My take : Deal with it Note page 6 - Page 4

Originally posted by: poshah

Angie you remem my name 😆..Well I didn't want to get you into that issue of remem names of all the fly by guests..so you can call me by my id too whenever you forget no issues 😆 !! Actually now I find BALH and BV only decent forums/episodes..so keep coming here at times.

And trust me the table tennis match between Priya/Ram is getting on my nerves. I think directors are doing a season1 re-run..so cant fault Priya who is kinda hell bent on fault finding everything in Ram..But you know on the other hand..it is him only who she openly criticizes..so I think somewhere behind the bickering the love shove/emotions are all there...their love is coming out as criticism..where both fight with each other..but still don't stop talking to each other...it reminds me of some of my fights with my friends..where we never tire arguing with each other ..and finally biwi ka ek hi kaam hota hai..apne husband ko sudharna /har baat par tokna😆

Neha, yes she is just running away... hopefully they will turn around soon. There is just one thing that i haven't understood both Neha/Priya are like why cant others forgive us. I want to tell them, well you made a mistake (intentionally or unintentionally), so you have to bear its consequences and give your spouses some time..Finally they will accept you but they need time..

Originally posted by: fosla

I guess the compliments are mutual. So there.

Maybe Iam missing the point just like the rest of us who are not seeing it. But yeh chillana apparently ek side se nahi ho raha hai. Baat karne se accha apni behavior theek karegi Priya toh sab theek ho jayega. But nahi. Unko toh har cheez main problem hai. Har cheez keliye hazaar sawaal poochna hai.

Yeh saare problems madam ki muft ki advice nahi follow karne se hua hai. Dubai flight pakad ne se pehle baat ki hoti toh kya pata aaj yeh din nahi dekhna hoga

Aap ki muft ki comment keliye thanks. Waise bhi ,hum log comment keliye paisa nahi maangte.

Jaise Ram Ki fans comment is totally applicable for other side. But instead of mocking people, we would atleast discuss it and criticize.

Originally posted by: fosla

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I was out yday and returned late evening. So missed the episode and making the take. I can't relate to her. I see moments of Priya Kapoor but the rest is just wishy washy

Am sure that even if she was in KM her response for school uniforms would be the same.you know her na always keeps saying why wasting money just like she did during handbag episode.Kapoor ya Sarma she will be priya always.

fantastic take once again di.. Specially ur note to CVs is what i even we all want to say. Thankx a lot Rockstar Angie di 4 writing all these on our behalf.

Fosila , let me first tell u something, as addicted i'm 2 the serial i'm addicted 2 ur take also, so when u miss writing i get all kinds of withdrawal symptoms! So a request 2 u , kindly issue a warning that ur takes can b infectious!!!!!😉
So 4 once the articles were right & its officially out that its Neha's child, but i don't think the issue is being handled well. Don't know why its made out 2 be a boy\girl thing! Hope the cvs handle this better. Priya lucky girl!! see how concerned Ram is!! but what 2 do she doesn't seem 2 realise it & all she sees like some of us in the forum is his shouting. Though she did react the same way in season 1 also , there was more sincerity as 2 her luv 4 ram then , i felt. Now its simply making a fuss.
But actually i think all this is a warming up 2 the real big fight. When Ram gets 2 know that she accepted rajjo's bookstore as a gift , all hell will break lose.The cvs should b ------🤬 4 doing this 2 Priya's character, she can see the privilage of having a friend like Rajat but not the luv of Ram.Fosila as u said 2 matters hav 2 b dealt with urgently--- Priya's priorities & Ram's marriage 2 conda.

Cooldreams Hai, Can I hit the like button more than once!!????-----U mentioned many things i wanted 2 say . thanks.😆

Originally posted by: cooldreams

Wow..What an amazing post and tremendous responses and POVs. Neha has finally spoken...hurray. I've few points to add here on Priya-Neha convo.

I loved how Neha felt the need to tell Priya everything about Rehan and what caused the divorce..But I found a disconnect in her story as to what had happened exactly between Vikram-Neha after revelation that eventually led to the divorce.

How did Vikram come to know abt Rehan..was it either thru Rehan or Neha or somebody else?

What does Rehan want from Vikram & Neha now?

Where is Rehan's Dad? Is he alive? Was he not able to track his biological dad just like he did with Neha?

I agree Neha is strong and courageous enough to accept her mistakes. She confessed to Priya and I don't find fault with Neha here. But when Rehan popped up from nowhere one fine day, what happened is still a mystery. Any story has two sides..Even though Neha repeats it all the time...we have tried all ways but no solution...It's not all. There's more to the story which still needs to be out.

Coming to Vikram, I don't think he's a typical Indian Man as the two intelligent ladies have put it out. Since Season 1, we have known Vikram as a most-balanced and sensible person, exercising right judgement in most situations much better than others. There are few glimpses of his character in season 2 as well...to name a few.

1. Trasferring Shergill house and car to Neha's name...so that she can be financially secure. - Sorry..but any husband who is not willing to let go his wife's mistakes will NEVER do this. Instead he'll throw the wifey & illegitimate kid out. And keep his kids, house and Car with himself.

