PYAR TO HONA HI THA-Lets all share - Page 59

Thanks vinniedi 😊 but still confused.. 😕 i will not get things right anyday regarding this.. maybe i will never ever be able to love a person, even if i do so, my parents will not allow me, toh iske baare mein toh sochna bhi is of no use.. 😭

you all enjoy.. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: ans24us1

Thanks vinniedi 😊 but still confused.. 😕 i will not get things right anyday regarding this.. maybe i will never ever be able to love a person, even if i do so, my parents will not allow me, toh iske baare mein toh sochna bhi is of no use.. 😭

you all enjoy.. 👍🏼

Well Anu

i will just share a lil thing that my grandma told me once

"Jab tumhe koi pasand ho aur tum use apne parents se milwane se daro to yaad rakhna ki tum us se pyar nahi karte aur woh tumhare liye sahi nahi hai.Aur jab kissi ladke ko parents se milwane se tum na sharmao aur tumhe lage ki us se milke tumhare parents kabhi mana nahi kar sakte ,samajh jaana wohi ladka tumhare liye sahi hai aur tum us se pyar karti ho"

Originally posted by: vinnie-thepooh

Anu i have posted 2 definations on top.

Now for second part that all crushs don't turn into love because crush is just an infactuation .its short timed liking.Many of the love marriages are not sucessful coz- people cannot differentiate between Love and Crush.And by the time they realise its a crush not Love they are already married.Just my opinion

i hope its lil helpful for you.

I agree to this.. people dont differentiate crush and love... my cousin had a crush on a guy and she thought that she was having a love for him and wanted desperately to propose him...

I advised her not to do so... as it was only crush... she then later realised that the guy was not fit for her... now had she expressed the love, she would have surely got married with him... and later on regret for this..

Originally posted by: vinnie-thepooh

Well Anu

i will just share a lil thing that my grandma told me once

"Jab tumhe koi pasand ho aur tum use apne parents se milwane se daro to yaad rakhna ki tum us se pyar nahi karte aur woh tumhare liye sahi nahi hai.Aur jab kissi ladke ko parents se milwane se tum na sharmao aur tumhe lage ki us se milke tumhare parents kabhi mana nahi kar sakte ,samajh jaana wohi ladka tumhare liye sahi hai aur tum us se pyar karti ho"

mhm, didi its seriously nice on papers, i do accept it... but in reality the difficulty people face to do so is huge... now, the parents dont agree, we cannot leave the guy also... whom will we choose? parents or the guy..

parents have brought us up, so cant leave them, and the guy lives in our soul, so cant leave him also, whom will we choose? I have seen people struggling with this, and then later decided even if i like a guy, im not gonna go ahead... its total pain, sufferings etc...

Originally posted by: ans24us1

mhm, didi its seriously nice on papers, i do accept it... but in reality the difficulty people face to do so is huge... now, the parents dont agree, we cannot leave the guy also... whom will we choose? parents or the guy..

parents have brought us up, so cant leave them, and the guy lives in our soul, so cant leave him also, whom will we choose? I have seen people struggling with this, and then later decided even if i like a guy, im not gonna go ahead... its total pain, sufferings etc...

Anu

its a debatable topic.......We will discuss it in a seperate thread😊

Originally posted by: gauri_2

Good one Vinnie....bilkul theek kaha aap ki dadi jee ney👏

thanx Gauri

but its my Nani she is like a friend to me.😊

Adi tht is just amazing........ This friendship is ur true asset...... I m lucky to have a lucky friend like you, who has such friends..... 😊

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Adi tht is just amazing........ This friendship is ur true asset...... I m lucky to have a lucky friend like you, who has such friends..... 😊

Yeah man true.. times good or bad ..come and go..but a true friend stays forever...good times or bad...😛..and I am lucky to have a caring friend like you as well....😛

Originally posted by: DAISYRABLE

Hey Vinnie I'm not a teenager now to get crushes😉 but I'm enjoying other members' stories.

chal teenage time ka hi share kar le