Farewell IPKKND, Sorry, Sanaya

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am very sad today ... very, very sad. And ashamed as well.

The demand for a happy ending for fictional characters, has hurt real people ... their jobs, their livelihoods, and their real life friendships. Today when I saw Sanaya crying, shooting alone on the last day ...a day which should NOT have been the last day, but the first day of a second innings, I felt incredibly selfish for even for a moment feeling happy that the show has ended, just so that my fictional Arnav and Khushi could live happily ever after.

Sanaya and the rest of the cast were happy to continue working even with crappy scripts ... my response as a viewer should have been limited to switching off the TV if I did not want to watch. It should not have extended making unreasonable demands that eventually ended their jobs.

I know many of you felt that you wanted a happy ending to the Arnav Khushi love story - you all know I never did, I wanted the show to continue. Yesterday I tried to make peace with the show ending with that view - that I could live with my happy ending. Today I realise I cannot ... because seeing Sanaya alone in tears hurts me FAR MORE than seeing Khushi in tears onscreen would ever have done. And even in her own sadness, she remembered to worry about the crew who would be jobless at such short notice. Reminds me - if I needed any reminder - as to why I not only admire the actress, but also the person, Sanaya Irani.

I have very close friends visiting ... and even midst all the fun here, I cannot stop feeling bad for my sunshine girl and the others, Daljeet, NK, who made sure they were there for her at the end.

ALL my prayers go out to whoever is listening ... I want Sanaya and the other actors back on screen as soon as possible, and this time in a show which respects her talent. If I email Star Plus ... which I plan to do ... it will be to request them to bring Sanaya back on screen as soon as possible.

Sanaya, I have never loved and respected a screen actor as much as I do you. God bless you ... best wishes from the bottom of my heart.

Best wishes to the rest of the cast and crew of IPKKND as well.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sanaya and the rest of the cast were happy to continue working even with crappy scripts ... my response as a viewer should have been limited to switching off the TV if I did not want to watch. It should not have extended making unreasonable demands that eventually ended their jobs.
This right here, you said it! If we didn't like it we should have stopped watching instead of making these demands. I feel so bad right now seeing Sanaya crying made me realise that what we did was extremely wrong. At the same time my respect for her has grown so much! I was also going on about sarun, sarun and sarun. But i mean if we had given it a chance things might have been different. If only i could rewind back in time 😭 I really wish as well that all the cast and crew get pulled back in some way or the other and we get to see daljeet, nk, Sanaya, and everyone else in other shows. It will be sad not seeing them together but they don't deserve us...actually this show doesnt deserve us as fans. We have done so much injustice to it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Standing up for the "rights" of one person has meant the loss of the right to work on a show that the others wanted to.

It truly is a sad day.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanakadevi

Sanaya and the rest of the cast were happy to continue working even with crappy scripts ... my response as a viewer should have been limited to switching off the TV if I did not want to watch. It should not have extended making unreasonable demands that eventually ended their jobs.

This right here, you said it! If we didn't like it we should have stopped watching instead of making these demands. I feel so bad right now seeing Sanaya crying made me realise that what we did was extremely wrong. At the same time my respect for her has grown so much! I was also going on about sarun, sarun and sarun. But i mean if we had given it a chance things might have been different. If only i could rewind back in time 😭 I really wish as well that all the cast and crew get pulled back in some way or the other and we get to see daljeet, nk, Sanaya, and everyone else in other shows. It will be sad not seeing them together but they don't deserve us...actually this show doesnt deserve us as fans. We have done so much injustice to it.



Thank you for supporting me! I made this point many times in discussions with friends ... but the general feeling was that no, we deserve a good ending to the Arnav Khushi story. My mistake ... I did not oppose this feeling strongly enough. I knew it was a wrong argument ... but I couldn't quite put my finger on why it felt so wrong.

Today when I saw Sanaya crying, and through her tears wishing for the crew to get jobs soon, I realised why I had felt something so essentially WRONG with what everyone was demanding. And I think anyone with the slightest conscience would feel the same way.

