Shehjar, Fizak, SriB, Just4fun, anirulz, Thank you all for your kind words of encouragement. My attempt in creating this post was not to defend Bhabo or her actions and do not get misled by the title. That was only created to draw your attention. I want you to judge Bhabo not from your milieu but from the milieu from where she comes from. She is not from Delhi university or Mumbai university or Harvard or Stanford. She is a post graduate from Maasa school of home management (MSHM) and that too she has passed out with distinctions. She will only implement what she has been taught and will follow every rule in the book right or wrong to keep her joint family intact and she is not interested in knowing or learning what you and I have learnt. That is the fine distinction you have to learn to make. Thank you all once again for reading an exhaustive post and leaving your valuable comments. It really helped me to clear my perspective on several issues in larger life.