Why a Home Wrecker is always a Woman?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post Tia. You have really analyzed it well.

I have to agree with you completely. If Sheetal was a positive character, I definitely would have accepted that he was happy and I would have left him alone. I would not accept his job offer because I know it makes me uncomfortable and I would just leave. It's as simple as that.

If Sheetal was negative, then yeah, she would definitely try to somehow plan her way into the RM using her son.

Now considering what you have said about Arnav, I think that is a great viewpoint. You are completely correct when you said that Arnav and his family are the shield for Khushi. If they somehow alllow Sheetal to penetrate through their walls, then Khushis the one being negatively affected.

We always claim that it was another woman who breaks marriages. But we conveniently forget that without your man's help, it's never possible. If my husband understand his limits and does not mix his past with his current personal or professional life, no woman can do anything to break any marriages.
I completely agree with you on this viewpoint. Arnav in no means should look at Sheetal as a "good friend" because if she is negative, she will definitely use it to her advantage. If Khushi is upset because of Arnav in any means, then it is his fault!

Honestly, I am still completely sure that Aarav is not Arnav's son. So I really hope nothing of this sort happens, regardless if she is positive/negative. I want Khushi and Arnav to experience parenthood together. There is nothing more beautiful than that. I firmly believe that they will be killing this beautiful love story we have right here if they do this. (My view)

Great post once again Tia! And I'm the first one, whoo hoo!



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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am with you buddy, I like your post...ASR is as much at fault if he hires Shitall cause knowing Khushi is uncomfortable...
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The post is as per the Negative Scenario...that if Arnav appoints Her , inspite of their Past... He is opening that can of worms on purpose knowing Khushi's values for a husband and wife. He will be breaking her trust and heart, put yourself in her shoes, can you watch a husband working with an Ex.?
So for me first Arnav will be Cheating Khushi... Whether he has a relation or not. If Role was reversed, Khushi was in his place with an EX , working day in and day out, a man will never accept it.

This is DOUBLE STANDARDS FOR MEN...and then the EX comes next , if Arnav throws her a rope, she will take it and try to claim a Taken Man by using her past attraction, Arnav's priority towards Khushi's feelings is the deciding factor for a cheating scenario .

Cheating is not an accident, falling off a cliff is accident...
If Arnav wants to fall , he will invite trouble , hire her and not think of Khushi's feelings.

Now it becomes a TRIO Relationship whether we want it or not and Relationships sink when there are too many Passengers on board.

I dont want to go to the Yes, positive character scenario, if that was the case, she would not have come into picture.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jalkukdi1

I am with you buddy, I like your post...ASR is as much at fault if he hires Shitall cause knowing Khushi is uncomfortable...


Even if he does not know about Khushi being uncomfortable, first of all he should ask Khushi and secondly, he should still not hire Sheetal on ethical grounds.

How can you be sure that your judgement about her talent is all based on her ability and not based on your bias due to your shared past? Why would your other employee accept that you are not biased towards your ex?

Also, you should understand that Khushi's acceptance of your past does not mean her acceptance of you spending 8-9 hours everyday with your ex, even at the context of workplace.
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res Logged into IF after such a long time. It feels like a long time. I don't know what is happening in the serial and couldn't give a damn of what is happening in the serial. And my life all of sudden seems so relaxed and happy. So, will continue with the detox,
But I want to answere your post.
As usual, your post is most apt.
In the situation you put forward, Sheetal and ASR will share all the responsibility. 100% of it.
But, if Kushi is not in the dark about Sheetal and ASR having a past and if they are working together and she chirpily is in her own world making Jalebis, then, I would give her some blame as well. Because, enabling is a big part in lot of acts committed by dear ones.
Reason I say that is how I see myself. If I were in Kushi shoes, I will not let ASR spend that kind of time with his ex. Period. Call me selfish, call me mean. Especially if she is single, with or without a kid, does not matter.
It has nothing to do with trust in a husband. We all trust our parents, siblings, children, firends etc. But doesn't mean they will never commit a mistake. Does not mean you will never commit a mistake. One should always be honest about such situations and the potential of where such situations can end up each participant in. Not paying attention to that, will be foolish.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree with u..if arnav give her a job than it's his fault too..👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thats cause woman is always considered a weaker one...supposedly... n ya the damn families women support it to get their revenge...Ppl dont fear God or they wouldnt do this... And yes of course men are 100% responsible for it but blame women for it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Boombat Tia.

This is truly fantastic n a very well etched post.

It gives the scenaria of gud sheetal the bad sheetal yet a bad sheetal cant be the only person blamed.

It is so true the was u said it. I was truly hurt today seeing THE REACTIONS OF ALL RM LADIES
INCLUDING payal. All of them were in awe of seeing Aarav so much like Arnav.
Mano mami was the limit.

Wasnt too thrilled with Arnav smile while answering questions bout Sheetal.
He looked rnchanted with the whole memory of the past.

What my issue is that this brute n cassanova has lucked out do much in life, n has ended up
Getting this golden hearted n an epitome of innocent person to love him unconditionally.

Everyone serms to be taking her for granted ... her feeling n wishes n thought yoo for granted.
Why does it always have to be she who has to silently suffer or thing how EVERYONEin the family feels.
Take a step after thinking about everyone around her...

Its truly sad to see that she puts everyone first yet shes never a first in anyones life.

Sachhi yeh dekhkhke dil ko bohot chot poohonchti hai...

God know when cvs willl give khushi her rightful place not only in Rm but in rms wasis hearts n Arnavs heart too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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everything is falling apart in Arshi 's story.. this stigma .. i dont know how they will rub it off or how they will come out of it..

all my logical things is directing to the obvious..

And blame will be on him... blame game will start and then redemption and then sorry? thats why this track was invited ?


I really didnt get why CVs r upto this track and for showing what ?


agreed to ur post.. but tomorrow we will see him offering her to join his office .. otherwise how they will show their interactions..


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