2. He didn't send Neha away even after knowing the truth...and even after the party night. It's Neha who left the kids and home and Vikram supported her decision as a friend.

3. His concern for his wife, and a casual stop by at her new place to see how things are for her.

4. Willing to celebrate their 17th anniversary and for that matter few earlier anniversaries, even knowing about Rehan, And trying to set a good and peaceful environment for the kids.

Neha's mention of Indian Men being able to forgive but not forget pissed me off. Being a woman doesn't make them weak and abla type. Like Priya said, Mistakes are done and in the past and they should not let it ruin the present. But I'm more interested in what arguments had happened between Vik-Neha. I am more keen to listen to Vikram's version too before giving my favoritism.

On the contrary, if Rehan had turned out to be Vikram's illegitimate kid, how would've Neha reacted?

All I wanted to say is that, it's not as simple as switch on/off to overlook things as critical as this for a man or a woman. It's no where an issue of feminism or male chauvinism. Can Vikram-Neha keep their past behind and move forward? yes it can happen. but It depends on how the people involved are handling this issue. Depends on what's their stand on this issue? How remorseful they are and how keen are they on mending things back to normal. So I feel the puzzles is still missing some pieces.

Lately I don't know what else to say abt Priya...I'm running out of words..looking at her screaming and fighting with Ram all the time. Sometimes I wonder, is she the same person who was in season 1. Whatever Ram has to say about Peehu, pat comes her reply to prove her point. It's evident she's still not ready to share Peehu with Ram even though she keeps saying I want Ram to get involved in all matters related to Peehu..blah blah. But No...her actions don't mean a thing to me. She has a looong way to go to win Ram. I'm so annoyed with her computer delivery...so what's the big deal? Why do u have to call him and nag about it? How much space does a pillow take for storage? 🤣 Don't know why AC is not needed for a 5 year old...but 15 year old needs it. Sachi mein she's Mrs.Ghatkopar. She has a problem with everything related to Ram...his name...!! I'm very very disappointed with Priya's dialogues and her fights..nagging. When Ram is making all efforts to put up with this drama queen, why is she quarreling in front of Peehu & delivery guys on phone? Can't she take the call offline and show some sensitivity towards Ram's feelings...as to why he's doing it. I regret to say...but she's getting on my nerves these days.

The point still remains- its vikram not neha who's asked for a divorce and despite all his great qualities - by the way if he insists on divorce, then none of the things u've mentioned helps. For me what has happened does not hold neha guilty of anything - its one of those misfortunes life sometimes throws on us - and marriages and relationships are tested when this happens.
Its all fine to be supportive, but man you've been asking for a divorce for this ??? the least u can do then is be supportive ! ...what kind of a moralistic puritanical statement is this - neha is seen several times trying to persuade him otherwise , but he's been firm where divorce was concerned - so what is the understanding about??? looking after the kids for a few days on her loosing nerve one day when she's looked after them for seventeen years???letting her have the house etc as settlement? if u're divorcing your wife for such reasons, this is the least expected out of you ! especially if she's been a housewife with nothing of her own who's being divorced for something like this !...infact her behaviour becomes much more excusable and human now ! obviously after long negotiations, if she lost nerve at one moment , it only shows how responsible and guilty she feels when she shouldnt actually! And vik's understanding also becomes more human for when u're not seen as the guilty party , its much more easier for you to take charge!!...but there is definately no denying that it is he who needs to come to terms with it however difficult and however hurt he might feel !! divorce is ridiculous ! on what grounds??? if neha hadnt agreed, even the court would not allow it for such reasons!...

obviously if a man like vikram cannot come to terms with this, she will be moved to comment on it - its not a crime !!! he has been unable to forget ! she could have either said it was a personal failing on his part or a general trait - she chose the latter instead of blaming him personally!!...and if we have to wait and see what was the nature of negotiation ( though nothing that they've shown till now with vik's constant determination to go ahead with the divorce despite her pleadings etc negates the fact that she was justified in commenting) then why judge her immediately for making this statement ? why get so pissed with her so quickly for one line against vikram in an entire discussion where she was nothing but understanding and appreciative of him otherwise ??? its intolerance if just because one has preference for vik's character , one cannot even bear that ! ...vikram can also be shown as human in asking for a divorce , but that has to be shown as a human failing on his part, it does not justify that stand at all!!!!!...and at a general level, i'm sorry, but the statement holds true even today for a vast section of indian men who still cannot take such things so the comment in itself was not misplaced at all - thats the way most men would treat this issue - so whats there to get pissed ? if u say vik's not like that nor is every man, i would agree , but vik's divorce demand is not what agrees with this over here .
At the very least - In trying to build suspense , CVs have really muddled it all up ! if they hadnt shown vik constantly pushing for it in previous episodes i would have agreed the statement, however true generally , was not justified here !

As to how neha would have reacted - i dont know but i sure would have judged her too if she'd pushed for a divorce. I just cannot understand how a divorce agreement is justified for something like this than vikram alongwith neha coming to terms with it as a twist of destiny !!