Giving it a chance - Page 4

Originally posted by: Sandy914

Harini.. a very well needed post on forum.. True SNS is not super fast express, especially for Gohem, it is growing gradually.. I don't think ahem confession will be big or dhamaka episode, it can be a small scene also just like kiss scene recently(now please don't hit me with the cheppal), why i am saying this bcoz they trust and love each other.. it is all we have our feelings that gopi may think that ahem likes anitha and don't love her like koki and rashi.. but reality( in SNS), Gopi had already told that she trust her ahemji that he can never ever back off from marriage, it is in her language saying ahem won't leave her hand anytime.,. that means he loves her right? but what all gopi needs is to stand upto herself.. fight for her rights on ahemji(just as munni said in other post), i think this track only for that to give backbone to gopi.. I am really enjoying, I am sure though ahem shouted at gopi, he will say sorry to her later in their room where nobody aware of it, Gohem will be happy couples, Anitha,Rashi and koki are the one's mis understand their actions and do their plans

But i have one complain also.. i don't want rashi to help Gopi, she has to pay for her past deeds.. all of sudden she can't come into everyone's good books.. probably that CD will leads for reveal of rashi's kk too..

Thank you so much Sandy😃
Like you I have felt that this track is positive.. It has shown us just how much Gopi and Ahem trust and love each other..
Whatever the three try to do Koki, Rashi and Anitha, all this will be futile as there is nothing to prove.. Maybe it will lead to some misunderstandings especially for Anitha and Koki who may think Ahem is still hung up in the past but Gopi knows that Ahem is not... He as much as told her that..
@Bold Sandy.. I think we can dream of that happening and keep dreaming.. If I want to be positive, I will say that Rashi will help Gopi in this and she will expose herself with the DVD unintentionally leading to a redemption.. But even that will not convince me,,,
But Sandy it is just me on Rashi.. If this is a way the CVs are atleast trying to change Rashi, then fine.. It is something different.. I would not have minded a little punishment though😉

Originally posted by: aris22l

Harini, thank you for making this post👏. I can't speak for anyone else, but when I make a negative post, I make it to get my frustrations out. I can only do that on this forum. I share my feelings with all my friends who may or may not agree with my views and it calms me down. I try to make funny and positive posts too, all to share my feelings of happiness and disappointment. They say joy shared is doubled and sorrow shared is halved.

The current track has me on edge. I think I had pinned too may hopes and expectations on this track. The track wasn't developed well and because of too many holes, it has created too much confusion. Instead of showing closure for some of the past tracks (kalakaris, first year of Gohem marriage, Gopi's vows, holi day), more problems have been created. There has been no incling if any of these past holes will ever be plugged. There are more quesions than answers.

Two years is a long time to wait for a couple to come together. I am not sure if any other serial has taken this long and this thought makes me frustrated with my most beloved serial because I want it to be # 1 in my mind (don't care about the trp's). I want to have hope, but at this point, don't know when they will show a Gohem union. It is the fear of the unknown that makes me feel negative. Also, it is hard for me to ignore negative things just because there are positives in the show.

After all is said and done, I believe most of the Indian serials are like that. Whether negative or positive, I am attached to SNS and I am not going to give it up for now even if the current track goes totally haywire. I do have hope that at the end of the track, we will see something beautiful. We humans live in hope after all.

I am not against any post Aris.. I am all for sharing happiness and sadness.. I rather like reading different PoVs when it comes to serials.. it is a mine of imagination.. I am only baffled that all that we get to read is -ve posts.. Not that I am pointing my finger at anyone.. Just my PoV that we are failing to see the obvious and making a positive track -ve.. 😊
We have not waited 2 years for Ahem's verbal confession Aris.. If you look at the story, his love started from VDay this year.Ahem realized that his care and concern is love that day. Gopi's journey to Ahem's heart has been slow and steady and we were enjoying that subtlety till recently... Anitha's entry should not have changed it.. It did because I think a lot of us have become impatient knowing that Ahem is actually in love only with Gopi..

When we were able to remain positive that Ahem was in love when it was not even confirmed, I am surprised we have become -ve when that fact is more than confirmed.
The fear of the unknown was there last week. But this week things are clear except for Anitha's next step then why the worry? My point it judging the track as Bakwaas before it can even start can lead to a prejudice that we saw this week... Beautiful moments and the story went forward but all we saw was Ahem's anger? or that we disliked the tagline of the promo😕 That gets to me...

Well, at the end of the day everyone has their own perspective.. Like others I wanted to say what I felt that is all.. I still believe the track is positive and in spite of tears will lead to something good. Like Sandy said, it may not be a Dhamaka episode of confession.. But I know I will like it however it is played out because it is a union of two soul mates and a love story that is close to my heart.😛

Originally posted by: navyab

Thanks Harini for making this post & making me understand 😊 ⭐️...yes we all want to see the end...but all of us forget the journey is what makes the end beautiful !!!

