Penned: CVs promote abuse [article reference] VB/Pg8

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Please refrain from basher/provocative behavior. Thanx.
There was an interesting article online written by Gowani. It dealt with some issues on the show that we've all been critisizing for months, but we haven't been heard -- or maybe we have been heard, but our opinions/demands and critique is being ignored.
Gowani's article confirms that IF viewers aren't the only ones who have noticed the much disturbing glorification of an abuser on SB?. His article illustrates how the CVs have been dealing wrongly with the character of Jahnvi, the show, and how they have focused on V rather than restrain his character to keep him from overshadowing the show and become a demonic role model to young men -- when the character that should've been glorified and promoted as a role model and face of the channel was Jahnvi aka Sriti Jha.
One thing has been clarified; the social message is lost. The CVs have butchered it. The character of Jahnvi, among others, have been compromised to accomodate V. The CVs have presented some good messages in the past to shut up the viewers and maintain an illusion of "we stand against domestic violence and abusive men" -- and, simultaneously, they have been promoting evil, promoting V, focusing on V, allowing him to gain enough power in the narrative that no other character is allowed to shine or overshadow him.
The problem isn't that there aren't any characters who can overpower V. There are plenty of characters on the show who could easily outshine V. We've seen Sia do it. We've seen Raghav do it. We've seen Gayatri do it. But the problem is that no other character is given permission to overpower V, to outshine him. The CVs make sure that all other characters are restrained -- kept in V's shadow -- as to not become more popular than him, as to not overtake the show. Even though they should, because they represent the force of good.
This is the reason why in some homes, SB? has been banned and parents tell their sons or daughters "don't watch this crap" or "they keep showing evil", for instance. In the past month and a half, we've seen good struggle and overpower evil -- but for how long? Just a few episodes. Then evil escaped his punishment and terrorized his victims again. What message this sends out to victims -- I needn't elaborate. You can all guess it.
I can tell where they're taking V's character. They want to follow the trend; Damon [TVD] and Liam [Angel] and Dutta [LTL] and other characters who were grey but redeemed themselves. But the thing is that these characters had another side to them from the start; a remorseful side. When they did something wrong, they knew it was wrong and they felt utter remorse. V has never been shown with a remorseful side. He has been shown as a full on black character -- evil. And now it's too late. No matter how hard they try, they cannot make V into a remorseful character because he never had a remorseful side. We all know it.
The CVs established his character like this, and now they need to swallow the bitter pill. If they introduce redemption for V, it'll be wrong in every sense of the word -- and the consequences, the damage of such a track presented will be beyond their imagination. For once, look past the TRPs and past the "V is larger than life" concept and consider the consequences of a show like SB? where the abuser is constantly in focus/glorified.
Gowani writes in his article that "... the major flaw of this serial is the tiresome continuous angle ongoing for a long time. The writers could've developed Jhanvi's character strength once she was out of Viraj's clutches. This could've made Jhanvi/Sia a strong person busy planning and preparing for a new life. Then when Viraj enters her life again, they should have put Sia in a total revenge mode..." and "... this would have empowered women if presented as being practical and believable. Instead, what they did was to continue the same sadistic approach they have adopted since the first episode..."
The bold statement illustrates that no one's fooled by the way that the CVs have been and are building the story. V escaped his punishment and went back to torturing people. Along with that, the character of Sia [among Raghav and others] was compromised and is being compromised still to make V appear more powerful, stronger. I.e. V stabbing Sia and not the other way around.
Gowani further writes: "... this serial does nothing for empowering the South Asian women trying hard to fight against abuse and violence and gain respect and equality. In this situation, such a drama watched by millions of people, including those very men who may be indulging in such practices, does not bode well for women's rights..."
Note that this also refers to victim blamers and parents who believe that their daughters' men are never wrong, that the problem must lie with the girl, and if there is a problem with the man, then the girl should make certain that he's treated.
The latter is a message that the CVs have been force-feeding us for weeks now through Sia constantly telling V to get treatment, through Raghav asking the same. It's wrong, to say the least, but nonetheless the CVs have been promoting this -- perhaps to set up the redemption track for V in the future. Once again, the abuser is in focus, not the victims of his abuse.
Gowani writes that ".. it is beyond reasonable comprehension as to why the writers want Sia to be demoiselle en dtresse living under fear. An opportunity of mass potential has been completely missed so far..." and "... however, once Jhanvi became Sia and was in a free environment, then Viraj's terror antics lost their believability. Now it is obvious that they are forced on viewers and its makers are busy cashing on Viraj's roguery..."
Another question is why they insist on promoting V and selling him as the face of SB? It's hypocrital and wrong. Public demand wants them to stop glorifying evil and focus on good as the superior power -- yet they've allowed V to become a parasite who constantly sucks the blood of his victims which, in the end, destroys the show's moral standing.
There is no moral standing when it comes to the CVs and their show.
Furthermore, parents want their children to learn that there are always consequences of a terrible deed, of doing wrong. That there's a punishment for it. While you live as well as in death. In addition that, what kind of message has been presented to children of victims on this show?
Gowani writes that ".. in addition there are times when during encounters Viraj's dialogues are sharp whereas the Sia and Raghav dialogues fail to meet that eloquence..."
Not imagined by the viewers. No, all dialogues are actually written to accomodate V with the exception of very few sequences that were meant to pass a quick social message. If you notice, even the camera angles and focus during V's scenes is sharper and thorough compared to other characters' scenes on the show.
Finally, Gowani writes that "... the anti-hero seems to be getting a lot of attention although, it is supposed to be primarily Jhanvi ki Kahani (Jhanvi's Story), the other name for this serial..."
I don't need to elaborate on this one, or even comment. It's self-explanatory, and what we have all been debating for months.
I apologize for such depressing musings on a weekend, but the truth will out. The CVs are to be held responsible for the bane of this show, the corrupted messages, promotion of an abuser, and the compromised characters who have been molded to V's convenience ever since January. Sia isn't permitted to become a role model to victims/women. Raghav isn't permitted to become a role model to young men. And other characters are put in obvious straitjackets to keep them from making an impression stronger than V.
What do the CVs fear? That the other characters might actually prove stronger than V -- become more popular? That V will be reduced to what he is and should be -- a monster. No one wants to watch evil prevail. And if the CVs continue down this path, hand in hand with V, then the show will eventually shut down and be remembered as the show where evil was promoted and corrupted messages presented.
Just for one moment, if you look at the show from a victim's POV, then what they will feel is powerless. Because nothing, apparently nothing, can rid them of their abuser even if they did find the courage to leave him.
But it seems that V is much more important to the CVs -- more than the viewers' demands or opinions, more than the social message and victims of abuse.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was going to make a post on this... so just adding my post in ur thread!😆
I am guessing one of you from either one of the teams (CVs, Production House or the channel) visit this forum because we realise that some of the ideas suggested by members on the forum have been used in the show. So I make an assumption that you are reading this and will do some correction...