I know that in all probability the show would have shut down in a couple of months anyway ... but maybe by some miracle if it didn't ... if the makers managed to revive it, we might have gotten another good story, another few months of entertainment. And if it didn't ... well, at the very least, that cast and crew would have had a decent notice period to start looking for other jobs. And I would not have the guilt today that I do feel ... the guilt that I did not raise my voice to oppose something I felt all along was wrong. I didn't demand for the show to be shut down ... very true. But neither did I oppose the demand loudly enough.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i became a sanaya fan from IPK.. havent seen her from other shows, but her poise and ease of getting under the skin of the character.. the simply amazing way she brought out the honesty in khushi.. her heartbreak, her love, her anger... sanaya truly lit up khushi from within... made every female audience identify with her at certain moments in the show.. provided the PERFECT contrast for arnav's anger and hate and love and frustration..

it is not a fluke that the show drove on sarun/arshi for 6 months (they were onscreen for 15/20 minutes everyday!. yes, sarun broke their backs working, but we havent heard even an uff from sanaya publicly.

and the recent SPL in Birmingham cemented it.. two dances while jetlagged and the meetings, fans, interviews, the travel, the practices.. wow. is she really human ?

yes, i love barun as ASR.. but i love him with sanaya as khushi.
true, arshi would not have happened without SI.

and today, seeing her breaking down about her teammates.. sigh. makes me wanna go up there and demand a reinstatement. makes me wanna hug a cuddly body and cry for hours.. makes me feel that i , as a fan, let her down.

I'm sorry, sanaya. may all happiness come to you, it is all you deserve.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PinkPari

Standing up for the "rights" of one person has meant the loss of the right to work on a show that the others wanted to.


It truly is a sad day.



I am feeling terrible ... Today I feel like starting a petition of my own ... to bring back those actors, that cast and crew ... who gave me so many hours of good entertainment. And I will even sit through crap for them ... it's not like I have discovered a hundred other wonderful shows on TV that deserve to be on air other than IPKKND. In fact, on its worst days, IPKKND is still better than the MAJORITY of current shows.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you for this post! The entire team did not anticipate this and I, personally was not up for closing down the show hence no support for that.

Yes, I wanted an Arnav and Khushi ending with Barun and Sanaya but I also understand that Barun did not want to continue because his heart was not with the show and I respect that.

If you did not want to watch Khushi with another character, it was much more simple to turn off the television. Protests, demands, ultimatums, petitions gave us nothing. Barun did not shoot the last episode with Sanaya!

If the TRPs would've dipped, it would've automatically alerted the PH and channel that people did not want to watch the show anymore and they would've given it a much more thoughtful and graceful ending not an abrupt one and no one would've felt as bad as we're all feeling today - including the cast and crew. If it would've gone the normal way how a show shuts down, it wouldn't have been so bad.

But then again, whatever happens, happens for a reason. No point crying over something that's already happened. All we can do is cherish the journey of IPK, wish everyone the best of luck and hope to watch them in future projects! I hope they all do very well - the channel, PH, cast & crew!
Edited by kashforlifex - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey dont leave...
we have to make sanaya female lead of another show...bhansali's upcoming show will be very good for her..pls mail star plus so that they cast her as female lead
hello@startv.com
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Diya, thanks for the post and good to know that u felt the same thing, yes. I very much thought that. Ipk deserved a second chance.
May be it would have shut down may be not, now we will never come to know, I never thought of writing to. Sp, now may be I will,
I had already decided that I will watch. Any new viraf show. Even it is crap, I will do the same for sanaya too ,

Yes I miss arhi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey Diya

long time saw ur post...yes its really sad that the phenomenon called IPK is ending... but one thing is really baffling...I have been following all the demand girls post and the main demand from all of them was just to end the Arnav-Khushi part on a happy note... we (me included) had given them so many ideas...like a generation leap or a frsh story with Sanaya and Viraf

But they were hell bent on either replacing Barun or getting Viraf as a new character for Khushi... we had also said that if they want a tragedy then show Khushi has becoming a strong woman rather then marrying some other guy... or best show a romeo juliet ending...if they want a tragedy...

but for some unknown reason they chose to end it altogether, now we are all feeling guilty... but somewhere i still wonder... is it really cause of us or is there something which we dont know...

now i heard that the PH's other weekend show is also under scanner...


Edited by anjs - 13 years ago

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