Gopi & Ahem's journey of being together (sorry using my series name for lack of words) though it started late & knowing each other...doing things to see each other happy...putting one above the other...tackling problems together...understanding each other...changing their likes & dislikes according to the other partner...fighting with each other ...their tears...their happiness etc brings us so much happiness everyday that we forget the direct end will not bring in that kind of happiness if all of this is not there...thats how all are lives are also ...

All of us need one another to pull each other up when we as members on the forum tend to give in to the weight of negativisim...

Thank you Naya⭐️ Beautifully put.. It is the journey that makes it beautiful😃 Lets stay with that hope and we will get to see what we want😛

Hi I really liked your post.

Originally posted by: Srilathalolla

Hi I really liked your post.

Yes we all know that this is a daily serial.But till now in SNS I dont think they dragged anything like this or no confusion as it is in this track.If we come to the education track, Sonal track, Rashi moving out of the MB,Kidnap of Rashi there was no confusion every moment was filled with excitement and we were all glued to the TV.

But in this track there is lot of confusion yes there are some good scenes.But they might be for like 3 to 4 mins. Coming to Rashi all of a sudden she is good 😕 .For me that does not make sense.

Initially also there were people who wanted to help Gopi.Hetal, Jiggar and after that it was Koki who was always there for her.But this time I want Ahem to make her strong I want him to make Gopi strong. Then the title will be suitable.He is the one who has to give her that confidence and make her Speak and fight for her right.

Thank you😛
Actually you have to realize that even in all those tracks, there were periods where it stretched.. Now after the track we can look back and say it was good..
We had Jigar's dilemma with Rashi or 2 weeks in the Sonal track.. We had mindless UrShi KKs in the Bhoot and Sandook track... Every track had a period where we had fillers..
I would say this track started slow. It has to. In all other tracks the characters were set. We knew Rashi and Urmi.. We knew Koki and Hetal..
But now Anitha, we only know from 2 years back. The story has to be set, the characters and their intentions have to be made clear. That has taken 2 weeks.. That is all..

I hear the Ahem is not giving Gopi confidence.. But I beg to differ. It think it is the changes in Ahem and his actions that has made Gopi confident to confront Rashi, to talk to Ahem when he makes a mistake, Take care of him immediately if he is in pain..
I keep repeating it... But there is a residue of the past still.. It will not be changed in a day and Ahem is working towards it. It will not be all roses.. They will go back and forth but Gopi and Ahem will get there. It will take time.. As for Koki and Rashi helping.. They are going to help Gopi for something she does not have to achieve.. Ahem is not asking Gopi to change. My gut feeling is that he will tell everyone the same when he comes to know of what is happening...

Hi harini , great post and lovely responses ,
I am the first to admit that this track has messed me up badly , logically I know and appreciate that anita coming in now was for the best of gohem lovestory . Anita was always a ghost in this marriage ,at the beginning Ahem clung to her as a way of rebelling against his moms choice and his ego took a beating when he realized he was infact attracted to an illiterate girl and that rocked his whole foundation so he made it known to her in every single way he belonged to anita and felt nothing for gopi. Gopi also viewed anita has the reason for not getting her husbands affections , as we saw in the bhoot track she stood up and fought for her husband by beating up what she thought was anita as a last resort . For a confession from ahem the past has to laid to rest , he has to show gopi that he chose her cos he loves only her for their relationship to move forward. If he confessed without anita being there ,gopi would always have a nagging doubt that he is settling for her cos he can't have anita then that is not true love neither is it what we want for Gopi . Here Gopi will see how great his love for her is cos Anita is available and definitely will want him back since she believes he is not happy wud Gopi . Ahem already knows he loves Gopi and she is his soulmate and life partner but gopi becos of ahem words in the past won't accept that she is what makes ahem happy ,ahem has to show her that his heart belongs to her and the memories of his past are just that and now when she is competing with anita in the flesh rather than a photo Gopi is the queen of his heart thus removing any doubt of his love and commitment which only wot Gopi deserves.that's logic but for me when it comes to Gopi I can't help but get emotional and there goes the logic outta the window . My protective instincts kick in like u will never believe but then I am the type of person who cannot bear to see ppl in pain , and gopi has become like a little sister for me whom I want to shield from the evils and pain of life , I am the same wud my sisters and neices which irritates them cos I am so protective . So I understand the importance of this track and the reason for it being the way it is but I am a freak when it comes to Gopis tears . The precap got me crazy cos it felt like he took a whip to a puppy by her reaction she was shocked and hurt , now as munni sed which married woman hasn't seen her husbands anger , I agree we all have at sum stage but me and I know most of u wud agree , I don't take it quietly I wud be hurt like gopi but I cover it up by getting back at him or shout back , if Gopi was like that then I won't feel so bad though if she was like any other woman then I wud not love her so much.yeah tina is right no pain no gain , we always cry y Gopi only suffers , I have come to realize that her suffering has made her the person she is , her struggles , her wins, her loses have moulded and shaped differently from most cos its her strenght that made her the potter to shape the puddle of clay (her life and its pains) into a beautiful and unique woman that is y we love her so much cos we see a fighter and a survivor .
So again it is a question of the heart ruling the mind therefore most of are really not giving this track a chance cos as soon as anita came in we were ready to fire at any body who brought tears to Gopi even though we love
ahem and koki but we shot them down as soon as their words or actions brought tears to Gopi . Y did we become like this ? Simple answer cos the so called past love was involved , all wifes instantly band together at the presence of the other woman and we protest at every little action and immediately take it has an insult to the wife. I hope my rambling makes sense but then as I sed I am a total mess since this track started I blow hot and cold , one minute on a high next I wanna scream blue murder the fact is 'the other woman syndrome ' really offends me cos I have seen gopi in pain before but I wasn't reacting like this although I hate that anitas presence will get a verbal confession out of him but then it has to be this way and let's face it which wife doesn't feel treasured and precious when she is chosen over her husband past love .

