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Posted: 13 years ago
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So Khushi hid the truth of Shyam
How many times I have heard this
So she has lied and hid things
How many times this has been pointed out
Strange I never remember ASR's flaws till someone points out Khushi's
This is when I get all riled up
People conveniently forget things...a short term memory loss like CVs
My question, is Arnav always true?
Why hasn't he told Anjali clearly that he saw Shyam telling him that he loves Khushi more? Just why?
Wouldn't it end all delusions of Anjali and the family. He told this to Nani. What is stopping him from telling Anjali and the rest of the family? What is the use of stopping his jijaji from coming in when he can't tell his Di see his Jijaji's true colours.
Now everyone believes that Khushi made up this story. One word from Arnav will silence them
Why isn't he telling the truth about why he married Khushi? Wouldn't it have saved her a world of trouble.
Even when she was called characterless by Dadi, Arnav has not come clean. Why?
A simple truth from Arnav would save her a world of troubles.
Khushi lies as per many people. Yes true. But she lies to save people.
Pray why is Arnav lying? I somehow can't find this in character with Arnav's character who is always honest and just.
He never lies outright. He always lies by omission.
So why are we calling one a liar and letting the other get away
And please if you say it is the CVs that logic applies to Khushi's character too
You know when I argue for Khushi or Arnav, it is always in favour of right or wrong and never the character.
Whenever I see Arnav make a mistake out of love, like the suhaag raat or when he threatened Khushi to come back, I never accuse him.
But when his mistakes harm or hurt Khushi that is the only time I speak against him.
His lying by omission is not only hurting Khushi, it is letting a murderer getaway...a murderer his sister is worshipping...a murderer who is coming back now
PS: You can interpret this as a Khushi defence post or an Arnav accusation post. I don't mind. For me it is simply about what is correct and what is the truth because unlike what many believe I do not hate ASR at all. When he is right I am the first to defend him. Somehow Khushi always feels more right because she always makes mistakes out of caring and not hating
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ASR is doing what Khushi is doing both are lying i want to know the difference now ??

Khushi's lies do not really harm any body only herself to a very large extent - regarding Shyam buaji & her amma are actually more responsible there then Khushi herself - different debate

but ASR's lies harms everyone specially the Mahan Di !!

ASR should have come clean but no he is thinking what will happen to di right then think the same now what is there difference of thought now ??

the difference i found is ASR doesnt have the guts to shout at his beloved delicate great mahan di but he does not mind shouting at Khushi (his wife who is always there despite his man handling most of the) any time for anything even though she is completely clueless.

ASR did the same thing what Khushi has done before so why is Khushi being targeted

Double standards any one ???

Edited by Harshitha - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you. Well said
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with u...

khushi is right...she did all this for anjali...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Every character has lied when it benefited them... Khushi did not lie but held back the truth.. does concealing the truth tantamount to lying?

ASR told the partial truth and chose to hide facts.. he never mentioned the 6 marriage contract to anyone.. ASR lied to Khushi during his bizarre wooing scenes..

Khushi too lied to RM to escape the marriage contract..

Anjali is the biggest liar of all.. the intentions behind her lies were never good.. She was behaving like a teenager who wanted to sneak out to meet her BF.. at least the intentions of ASR's and Khushi's lies were good..But not Anjali's ... Anjali was purely selfish..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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😊 Dead true Rimu. You are right with each and every point.

Khushi lies to keep the peace and happiness in tact, which is also seen as dumb and unnecessary. For her decisions are made with her heart, though she has a brain. Her heart overrules her head and weighs more if it were put on a scale.

If Khushi hid Shyam's engagement truth for Anjali, Arnav also hid Shyam's disgusting truth for Anjali.
If Khushi hid the contract marriage truth from the family Arnav did the same. And they both hid it for their respective siblings.

It is not right to blame her simply because when the family accused her Arnav could have put a full stop to everything. He never did so. And he was very well aware of the truth. He did not try and make Anjali understand why Shyam was not allowed into the house. He did not bother with explanations. Till now though Khuhsi has lied, she has also bothered to give an explanation most of the times.

So Arnav cannot lose his cool and blame Khushi because when he could have made his sister's life easier by convincing her and explaining why Shyam wasn't right for her he did not.

Maybe Arnav isn't used to giving explanations, but here his sister's life and his wife's life and reputation were at stake. So why did he chose to keep quiet?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderfully said Rima. I agree with each word. There's a lot of secrets that needs to come out of Arnav's mouth. I am tired of this, ''di, di, di deal."
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rima that has always been the case na? Khushi will be hiding the truth which is equal to lying but ASR NOT telling the truth is equal to... nothing.. cuz simply, ASR kabhi galat nahi hota.. his actions are always justified 😕

Saying that doesn't mean I understand Khushi.. she is the only one who knows the TRUE colours of snake.. so I just.. simply.. can't... but kya karein.. CVs ka punching bag hai Khushi..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dalmuthuya

Wonderfully said Rima. I agree with each word. There's a lot of secrets that needs to come out of Arnav's mouth. I am tired of this, ''di, di, di deal."



Totally! The di deal has gone over the top of everyone's head. i would be happy if they have tracks which unravel each and every mystery.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Every character has lied when it benefited them... Khushi did not lie but held back the truth.. does concealing the truth tantamount to lying?

ASR told the partial truth and chose to hide facts.. he never mentioned the 6 marriage contract to anyone.. ASR lied to Khushi during his bizarre wooing scenes..

Khushi too lied to RM to escape the marriage contract..

Anjali is the biggest liar of all.. the intentions behind her lies were never good.. She was behaving like a teenager who wanted to sneak out to meet her BF.. at least the intentions of ASR's and Khushi's lies were good..But not Anjali's ... Anjali was purely selfish..

i have offically begun to hate anjali

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