My take : Deal with it Note page 6

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Finally the biggest mystery is solved. 😆 Rehaan is indeed Neha's illegitimate child. What a hatke story. I mean hats off to the makers to be able to make the woman relatable by being human and commit mistakes. Woot to self for guessing it!😆
Sakshi Tanwar was brilliant today. It was an out and out Ladies episode with Tarana who was equally outstanding.
Moments of the day :
1) She is Pihu Ram Kapoor . DEAL WITH IT! Loved how Ram asks Priya to deal with the Ram Kapoor name. Finally it was so overdue.
2) Pita ka Pyaar😆 Yes. it was a laughathon moment with the sarcasm.
3) The silence of Priya's face when she was all out to expect it was Vikram's child and realized she was wrong.
4) Neha's conversation with Priya selectively. Because some of it was clear satyanash.
5) Priya's concern about handling the goods safely to the delivery guys.
6) Neha's acceptance of being a coward runninga way and letting vikram handle it. Also about the good things on Vikram and finding true love.
7) Priya praising Neha for handing it inspite of such a heavy past.
8) Neha's conflicted feelings on still born kid and the reality of he mom lying about it.
WTH moments of the day:
1) Yeh har baat pe Mr Kappoor Mr Kapooor bolte hain naah. I mean really..Iam back to calling her Priya Sharma till she proves to be Kapoor.
2) Baat karo yaar. Sab theek ho jayega.. Like really? How about use that muft ka advice on ur own marriage.
3) Neha's super hyper reactions with Rehaan. OTT took a new meaning today.
4) That Narisakti about Hum auraten hai. Indian men can forgive not forget was just not the mature dialogues I was expecting. If anything it just diluted the whole attempt at seeing the good husband and friend Vikram was all this while.
5) Pihu is 5 years old. But she isn't stupid. After all those attempts, she stil got up on the stage and talked about the fights. Now why would there be zabardasti nok jhoks?
Note to Cvs : It's that time again when Patience kinda runs out on seeing how the track is developing.
We love nok-jhoks. I did send a note earlier about how this was so Season1 RaYa and we enjoyed it initially. We took the Cakewaala love and the admission waaala love putting logic aside about which principal today would check parents cooking and co ordination ability to give a seat to the kid. But there is a huge elephant in the room. It was beautifuly brought out when Ram finally comes up and tells the principal about the emotional baggage. Now what follows shouldn't it be a reflection of those or is it a open and shut case with a sorry for all this?
This to me looks like there is nothing but a solid fight to be holding onto Pihu. Priya isn't looking ahead and so is Ram. Where is that emotional side of Priya who should melt on seeing the effort Ram is taking to make it to the school on merit and the right procedure instead of using his power? We rather hear the complaint about hw she doesn't want it to be Ram kapoor's name getting Pihu everything. Lady open your eyes. He is standing there in line, making preparations overnight, pleading with a principal for a chance and even coming up with ideas to impress and willing to co operate with you for preparing cake and follow instructions.
Now wouldnt' that be followed up by Priya letting him take the lead on sharing the happiness? He sends stuff and informs you too earlier. How about just NOT COMPLAINING For a moment and taking things up to please your husband. For God's sake, you ran away and came back and still the man is putting efforts to put up with you for the kid. RECIPROCATE.
Desktops and A/c's are not luxuries but has become a middle class part of life too.
DEAL with it
Your husband is Ram Kapoor. Just like you have expectations for your kid so does he.
DEAL with it
You have been darling of your papa. So is Pihu for her Dad.
DEAL with it
You have made a mistake that isn't going to change by turning back time. Start setting things right instead of planning a party.
DEAL with it.
Mr Ram kapoor repeated I married you to Ayesha Sharma isn't helping.
Time to DEAL with it.
Neha Shergill
Dumping your ex flame's kid isn't about Indian men's ability to not forget but a mistake on your end. That's not a reflection of him but you. For a woman who has always doubted her husband with every Tina, Mina and Bina, and climbing ladders, getting jasoosi butler, you sure have the nerve to say the auraten have no options.
DEAL WIHT IT
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Posted: 13 years ago
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don't like that conversation...specially when neha referring vikram as typical indian man...don't know what she wan't to justify...like she was right and because vikram is such typical man he don't accept such thing...too bad
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@yogesh exactly that dialogue was such a shit man indian men forgive but dont forget.galti karo aur usko bhi patiyonpo thopo n nice take angie epi was good precap was hilarious some dialogues are really good but this is dragging yar party vil be next week i guess
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good work angie.did u do it yesterday?missed it.but loved it today.ya you are correct she wasnt kapoor today but i felt she wasnt either Sharma just Priya uski rantigs in season 1 about wasting money are still fresh for me.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well vikram is the one who presumably still wants the divorce- he has obviously asked her to make a choice. She accepted everything today, her fears , vik's love and friendship - she was as frank as she could be. If divorce is still happening then its obviously despite all the talk, vikram has not been able to take it - and i'm sorry, despite being a great person , thats a fault on his part - neha's past even before she met him should not lead to such a pass that neha has to move ahead with the divorce - come on , which age do we live in - we expect our partners to be virgins ?? she did try telling him about the past. if anybody has to take a decision , its vikram - whether he can accept her or not and i would really judge him if after seventeen years of a perfect marriage, he decides he cant take her past when she was a seventeen year old girl!!!!... 'Indian men can forgive not forget' obviously comes from her take on vikram's inability to deal with her past despite everything and despite his being a great guy - she was as fair as possible to him , she did not want to blame him personally so its a way of consoling yourself by saying your partner's inability to take things comes from his being a man rather than his individual traits !! ...whether he agrees with the statement or not - its a woman who loves a man and is torn by her past while trying to cope with her partners inability to cope - she doesnt want to blame him personally... Also i would have judged neha also for being deeply conservative and moralistic if vikram was the one who had this past and she was unable to take it !...in this day and age to expect our partners would have no past is really absurd , neha herself did not know about the child - she's not even guilty of deception !

