Why a Home Wrecker is always a Woman? - Page 15

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o


What I want Arnav to do is pay attention to Khushi's insecurities instead of brushing them as trivial or unimportant. He needs to understand that just because something is not of any importance to him, does not mean it isn't important to Khushi either. If she has a concern, that needs to be addressed. And if Sheetal is as unimportant to him as he claimed, then not appointing her at his workplace should not be a problem. He can find another designer and with her talent, Sheetal can find another job.

Today CVs went the typical martyr route of SP bahus who bring their own ruin to their home because of some noble cause. Her concern of Aarav ruining her life was very human. She did have problems since he arrived, then why turn and show that she herself invited them over? I mean how do we bridge between these two scenes? Also, if she was that tensed while Sheetal was not there, how jumpy she will be if Sheetal is under the same roof. And knowing CVs, they will show Khushi making a food of herself in front of Sheetal while she takes away the cake being dignified. Which is why, I am not watching the episodes anymore until this track is over.


Exactly my thoughts too Tia, I don't want to see Khushi being silly and over dramatic because at the end of the day, she is very different to ASR whereas Sheetal and him have many similarities and by bringing her into the home may spark whatever it was that made them click in college. I mean they keep showing Arnav telling Khushi he finds her nautanki/ sanka Devi attitude funny and cute but he may get tempted to have more and more conversations with Sheetal about work/ college/ old days etc. and that will just make Khushi more insecure as though she will feel the odd one out. They are making Khushi act dumb whereas at the start she gave ASR every bit as good as she got, she challenged him and used brains and dialogue which was smart and intelligent which is what attracted him to her, now shes been dumbed up and made to look like a fool, and again in this drama we see her goodness to others being turned into her torture...I hope they show her eventual victory in a huge way otherwise this track really sucks.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Shyam isn't just a home-wrecker..He's a life-wrecker...
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Posted: 13 years ago
somebody please get me the old IPK back 😆 just kidding 😉

lovely discussion Tia...esp enjoyed ur and Nymra's debate...both have some very good points...mostly i agree with Tia's POV...

yes the whole responsibility of Khushi's happiness lies with Arnav ...he is the one, the only relation that is her own in the true sense, which she needn't share with anybody, if somebody comes to share even this, and he gives that woman the access, knowing very well that Khushi is so upset that she isn't even sleeping at night, then its his fault...

Here, in this case Arnav hiring his ex, implies that he is clear bt his feelings...when he says it means nothing then it actually means nothing...so mayb when he says it means nothing then he knows for sure that Aarav can never be his son...maybe their relationship dint progress to that level (m not stating that arnav is a virgin) this is just an assumption...

as of now Khushi has told him that she is cool about Sheetal, there is also mis-communication here, cause Arnav hasnt told her that now Sheetal is an AR employee...maybe in future when he feels how restless Khushi has become he will realize that keeping Sheetal around isn't good for them...if despite realizing her restlessness, he doesnt do anything then he is more to b blamed...cause if that happens then Khushi is make a diff conclusion and gonna leave for the sake of aarav...





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Posted: 13 years ago
Watching todays epi one things clear men are men, they will never understand!! your post was neutral man!!

Cheers :)
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: anjs

somebody please get me the old IPK back 😆 just kidding 😉


lovely discussion Tia...esp enjoyed ur and Nymra's debate...both have some very good points...mostly i agree with Tia's POV...

yes the whole responsibility of Khushi's happiness lies with Arnav ...he is the one, the only relation that is her own in the true sense, which she needn't share with anybody, if somebody comes to share even this, and he gives that woman the access, knowing very well that Khushi is so upset that she isn't even sleeping at night, then its his fault...

Here, in this case Arnav hiring his ex, implies that he is clear bt his feelings...when he says it means nothing then it actually means nothing...so mayb when he says it means nothing then he knows for sure that Aarav can never be his son...maybe their relationship dint progress to that level (m not stating that arnav is a virgin) this is just an assumption...

as of now Khushi has told him that she is cool about Sheetal, there is also mis-communication here, cause Arnav hasnt told her that now Sheetal is an AR employee...maybe in future when he feels how restless Khushi has become he will realize that keeping Sheetal around isn't good for them...if despite realizing her restlessness, he doesnt do anything then he is more to b blamed...cause if that happens then Khushi is make a diff conclusion and gonna leave for the sake of aarav...






Originally posted by: TwilightStar_JP

Watching todays epi one things clear men are men, they will never understand!! your post was neutral man!!


Cheers :)




I just read written update today. But one thing stood out in my mind.

Isn't it funny that Arnav realized that Khushi might be jealous of having Sheetal under the same roof for one night so he does not want Sheetal to stay there, yet he does not realize that she will be far more jealous of having Sheetal in the same office everyday and yet offered her a job.

Another inconsistency or just pure insensitivity?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o



Isn't it funny that Arnav realized that Khushi might be jealous of having Sheetal under the same roof for one night so he does not want Sheetal to stay there, yet he does not realize that she will be far more jealous of having Sheetal in the same office everyday and yet offered her a job.

Another inconsistency or just pure insensitivity?


i wrote exactly the same thing in one of the other topics...i guess the cv's read our views yesterday and tried to mend ASR a bit...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Great post Tia!

Agreed 100%.

Thank you!

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