A few words for Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada

Get Treatment Quick! If you are being traumatised by your past, if your past is always haunting you, that is a clear indicator that you need counselling. Frequent outbursts of anger, irresistible impulsive behaviour and lashing out at others and hurting self are all indicators that you need psychiatric treatment

A brave man is always prepared for the unexpected. Cowards run away from all dangers. They fear death. A brave man is adventurous enough to risk his life and achieve his goals. He also faces adverse circumstances boldly. Cowards do not contribute to the society. They brood over the past and fear the future. They have a pessimistic attitude towards life. They get disheartened when confronted with adverse situations. One should remain brave and enjoy life. Only cowards die several times before death.

What happened to the man who claimed to be writing his own destiny? Who in their proper minds would scoot off to a garden when he should be attending his own wedding? Yeah, yeah I get it, you were numb, you were in pain. Do you think you were the only person in pain? You have been in pain for the past 14 years even without reason. You were there in your Ma Ka Garden for a good 9-10 hours having Flash floods ( read as going over past incidents) and doing a Flash Dance. Mind it, this was not the first time you have reacted this way... This seems to be your habit.

You are responsible for your life, and nobody else. You are responsible for your happiness, for your fitness and health, for your relationships, for your finances and for all your actions. But you've been hiding from that responsibility. You've been blaming your unhappiness and incompetence on others. It's time to stop blaming others and taking responsibility for your own life. That's when you really start to live. If you were so concerned about finding the other woman in your father's life why the heck did you not do so.?

"Everybody dies but not everybody lives." ' Drake

It takes guts and courage to take responsibility for your own actions, to stop hiding behind the 'victim' mentality that keeps you safe from the reality that the reason your life sucks is because of you.

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

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Love love love the post as always hun, and you know what the dumb man still doesnt get it. He came from his howling session and sees the female and instead of even saying hey are you okay he rants on and on about him and his freaking pain😡

What about the girl that is wating for you? dont care anymore about the stupid wedding anymore but out of just courtesy how about a simple apology? Do you expect me to like this man? I right now detest him because he is worse than shyam...atleast the other is plain bad guy this one is supposed to be good..

I dont care he had bad past blah blah...get over it and if you cannot have the decency to tell the girl that she atleast deserves that...this is the same guy who brought jija's lust in the house..thats how smart he is...now he is bringing her again for his own perverse reasons that only he knows...so he will be more sad and hurt and remember???what the fudge???

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

No decent girl will put up with this kind of behaviour.. I am told this is love.. Love means respecting your significant other.. Love means loving another without conditions.. from the time I saw him, he has been striking deals and laying conditions to his lady love.. this guy will never learn.. he needs treatment quick.. I don't think he has the capability to understand that what he is doing is wrong.. that is the nature of his illness.. So he should seek psychiatric counselling pronto

He so needs to seek professional help. He needs counselling to get over the traumatic experience. Khushi was the only person who could penetrate his shield and bring him out of his darkness. Khushi was the only person he could talk to about his past, things that hurt him, things that brought him pain. He needs Khushi more now than ever before. Khushi is the only person who understood him, could see that there was something soft inside him, something broken than could be healed.

Message for Arnav:

Originally posted by: piatondon

Arnav badly needs help. He has been mourning for the last 14 years continuously. Life goes on, and people move on. Sickening to see a person like Arnav. Looser.

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

THe thing is he always does this with khushi, have you seen him run off when his myrtle was killing her kid ? at that time he was in the ambo with her wasnt he? so how come the pain didnt overcome him then? no it is always khushi who gets the short end of the stick...i dont care anymore for the love story I want full on sepration track now ...he can pine and go back to mom's garden and howl more i dont care...Cryzada is good for only thing that is when it comes to him and his family and his pain all good but when it comes to khushi...he will work on his terms...I have always said he needs medical help because he is bipolar and a sociopath...he says one thing and does another...i just dont get it...his parents are dead and so he found out the female was garima...but that was 14yrs ago why is he spoiling his present??I just want khushi to kick him where it hurts more and kick him out now