The show Saubhagyavati Bhava was started to increase the awareness among the masses about Domestic Violence. It was supposed to show the struggle of one lady Janvi/Sia of how she will suffer being married to such a guy and then her struggle to overcome the abuse and try to live a life
(correct me if I am wrong... if this was not the motto of your show)

Now first thing you do is... start with insulting women! You made a complete joke of Janvi... she takes two MAJOR decisions in her life. One run away from her abuser... and the other takes a divorce (after putting her husband behind bars) But what did you all do after these two decisions... you made the abuser come back to her life in a matter of few hours!!! So can you just verify what are you trying to tell the audience here... that no matter what they do with the abuser he will be in ur life for ever!!!
But dont you think this is contradicting the motto of this show!!🤔
Next what was the whole of last week... Raghav's family is shown to be taken hostage... so police arrive at the place. They take ages to figure what do to... but somehow manage to get in when Viraj is half-consious and has three women standing with ropes tied around their neck. Now the full police force is inside the house... but not one of them thinks of shooting the rope so that they can realise the hostages!
They all walk out of the house as if they just had dinner and were leaving the dinner place!🥱
Then arrives the rescue team with the leader... looking at how he got out of the jeep (in slow motion) he looked like he knew what he was doing.. like the one in-charge. He makes this big statement "We have to do a surprise attack so that Viraj will not know about the attack" and I thought.. Yeah, finally!!! But what happens then... the rescue team uses tear gas, masks, goggles .. but are not able to solve the situation... infact they make it worse... because they got Raghav shot!!! Why was Raghav made to enter through the window if we had the best rescue team around. Why didnt 2-3 police go in and knock out Viraj!!!They send Raghav and that too empty handed and without a bullet proof jacket! Are you serious!!!!🤢
Anyways.. the stupidity does not stop here... next the 3 hostages and the police come out of the room and are walking down when one of the hostage has a panic attack and goes hysterical! What does the police and rescue team do... stand there listening to the poor woman's rant!!!
Then they leave the house and ... not one of them from the team.. the police team or rescue team leader are making plans on how to get Raghav out!
Then sia arrives... and decides to go in so that she can get Raghav out! What does the police do... they dont bother clearing the coast for Sia to go in... Sia goes in alone with one police woman... Now not one of the constables is getting a clear shot to shoot Viraj! Ok I will consider that for a minute... but then Viraj starts dragging Sia upstairs after being shot... he was totally exposed... didnt anyone get a clear shot even then!!
And now finally, why are all the constables always standing with their guns pointed in the air (towards the first floor, if they are on the ground floor... or towards the second floor, if they are on first floor) They dont think Viraj will come to them at eye level!!!
Now looking at what you are showing the police are capable of doing... do you think any one would trust the police or would want anything to do with the police!


