I loved today's episode.... A domesticated Arnav cleaning up after Khushi and quietly taking her to bed....How heartwarming was that? Khushi slowly warming up to her Aaqa too...😳
I had my batti jali moment too. Something just clicked for me today; I think I am onto something here until CV's burst my bubble again. But I think I am beginning to get these 2, can't seem to decide which one is more pagal! Their pagalpan does challenge us to think & debate. What makes them click? And I think I found some answers....😆
Briefly about today's episode before I ramble with my thoughts. The scenes I really loved. Yes, who would disagree with me on this one? The opening scene- He knew his pagal biwi wouldn't stop calling unless he forced her to. Phone call wasn't the answer, his presence was required. She quietly drifts off, after offering to sing a lori...😆
Both holding on to each other after all the nok-jhok....Both waking up still holding on to each other....Does this sound like an insensitive husband who doesn't care?

Aadat si hogayi hai; her sleeping Tae Kwondo style and him holding on to her hand...😳
The other scene was at the office - she repeats all his dialogs. "Jab mein baat kar rahi hunt ho beech mein mat boliye"; "mein apni kismet khud bana sakthi hun...." This man is slowly taking over her life....He is growing on her....😳 I didn't care much for the nautanki that followed, throwing stuff around the office.....That was in poor taste... Instead they could have shown a hurt Khushi...😕 Thappad scene a little too cliched for me...After today, I can foresee Anji's acceptance of Khushi after Rakhee...Anji will do it for Chote, she really adores her bro, no questions on that one. But only to be ruined by my man Shyamu....
Onto my thoughts on this track.... I could be completely off on this one....I am no intelligent CV....Just trying to decipher what the intelligent CV's have portrayed.....🤣 Feel free to dismiss it with a grain of salt.....😉
Arnav
Arnav is trying to make her realize that she needs him as much as he needs her. Yest, was a day when he tried to make her realize how his physical proximity affects her. The phone call at night, he asks her if she missed him. She paused to think & she realized there was some truth to it. He is trying to make her realize her feelings for him. He has tried to show her how much he cares about her on her b'day. The flowers, the bag, the cake but all in vain, unappreciated.
She said she appreciated a simple gesture, a genuine heartfelt wish...He did that too although he thought she was asleep. She heard it but wasn't too forgiving..... She asked him if he can buy her smile. So he tried ways to do that too, he laid a bed of rose petals to make her feel special, bought chanas...She hugged him, it brought a smile alright but she still left... So he followed her to GH but she had built a wall around her, not exactly telling him what is on her mind. He tried helping her there too but nothing seemed to work...
He finally found out the real reason was indeed the contract. She isn't coming back....He decides he has tried her way, now he will do it his way...After the Shuklaji incident; he thinks it is her ego. So he is trying to break that ego; make her succumb to his will. She eventually will return coz she has nowhere to go....Her parents unaware of her situation; she is not welcome at the GH for a prolonged stay. I don't blame him; he isn't the brightest bulb when it comes to women😆 All he has known is Anji, who can be easily manipulated with a spoon of her favorite kheer. He knows she loves him but he doesn't know how to get her to share her deepest feelings.
Things he knows about Khushi
- Khushi confides in him when she is angry - She told him about her broken engagement when she was angry...She told him about Shyamu when she was super mad....Makes him want to believe she will confide in him when she is angry..... She will not spill her gut out yet coz she hasn't reached her boiling point. But it will come....
- Seeks him out when she feels helpless - The times when she felt helpless she came looking for him....When she found out about Shyamu during the puja at RM, when her father was sick and when Shyamu hugged her on the terrace....Every time she went looking for ASR....He is her protector.... He has concluded that her helplessness will make her come back to him.....So making her feel helpless has now become his mission; his biggest ammunition is now the Gupta's. She married him for Payal, she will return to RM for the Gupta's, yet again helpless...This time he has good intentions although the means don't seem to be....
- She loves a challenge...They both do...Their relationship has thrived on various challenges. She has won some while he has won most....It is a battle of Dil vs dhimaag. We all know dhimaag wins most battles in life....He is right here, her ego takes over...She never likes to lose to him.
Khushi
ASR calls it Khushi's ego but it is really her swabhiman/self-respect. She should have corrected him that day but Khushi isn't the brightest these days....There would have been some punch in the dialogue....Yes, there is a big difference. She believes in working hard and paying her bills; she said that when she resigned. She will work hard but she will not be anybody's naukar.
She takes pride in being independent, she is a self-made woman. To her, taking money from anyone is equivalent to begging. Even after marriage, she never really considered him her husband. She borrowed money from him, hoping that she would someday return the money. She argued with him at the hospital when he tried to pay off...She said she would not take bheekh from him but it was a loan when she borrowed Rs 300 and now it's the rent.
He wants her to claim it from him rightfully, as his wife but she will not coz she still has the contract weighing on her mind. Di is not the only reason for her runaway status. Since the contract ends she cannot take money from ASR nor can she go to RM. Again it is her self-respect being the sticky issue..... She said it today too, in a few days all will be well. He has said several times that she is his wife but he never took back those words he said the night before her b'day.....The contract....As far as she is concerned, the contract is still on...
But he is clueless....He still thinks Khushi is being the obstinate brat, he will bring her home...He does not know the underlying issue....He knows the normal Khushi not a deeply disturbed Khushi....All it takes for him is to utter the simple words; you will always be my wife. Maybe he would if only he knew...
The mother in Garima ( maybe she is w/ASR on this one?) also asking Khushi to return will only put pressure on her to return....When Khushi feels helpless; Arnav has been her only hope & he knows it. It was his plan & he executed it with great precision and right amount of sensitivity....👏 If she goes with him, she is buying her parents peace of mind....She will be left with no option.
I see a gentler Arnav pacifying her this time and making it up to her when she is home.... He will not make her feel it is her majboori unlike all those other times unless CV's have RTR on mind. But I don't see RTR... Khushi also knows he wants her for the right reasons but she wants to hear it...😳
When it comes to money it is her self-respect but when it comes to returning home, it is a little bit of everything her ego, self-respect and about winning too...A big part of their relationship has always been about winning....Each one trying to score over the other....But since he makes calculated decisions, he wins.....She goes the emotional route and loses...Who will be left standing this time? They both are winners this time coz he is fighting the battle not just for himself but for her too.....His victory will be her victory....😳
PS - Long post...😲 Sorry...😔
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