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Posted: 14 years ago
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It's NOT only Hetal's decision that matters, even Karan's matter. The facts here are:

Hetal was NOT straight with Karan. She manipulated and brainwashed him against his family. If she had not done that, Karan would have never dreamed of leaving. If Hetal just wanted to live separately and she was straight about it, that would be different.

So, that makes Hetal wrong and evil in my books


She did not tell him lies. she told him facts and what she observed. the facts are that his family does not care about them which is what they have shown so far. They only want him close to them for their own selfish reasons. If they cared about him they would support him when he said he would go away for business for one year but leave hetal there. That is not moving away forever. And hetal did not tell him to go away he came up with that himself. Bedi's only care about sweety and her never ending problems and mona because if they support those two they do not have to lose anything.


Sorry, I do not see it this way. Hetal played too many games to create problems and misunderstandings. For example, when Vimmy had made halwa for Karan and asked Hetal to give it to him and Hetal had dumped the halwa into the bin and told Karan that Vimmy only made it her Satnaam and Mona and not for Karan. This was one of the few examples of how Hetal set a stage to get Karan to have misunderstandings. Hetal may not have been even half as bad had she not listened to Phui. Like I said, Hetal caused and manipulated the circumstances and that is 100 % wrong


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Posted: 14 years ago
#32
yeh iam so happy for mona and karan too. mona never ever hearts others. and mostly karals track is over iam so happy for that. love you mona. you are the main thread b/n bedis and gandhis.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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in anukalps house, anukalp and now mona are hte only two ppl working and with that money they for a while supported hetal and most likely will have to do so again now that hetal has moved in at least until karan gets his business going...sejal, bha, fui, ambaji, her husband, dadaji...can you just imagine if hetal was in the same situation and karan was having to do the same thing?? mona supports anukalp whole heartedly with out complaining had hetal been in the same position she would have been cursing out the dad and insisted on throwing the whole family out of the house. seriously. and how in any way have monas parents mistreated karan or sweety?? they raised them as if they are hteir very own children. sweety's marriage, mona's dad threw. the business that he worked so hard and supported karan, his parents, everyone with he so lovingly wants to give to karan. when sweety came into the house and hetal had that argumetn with sweety over the earings vimmy chachi so kindly explaiend to her that it's nicer to share and if there is anything you ever want too just tell us and we will get you whatever you want. even when vimmy chachi got the set she would have given it to hetal but she was such a brat. heck hetal even stole money from everyone to buy a set just to show off to vimmy chachi who was never even trying to compete wtih ehr int he first place...and still they let her go...she hasn't even apologized for it! satnam chacha has alwasy treated karan with love and respect an dlike his son. yeah he has a temper..which he has shown to mona too when she did something he felt was wrong but that's hwat parents do regardless of whether or not he gave birth to karna he has always regarded him as a son and treated him with the love and respect one. he could give the whole business to his daughter he could have kept hte money he earned from the business and insisted his brother take care of his own family...instead he built it and started to teach karna so that one day the business will be his and he can run it. seriously how the heck is htat selfish?? satnam chacha didn't even get that mad at karan when he gave him 9 lakh rupees to take care of and he lost it...instantly vimmy chachi took care of it and they let the matter drop...you know how much hetal and ambaji said to mona when teh house was robbed while she was in it?? the only time satnam chacha got really mad is when karan referred to him as a servant and he said how dare you call yourself a servant you are my son and don't ever let your self respect drop so low! infact the person who treated karan like a servant was hetal...when she humiliated karan completely by begging her family for a car wiht out even giving karna a chance to buy one for her wiht his own hard work...obviously it takes more time than a couple of days of marriage to build up to a car...or when she joined ambaji in harrassing anukalp for a necklace and belittled karan...hetal is stupid she is the one treated him like a servant and she is the one who has no respect or care for anyone except for herself.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: groovychica_22

