Would you date your friend's bf?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't mean to turn this into an issue, but I was just wondering whether you would date your friend's boyfriend. Would you fall in love with him. I know, I know the drill... Love Is Blind...BUT ARE YOU TOO?... Lavanya is so nice to Khushi, she can be insensitive at times, but I guess that comes with the whole brainless bimbo package, she hasn't had a shock or grown out of her teen years I guess to step into maturity... maybe that's why she's like that. But haven't we seen her heart lately?.. She really seems like a nice girl to mešŸ‘šŸ¼ whose being played by Arnav as his girl toy. Khushi doesn't seem like she'll go after her love, Arnav will have to make the first move...but is it ethical or moral for Khushi to go for Arnav when she's in friendship with La whose clueless about khushi's feelings?... I would love to see Khushi go ahead with La supporting her and understanding her feelings, but not at the expense of deceiving a friend!... Is love so priceless that it makes friendship worthless!!

Believe me, I love Arnav as much as the next girl over here, you all know that about me😳. Still it got me thinking whether if you were in Khushi's position and had a friend like Lavanya whose kinda immature but good natured, and caring at heart.... would you fall in love with her boyfriend, and even if you did fell in love accidently...which circumstances can bring two people closer, would you pursue your love, and give up on your friendship?... or would you make yourself stronger to fight those feelings?

If it was me, and God forbid the cupid's arrow struck me in such a horrendous position, I would avoid meeting that guy at all costs till I got over him. I would make that girl my phone/ chat friend so that I don't have to meet her personally and interact with her guy. Seriously, for me a friend is more valuable than some guy...even if he's hot as hell.
What are your views on this topic...what will it be for you friendship or love?

Since we discuss practically everything here, why not discuss this too?


Take care guyz,
Mahi
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pooh_91 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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since kushi works at rm meeting him comes with the package...
maybe it makes an impact later when she actually realises...maybe one of the reasons for arhi not confessing their love later on.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hmmm. if is it for arnav.. y not ..i can do it with any1... just only for arnav.. hai... marjava... but jokes a part.. may be not.. but hunny we dont need to run our brain while watching a serial.. just enjoy the cheery ...i mean serial
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pooh_91

since kushi works at rm meeting him comes with the package...

maybe it makes an impact later when she actually realises...maybe one of the reasons for arhi not confessing their love later on.



what the !!!!.. i never thiink of it.. no plz... cv dont do this.. but this is the most common option.. gosh..i hate it already...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Friendship comes first, but if 2 people feel the same way about one another then it's something that should be discussed with the friend. You're not a true friend if you're hiding your feelings from them or avoiding them. Obviously if this guy feels the same way about you then his relationship with your friend isn't meant to last and you wouldn't want it to. You always want your friends to be with someone who loves them unconditionally and if this guy is pining after you then she's getting short-changed as well. Oh and if he's not willing to be honest with her about his feelings for you then he's not worth it in the first place. If he is honest with her about his feelings then you can always date him after she's done with him...hahahaa šŸ˜‰
I've seen this type of situation happen on a few occasions and it's always a good thing to be open and honest b/c it will come back and bite you in the @$$ if you aren't (seen this one as well). Even if you lose a friend, at least you were completely honest about how you felt. It's up to the friend to determine where she goes from there.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Like!

If you really look at it, the track is ridiculous and trite...NO sensible girl will fall in love with another girl's guy...even if that girl isn't your best friend...Khushi and Arnav both are wrong, no matter which way we look at it...The way they keep staring at each other that too in the very presence of Lavanya feels sooo wrong...Not able to enjoy their scenes for the same reason...šŸ˜•

Over the past few weeks Lavanya has really won our hearts with her innocence and good nature...Just for her sake, I want her to have a dignified exit...I want HER to be the one who realizes that she wasn't really in love with Arnav...I want her to be the one to leave Arnav and that mad house and go away...I would hate the CVs trying to take a convenient route of revealing Lavanya to be some gold digging schemer who was bearing Arnav and and his family only to get a hand on his riches...


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Posted: 14 years ago
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There is a line which can't be crossed.

N thankfully enough all my friends BFs were jerks!!!! 🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think for now, she is only realising her feelings for Arnav, and ditto with him! Once she is sure, she will automatically move outta his life.. Khushi would perhaps never date ASR...

if u pose the same qn to me, my answer would be no diff from Khushi;s ... i will never date my friends boyfriend even if i love him to death, cos I would value my friendship more than the relationship! of course, I would want La to get her share of justice and Arnav better clarify things to her soon .. my heart goes out to the poor kid!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: pooh_91

since kushi works at rm meeting him comes with the package...

maybe it makes an impact later when she actually realises...maybe one of the reasons for arhi not confessing their love later on.


agree. because they both admire Lavanya, specially Khushi. This will be a problem later on for sure. La still loves Arnav. I really want her to stay but what if she becomes bad after she finds out about this? I love how she is now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i dont think we have to worry abt it as asr does not love lavanya.he never did and never will. not even before khushi came into his life. and to be honest la doesnt love him either. they dont have any understanding of each other feelings. la embarresed anjali at her engagement something that was so imp to asr. and asr is always insensitive to what is going on with her at the house.

theirs is an arrangement and i think la is beginning to see asr warm towards khushi i think she will leave him and go back to london like she planned. she already suspected that asr didnt love her as he didnt come to get her back he only came because of khushi.
i dont think la is the one to worry about she will leave im more worried about shyam.

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