i have no words for galti karo aur pati pe thopo - what kind of a worldview is this - women cannot have a past ?? she has been a loyal wife and mother, thop to kuch nahin rahi hai , sirf itna kaha ki woh uska past nahin le pa raha hai jo ki woh nahi le paa raha hai . ab woh kya kare - rehan is there - both neha and vikram have to deal with it !!!
as for priya not followinng that advice in her own marriage- after that idiotic leap that cv's took, she's just been trying since they met again to talk , ram still needs sometime for that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rehana11

Well vikram is the one who presumably still wants the divorce- he has obviously asked her to make a choice. She accepted everything today, her fears , vik's love and friendship - she was as frank as she could be. If divorce is still happening then its obviously despite all the talk, vikram has not been able to take it - and i'm sorry, despite being a great person , thats a fault on his part - neha's past even before she met him should not lead to such a pass that neha has to move ahead with the divorce - come on , which age do we live in - we expect our partners to be virgins ?? she did try telling him about the past. if anybody has to take a decision , its vikram - whether he can accept her or not and i would really judge him ifafter seventeen years of a perfect marriage, he decides he cant take her past when she was a seventeen year old girl!!!!...
as for priya not falling that advice in her own marriage- after that idiotic leap that cv's took, she's just been trying since they met again to talk , ram still needs sometime for that.

Rehana
This coming from someone who had insecurities throughout her married life with Vikram, doubting every little action of his and doing jassosi on her husband when he denies there isnothing. Ofcourse its a big deal.
HIding one's child like what Priya did isn't about men being forgiving. Which world do we live?
If Vikram's not dealing with it because he finds it hard of seeing a kid is a huge mistake of Indian men. He has handled the kids after Neha's cowardly walk out by himself, handled her inspite of it being her mistake. If u hear the dialogues Neha herself says Vikram told her not to bother about the past as all of them did.
For heaven's sake, Vikram has been a character which has been flawless in the whole show. His compassionate side and understanding of handling Neha who turns to a toddler for most parts with tantrums does't gel with the dialogue of Indian men.
I wouldnt' mind PRiya not talking and explaining. Except how she came up the reason not to show the softening part instead of arguing on every bit and complaining about everything.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: yogesh.jadhav

don't like that conversation...specially when neha referring vikram as typical indian man...don't know what she wan't to justify...like she was right and because vikram is such typical man he don't accept such thing...too bad

I agree!! That dialogue was surely so not required. And it kinda ruined the mood
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rkstlove

@yogesh exactly that dialogue was such a shit man indian men forgive but dont forget.galti karo aur usko bhi patiyonpo thopo n nice take angie epi was good precap was hilarious some dialogues are really good but this is dragging yar party vil be next week i guess

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Totally agree! Loved the precap except that arguing part.Ms Ghatgopar😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: armanz

Good work angie.did u do it yesterday?missed it.but loved it today.ya you are correct she wasnt kapoor today but i felt she wasnt either Sharma just Priya uski rantigs in season 1 about wasting money are still fresh for me.

Arman
I was out yday and returned late evening. So missed the episode and making the take. I can't relate to her. I see moments of Priya Kapoor but the rest is just wishy washy
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: fosla

Rehana
This coming from someone who had insecurities throughout her married life with Vikram, doubting every little action of his and doing jassosi on her husband when he denies there isnothing. Ofcourse its a big deal.
HIding one's child like what Priya did isn't about men being forgiving. Which world do we live?
If Vikram's not dealing with it because he finds it hard of seeing a kid is a huge mistake of Indian men. He has handled the kids after Neha's cowardly walk out by himself, handled her inspite of it being her mistake. If u hear the dialogues Neha herself says Vikram told her not to bother about the past as all of them did.
For heaven's sake, Vikram has been a character which has been flawless in the whole show. His compassionate side and understanding of handling Neha who turns to a toddler for most parts with tantrums does't gel with the dialogue of Indian men.
I wouldnt' mind PRiya not talking and explaining. Except how she came up the reason not to show the softening part instead of arguing on every bit and complaining about everything.




Again my point remains the same , this is not something which happened post vikram , it happened much before he even entered her life so there's no comparison with her reactions on his present day dealings post their marriage !!... besides those were clearly part of a husband wife nok jhonk - she never walked out or considered anything serious there ... again as i said , i would have judged her totally also if she was unable to take vikram's past before they even met - in this day and age !! ...if vikram cannot come to terms with it, well then i would judge him for something that immature- love and understanding means you are able to empathise and deal with such emotions when its hardly a case of betrayal - she did not even know about the child , and she had tried telling him about the past - even if she did not, what happened before they met is not what should matter, as long as she was there for him - for the best years and best part of her life devoted to this family!!

'Indian men can forgive not forget' obviously comes from her take on vikram's inability to deal with her past despite everything and despite his being a great guy - she was as fair as possible to him , she did not want to blame him personally so its a way of consoling yourself by saying your partner's inability to take things comes from his being a man rather than his individual traits !!

And really , its the cv's fault if vikram's flawless character is destroyed like this - for if he's unable to come to terms with something like this, how is he the understanding liberal man we've seen so far ????


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