So... after insulting the womenhood... you are now targeting at insulting all the police force!!!!
Dont you think you all have a bit more responsibility towards society and law enforcement department!!!


I hope in future whatever track you write.. you will take these things into considerations and not serve us nonsense and assume that you will still have the audience... you will still earn your TRPS!!
PS:Ana... I have not read your post... so my post may not be relevant to what you are saying... but I didnt want to end up make many posts on the forum 😃
Edited by sam123_0 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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word ana...word...
will add nothing more...
this article reinstates the fact that the cvs have turned a blind eye to everything to accomodate v...
the channel has stooped down to such low heights that its not just normal viewers.,...
but media houses too who r noticing it...
wat is it that the channel is hiding?????
y so much promotion of v??
r they being paid to promote v all around????
coz if they r playing this dirty trick...
they need to realise that we've understood the game thats going on...
we r no fools cvs/channel
we should forward the article link and this thread link to ajit thakur...
and question him...
coz all he does is bell bajao's in diff cities...
where does his conscience hide wen his own channel promotes a rapist and an abuser!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have some suggestions:
the channel should stop those scrolls that come at the bottom of the screen preaching how women should be ready, how they should have a bank acct. solely in their name so it comes in handy. So atleast LO won't be called hypocrites.

remove the characters of Raghav n Sia and ofcourse the Singh family.

bring a meek obliging girl in place of sia

rename the show to: Viraj ki kahani, CVs ki zubaani

and forget to target sane ppl thru the show and concentrate on all those sick minded ppl, who keep on yapping on how Gayatri should be killed, how V is oh-so-stylish, how they were glad Raghav was shot, how characterless Sia is n deserves more abuse.

I'm sure these sickos will make sure the TRPs soar and we will have more ppl like Justice Bhaktavatsala, who told a 28-year-old woman that she has to adjust with the husband and that all women suffer in marriages and observed during a hearing in a domectic violence case that it was alright for a husband to beat up his wife as long he was taking good care of her.

I wonder why the judge didn't cite this show as an example!
Edited by _dkmystery_ - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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relax div...
very soon we'll be seeing that too
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you and the article. 👏👏

Finally…an article writing what we all have been thinking and feeling. 👍🏼

Watching the show I get so irritated and so angry…you do not want to see evil winning again and again. As a victim you want to see the abuser being punish.

I am a single mom and did manage to get away….it makes me so angry to watch the message the show is giving victims. The show should be about the victim…about hope and about that there is always something better around the corner.

It is not the victim who should try to save the abuser…if the abuser cannot see his wrong deeds – then there is nothing to safe.

Being in an abusing relationship, does not do anything good for you, your kid or your family. Letting the abuser interfering in your life and your well-being – is letting the abuser win.

Where is the right message to the victims? 😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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WORD ana 👏nothing more to addwell CV are delusional...either they are themself sadist...or they have sick definition og "masala" story
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ani...
do the channel and cvs even bother abt giving the right message????
they r blind in the v glorification...
compromising everything for v...tp accomodate him...to glorify him and to show him positive is the only motto they have now...
tell me one thing...u've been into an abusive relationship..
do abusers change??
tomm if ur abuser comes and cries buckets infront of u will u forgive him for his did and the abuses he inflicted upon u???
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -vandy-

relax div...

very soon we'll be seeing that too


🥳 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ditto Ana.

I am more amazed with the fact that both cvs of this show are women and they themselves degrade woman so much by showing evil win all the time.

I mean how many times woman had to go through domestic violence before she start reacting.

Why can't cvs see what we see that on LifeOk FB men are making so many bad comments and by showing evil more may be give more TRp but where is moral of the channel and PH? Initially it gave more TRp but after that it became repetative evil has nothing more in storyso now cvs paying more attention to his hair, his walk, instead of developing other character.

Do r CVs really think that positive Viraj will work. I really hope that none of the victim of domestic violence is not watching this show. Because this show actually inspiring men of this society to torture and abuse woman.

I actually want cvs to change their tagline of the show from Jhanvi ki Kahani to Kahani of the Viraj evil dobbyal

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