Arnav's learning graph after marriage...

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eveline

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Posted: 14 years ago

Lately this forum has been filled with innumerable complaints about the show not moving ...story stagnant...MU not being cleared...so objectively decided to take a look at what has happened since their hate marriage...

The day they married...his uppermost thought...hatred..pure sheer hatred for her...i remember his telling her on their SR..for six months i will have to breathe the same air u do ..how disgusting...

He threw her a blanket at poolside...and got a glimpse of Khushi's self respect..i will go through pain...but wont accept charity.

Then, Khushi was mistreated by the whole family..on both the sides...arnav was a silent spectator..(hated it but kept quiet..his hatred was too strong then)...what did Arnav learn from that sequence...Khushi is tough...a real fighter and survivor...family means the world to her..their rejection kills this girl..be it hers or his...family is her foundation...and inspite of mami's and a lot of other ppl's mistreatment..she maintained a respectful silence...

Next...pugphera...her disappearance..killed him..he went berserk..learnt he cares for her a lot..inspite of everything...

Her ultimatum...she cannot be taken for granted...arnav learnt she is a surprise package...can give as good as she gets...the challenge...he had to use means and manipulations in order to control her...😆..our KKG-SR is not an easy win...again he learnt the only way to defeat this girl is not power...but love...this time it was love for her sister...

Holi...Khushi can win hearts..his nanis...his family's...her family's...this girl does not give up..and she is a charmer..she was avoiding shyam for that day for whatever the reason..and the lesson revised...she is beautiful..he loves her hair..her smile...she is pagal but cute...😆...but the biggest thing he learnt that brought a tear to his eye..she feels something for him..her heart races when he gets closer...(so he thinks she is having an affair with shyam..but he learnt that he also has an effect on this girl..she does feel something for him )

100 ways to irritate him sequence...man she is a headache...😆..a handful...a spitfire...uncontrollable...she is smart..the way she turned his world upside down in a day..claiming her righs over the room, the bed, the bathroom, the wardrobe...asr realised how smart and underhanded and manipulative his lady love can get...a match for him made in heaven (or hell)..she can twist him around her little finger any time...smart guy,,meets his match in this smart girl..😉

Dabba debacle...khushi's self respect...he learns about her enterprising and hard working spirit...her reluctance to leech on anyone...she can find her own way without anybody's especially his help...her consideration and smartness in making shuklaji her partner...khushi here earned brownie points..grudging..but i can bet he cannot help but admire this intelligent..hard working ..dignified busniess woman of his wife...😃

And today...bolti bandh..she knows him...in and out...recognises his needs..knows his thoughts...she is atuned to his heart, his mind, his soul..a true partner...she is indeed one with him..this lesson leaves him stunned...shocked...had to add this due to popular demand..if she knows him so well..why cant she see the love...thats coz arnav has always sent her mixed signals...and he himself is totally confused and conflicted about his feelings..no clarity here..his behaviour breeds total confusion..khushi is instinctive but not clairvoyant...and lastly..she has been hurt not once..not twice but even more by this man...she runs a mile at the thought of falling for him ( i would too if i had any sense of self preservation)...

The journey of discovering new heights of love..of hard won trust..of recognising needs..of sharing dreams...of pain and angst...of life and marriage...of holding hands through thick and thin...of gradual understanding..of multiple adjustments...of give and take...of pleasant surprises..of unexpected accidents..of fun and family...still continues...

And we say..the story hasn't progressed...post marriage...??? He hated her with a venom then...today he has fallen in love all over again...he has witnessed so many of her traits..her qualities...Khushi previously had won over his heart...today she is saturating his soul...

Edited by eveline - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

Well said 👏!!!! Lovely post sweets everything about Kushi is in that. Thank u...

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Vivek Prakash

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Posted: 14 years ago

i agree with u completely...
WO KAHTE HAIN NA SABAR KA PHAL MEETHA HOTA HAI

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eveline

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: babes25
Well said 👏!!!! Lovely post sweets everything about Kushi is in that. Thank u...

thanks...its like every dot connects to make a picture...😊

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UltimateBarun

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Posted: 14 years ago

My darling!!! hugs again, I gave that in your prev post ,, but u deserve again for this post!

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very nice progressive graph!! but its not over yet,, the ugly terrace flash back will keep flashing every now and then,, but by each day,, they are coming closer and understanding each other more!!

when the MU will be clear finally Arnav's heart will take over his brain!! till then the conflict will be there between his mind ad heart!

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eveline

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: vivek2010
i agree with u completely...
WO KAHTE HAIN NA SABAR KA PHAL MEETHA HOTA HAI

par yahan to mitha phal khane mein interest nahin hain...sab ke sab din ginne mein lage hain ??😆

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Newbiesoapfan

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Posted: 14 years ago

Lovely analysis eveline ... thanks for providing us some more perspective on what essentially look like filler episodes.

Yes Arnav is learning more and more about our KKGSR ( he did not know her like this before he married her even though they interacted a lot )... he was not prepared for this cyclone/gale in his life -- something that turns it upside down and changes it forever). All this understanding of her should lead to the clearance of the MU -- that is the way I want this to happen -- I do not want Khushi to say a word even if she knows the reason.

Again Madam Khushi -- if she understands him so well -- can't she understand his unspoken love... or does she see it and get confused as it does not match with what he says and does ... do not know !

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amitra1212

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Posted: 14 years ago

well said ... i hope ASR is also maintaining a dairy with all these points...honestly i thing these episodes are shown to buy so more time and also to show them adjusting to married life... just clearing the MU will not help these two...Khushi will be deeply hurt after she finds out why he married her and then ASR will need all these small memories to bring her back... they realised there feelings with the teri meri dance ... and then got married within a month ... from there POV there love is still new ...

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eveline

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: UltimateBarun
My darling!!! hugs again, I gave that in your prev post ,, but u deserve again for this post!

🤗

very nice progressive graph!! but its not over yet,, the ugly terrace flash back will keep flashing every now and then,, but by each day,, they are coming closer and understanding each other more!!

when the MU will be clear finally Arnav's heart will take over his brain!! till then the conflict will be there between his mind ad heart!

🤗..yeah one jadoo ki jhappi...made my day...by no means its over yet...its a gradual process..enjoy every minute of this conflict...

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eveline

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: amitra1212
well said ... i hope ASR is also maintaining a dairy with all these points...honestly i thing these episodes are shown to buy so more time and also to show them adjusting to married life... just clearing the MU will not help these two...Khushi will be deeply hurt after she finds out why he married her and then ASR will need all these small memories to bring her back... they realised there feelings with the teri meri dance ... and then got married within a month ... from there POV there love is still new ...

in real life too...any married couple take a ton of time to get adjusted to each other and match the other's wavelenght..even if they have been dating for long...the cvs are just trying to be realistic...