in anukalps house, anukalp and now mona are hte only two ppl working and with that money they for a while supported hetal and most likely will have to do so again now that hetal has moved in at least until karan gets his business going...sejal, bha, fui, ambaji, her husband, dadaji...can you just imagine if hetal was in the same situation and karan was having to do the same thing?? mona supports anukalp whole heartedly with out complaining had hetal been in the same position she would have been cursing out the dad and insisted on throwing the whole family out of the house. seriously. and how in any way have monas parents mistreated karan or sweety?? they raised them as if they are hteir very own children. sweety's marriage, mona's dad threw. the business that he worked so hard and supported karan, his parents, everyone with he so lovingly wants to give to karan. when sweety came into the house and hetal had that argumetn with sweety over the earings vimmy chachi so kindly explaiend to her that it's nicer to share and if there is anything you ever want too just tell us and we will get you whatever you want. even when vimmy chachi got the set she would have given it to hetal but she was such a brat. heck hetal even stole money from everyone to buy a set just to show off to vimmy chachi who was never even trying to compete wtih ehr int he first place...and still they let her go...she hasn't even apologized for it! satnam chacha has alwasy treated karan with love and respect an dlike his son. yeah he has a temper..which he has shown to mona too when she did something he felt was wrong but that's hwat parents do regardless of whether or not he gave birth to karna he has always regarded him as a son and treated him with the love and respect one. he could give the whole business to his daughter he could have kept hte money he earned from the business and insisted his brother take care of his own family...instead he built it and started to teach karna so that one day the business will be his and he can run it. seriously how the heck is htat selfish?? satnam chacha didn't even get that mad at karan when he gave him 9 lakh rupees to take care of and he lost it...instantly vimmy chachi took care of it and they let the matter drop...you know how much hetal and ambaji said to mona when teh house was robbed while she was in it?? the only time satnam chacha got really mad is when karan referred to him as a servant and he said how dare you call yourself a servant you are my son and don't ever let your self respect drop so low! infact the person who treated karan like a servant was hetal...when she humiliated karan completely by begging her family for a car wiht out even giving karna a chance to buy one for her wiht his own hard work...obviously it takes more time than a couple of days of marriage to build up to a car...or when she joined ambaji in harrassing anukalp for a necklace and belittled karan...hetal is stupid she is the one treated him like a servant and she is the one who has no respect or care for anyone except for herself.



well said groovychica_22 👏👏. karan never under stand what his family wants in stead of irresponsible behaviour and rash answere he got so much love but he never understand the love of monas dad and mom. and what can i say about hetal very less about her is very safe for us. hope this time karan may understand what is the strength of a joint family.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: suresh555

If Hetal wanted to live alone with her husband, she should have not gone after Karan. She damn well knew he was part of a joint family and a tight one too. Hetal also came from a joint family and would have done exactly the same if Mona had tried to get Anu to live separately. I really do not see any logic for Hetal's behaviour and having an evil partner in crime named Phui does not help. I can see nothing but misery for Hetal if she continues and she will have no one but herself to blame for.

Anukalp is honestly acting like an idiot lately. Would he be that supportive of Mona if she also decided she wanted to break his family? I can see the entire Gandhi family attack Mona if she tried to take Anu dikraa away from them. Pehle to both these she-devils will taunt Mona like they do now even if Mona has just simply not prapared breakfast. They complain Mona to be a bad bahu when Hetal is not even in her sasural helping out with sick daarji

What's with females wanting to separate their hubbies from joint families when they knew that the husband was part of a joint family? These men were first the sons/brothers etc than husbands. They have a longer relationship with their familes and wives came into their lives later. I can understand if there was a serious issue to live separately but females like Hetal who entered the house with a plan and brainwashing from her Phui and Daadi deserve to stay unmarried rather than ruin a decent family


You said it so well...

This is the crux of the matter, if Hetal wanted to live alone she should have gone after professional man living far away from the family, working in different city or a family in which everybody had their own homes.

