal security for protecting Jai! Bani is indeed still travelling for the man she loves, despite the fact that she has lost everything in the way, even the one she loves, yet her quest is not over and she has not given up on her Love!

Jai : Another person who took 40 years to find Love only to be let ruthlessly heartbroken and walked all over! He found Love again, in the form of a wife who cared and nurtured his broken heart with an impentrable silence and devotion and brought him back to Life! But lady luck never favoured Jai and he was let down once again (Or so he thinks) Jai covered his own distance for the one he loved, he not only fought against his beloved family, he was ready to give away ever single penny of his, if it could bring happiness to Bani. Jai has now given up, his saturation point of the relationship was the child that Bani was carrying and now that the child is no more, the distance that Jai covered for Bani has come to a full-stop!

Pia : Let her beloved sister down by running away with her lover and risked the ire of a powerful man! Personally speaking, I don't think Pia has travelled one bit for her love, because she has till date, not understood what love is! But I am sure there would be someone in the Forum who would think otherwise and hence I have added her name!

Pushkar : Once again, not only compromised on his loyalty to his Father like mentor, but also let his best friend down for the sake of the woman he loved! Fought with his family, fought with his ex-boss, fought with the whole world to be with the woman he loved only to be let down badly! Pushkar had tried to walk the steps back for Pia but gave up after she aborted her child. Just like Jai, Pushkar's standpoint of the realtionship he shared with Pia came to a break and he no longer wants to travel any further for his Love.

So, my question to you guys is :

Which character amongst Bani, Jai, Pia and Pushkar have gone the furthest for the ones they loved?Bani

Which character has been the most let-down and betrayed in Love?(Intentionally or Unintentionally)Jai

Which character do you think has been the luckiest in Love?Jai,becoz through Pia's betrayal,he found true love.....

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Most? Give your reasons!Jai,because he was so love deprived and that made him so bitter.......that changed,when Bani came in his life!With Baby Krishna's death,his dream to become a father and shower that love,to his child died also😭as of right now,he needs all the love he could get.....

Which character do you think deserves to be Loved the Least? Give your reasons! PIA😡

Do you think that Jai and Bani really deserve one another? Or do you think that they are the most ill-matched couple on Earth? (I am not talking about Need here!)Yes,they do deserve each other.Only problem is that they need to discuss and share they're feelings,which they never do😕

Hypothetical Question : Do you feel that however superficial and money-minded Pia might be, Jai would have been happier with her than he was ever with Bani? Maybe!Because Jai,didn't had the soft heart,like he has now.........Pia would've been busy spending all his wealth and poor Jai,be too busy working to cover her expenses!Both wouldn't have time to think about love,n both would've been happy in their world thinking that they found true love.....

Do you think that Jai should be racked with guilt and misery when he comes to know the truth behind Bani's actions or should he just let go of Bani and move on with his Life?No,i think Jai should feel gulity and accept Bani with love and respect.......

Do you think that Jai has genuinly given up on his Love for Bani and truly despises her or is it just a facade to hide his own intense feelings for the woman he has loved the most?This is Jai Walia,we're talking about hun!No way,he's gonna let go the true love of his life.Right now Jai is trying his best to suppress,his feeling.....he lost his child and now he thinks that Bani aborted his child on purpose....he might have some resement towards her,but he honestly couldn't despise Bani

Personal Question : How far would you go for the one person whom you love the most?I don't believe in love,so can't answer that......

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