DABH glorifying domestic mental torture - Page 4

Originally posted by: navyaalex8

Sad to say this but whether it is Gopi or Sandhya, illiterate or educated, the majority of the public seem to subtly approve of the "martyr " woman syndrome ...TRPs attest to that... The woman needs to continue being a selfeless, silent, respectful, loving, caring, sharing, pavitra person regardless of the people around her...Suffer in silence is the "ideal" method

I've come to the point where I dont care what happens to the diya or baati, and I fully endorse the above opinions... but a question:

What would you have Sandhya do then?

Walk out? Then what? Fulfil her IPS dream? Then what? Serve her country? Then what?

At the end of the day, being an IPS officer is just a job...What about her personal life? Shall she die respected but alone in the end without experiencing the love and relationships that make life worthwhile?

So should she marry again? Then what? If a person has close relationships with any human being, it cannot be perfect because neither is Sandhya or any human perfect...Then what? Should we clamor for her to leave from there too?

Again, I think the current track is shown very badly but Sandhya leaving or shouting back is not a solution...I think the best option is to stick it out and overcome evil with good, like she has decided to...But please CVs, can you not kill the story's charm and credibility in the process ?

Originally posted by: lashy

i agree with all of the above viewpoints... but sadly, the basic ideology of the show is flawed... sandhya is so strict/stern when it comes to people and issues outside the house... but inside the house she thinks all of it is normal... bhabho torturing her is fine because it is 'mother's love' and it is 'badon ka sanskaar'... nonsense!!!

when she herself does not consider what is going on in the house to be utterly wrong... then how would she be able to put any stop to it at all?

at least in SNS, Gopi was brought up in an abusive background and she is an illiterate... so for her, her inlaws was actually a welcome relief (except for ahem) but here.. sandhya was brought up in such a loving atmosphere with such forward-thinking parents.. how her views have become so skewed, i fail to understand... she does not seem like IPS MATERIAL AT ALLL... she just seems happy to take in tonnes and tonnes of insult and torture and the only things that seem to worry her are cleanliness of Hanuman gali, stamping out corruption where possible and hating/fearing/loathing any form of physical proximity to suraj...

funnily enough; the characters of vikram, meena, mohit and chavvi are much more consistent and much easier to understand than those of bhabho, suraj or sandhya!!!!!!!!!!!!