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

One question bugs me when I come to the forum most days these days... Why do we keep looking at the immediate future as black all the time for Gopi without enjoying the present?

- This is a story of Gopi's journey in life. Her perspective. No wonder it shows her developing from being a scared woman under her maami to getting married to a rich household to her cousin's KK against her to her husband's hatred, then concern, care and love to the entry of her past..

When we know it is Gopi's journey, it is obvious that the journey will not be in a bed of roses.. The fact that Gopi gets her love after undergoing pain is what makes the journey's end sweeter. If Gopi gets everything quickly then why would there be a story?
Take this Anitha track for instance.. RIght from day one we give it no chance. A part of it id due to fear of how Anitha is going to come between Ahem and Gopi.. But it is obvious that she has been brought in for the same..😕 So why do we not enjoy the track to see what Gopi has in store?

If we are against the length of the track, then we should be used to it by now.. SNS is slow.. It is a fact.. The reason I am writing this is the new promo and the way we have taken it.

Last week was so full of positives..
- Ahem has clearly shown how much Gopi means to him. He has also made his intentions clear by the kiss and saving his wife.
- Anitha knows the truth of her broken marriage and we will now get to see her play a role that will eventually be good for GoHem

- My most fav.. Gopi for the first time felt possessive about Ahem. That she recognized it but is filled with guilt showed what a pure soul she is and how much trust she has in Ahem.

- Koki knows the truth and is in the mix
And last but not least, they may be actually starting to redeem Rashi😲

So many positives, yet we decide that Ahem's shout in the precap is the only one worth talking about.. No offense but that is just one scene. We do not know the reason behind it yet, so why jump the gun and go all sad?
If the question is as to why only Gopi should cry and fight, the answer is that this is Gopi's journey.. Not Ahem's or Anitha's or Koki's.. .All others are just players and Gopi is the protagonist.. No wonder everything is from PoV..

I get that we have been waiting for Ahem to confess verbally or make Gopi his.. But the wait has been nice.. We have seen the story develop nicely and are at a point where this new experience Gopi will undergo will make it sweeter as Ahem tells her of his love.. It will be sweet for Gopi as for us.. Sweet for her as she finds how much her wait has come to fruition and sweet for us to see a love story.. For as Tina says, "there is no gain without pain"😛

It is just that it seems that instead of taking it and enjoying the soap we have fallen into making even the beautiful moments sad.. Just my PoV.. and I did want to get it out..

Why don't we give the track a chance to play out? Take the tears and see what is actually happening? The treat of getting to see Gopi/Ahem send Anitha out of their lives will be well worth it...

Harini, awesomest post...you rock girl⭐️. Loved Munni's reply too😳
OUR HMT 🤗 . I had not seen your post ...made a post on similar lines... but yours in depth and very logical. This is Gopi's journey so it has to be her prospective. I absolutely believe prickly thorn often bears soft roses. 😉 . Love is never stuck in one season it has to see all ...summer , winter rainy and spring. And if we don't see pain how will we enjoy relish our gains. 😃
Ahem and Gopi are like chalk & cheese ...absolutely imperfect couple in the eyes of the world but their shared need for combat connects them. Being with not so perfect innocent and simple Gopi ...Ahem has actually learnt "to enjoy their differences" because their imperfections matched, or rather they made it match. Gopi always had respected and loved Ahem but gradually Ahem realized that Gopi is goodness personified and fell for innocent Gopi...but today they are like not like a pair of scissors to Anitha jigsaw😉😆...not equal. Communication is lacking in their relationship. Good communication or lack of it between Gopi and Ahem can be quite frustrating....So by being a yogya ...true & equal patni ... Gopi can make her EEMM ji also an yogya pati.