Hetal before marriage knew that Karan works with his uncle and he lives in a joint family, she shouldn't have chosen marry a boy from this kind of background.

Hetal's mom has lived in joint family all her life and even their Phui lives with them, and her brother Anu supports everybody financially and Mona tolerates all of them and shares her husbands income with them, who the heck Hetal is to abuse Mona. Hetal should tell her mother and father to get their own place and move out of Mona and Anu's house. She is taking Mona's generosity for granted. Mona should look after all her family while Hetal doesn't want to do anything with Karan's family.

I am disappointed in Ambaji, for not throwing Phui out for encouraging Hetal to seperate and preaching Hetal riot act..telling her in no uncertain terms that it is her duty to keep the family together just as Mona has done. Hetal is abusing Mona in Ambaji's presence and Ambaji pretends not to pay attention. Ambaji also wants Hetal to go away (maybe she is fed up) but she is not thinking how she will feel if Anu and Mona were to leave. She says she won't mind but her previous actions don't supports what she is saying..

Hetal and Karan should be allowed to go and never ever allowed to come back..let them enjoy Chandigar..let Hetal sit in flat alone whole day, while Karan tries to make a living and come back to angry, upset lonely Hetal. Bedi's should never ever let them back. If I were part of Bedi family I wouldn't want Karan and Hetal to live with me (after what happened), infact I would want to do nothing with them for a very very long time, maybe for rest of my life...they cannot eat their cake and have also have it...
Edited by April2007 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nigo123



all i would say is that a person like mona deserves everything bad in life that they get. She is soo immature that she cant even think this is not a competition she has with hetal but it is hetal and karan's life. She cannot meddle in just to top hetal. She ruined hetal's life to make her family and sweety happy. But sweety is married and has to move out and then hetal will be miserable living with a family that she doesnt like and they do not like her.Ambaji was right this is just he beginning the storm that will come afterwards will be worst because they all still have so much resentment and nothing is solved. But I still cant believe that in this day age somebody can interefere to this extent in someone's married life. Is mona going to also tell them when to have kids?


What life Hetal has which is ruined. Hetal sits home all day long doing almost nothing. Oh I forgot, her most important hobby is bad mouthing and insulting members of Karan's family and being unhappy and jealous of everybody who dresses better than her..

Bedi's should throw Hetal out if she abuses them too much...other than that she makes no contribution to families well being or happiness..

It is not easy to break up joint families...Hetal, Phui, Ambaji, Baa, Masterji all interfere in Mona's life all the time, they depend on Mona and Anu financially and emotionally. Hetal should tell her brother to move out of Ambaji's house before telling Karan that he should move out...If it is good for gander it is good for goose..

I find Ambaji has double standard too..she takes abuse from her daughter but is very very strict towards her daughter in law.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#37
@April2007

Thanks! You also have very good points. I too have trouble understanding Ambaji. She was a fierce lady with a strong personality and there was a time Hetal did not have guts to open her big mouth in front of her mother. Lately with all the rubbish and taunts from Hetal and Phui has no reaction from Ambaji. The old Ambaji would have turned non-vegetarian after making Hetal ki masaledaar biryani and Phui ke BBQ kababs :) Now she watches like a frustrated kitty as these two devil bens are in a taunting match on Ambaji's so called laadli bahu.

Ambaji ka bukhaar Anu ko bhi lag gaya hai. The guy seems blind and deaf to his sister's soorpanaka act and Phui's shaitaan ko takkar dene wali kalakari. Upar se Mona ke saath kit kit karta rahta hai.

Let's hope the CVs wake up (again) and this time stay with logic in the show
Edited by suresh555 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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you guys (mona haters) are all forgetting that her brother is very happy she did so! this is what he wanted, and this to him is the perfect ideal situation! and honestly i'm pretty sure her parents would survive just fine with out him. satnam chacha ran the busienss by himself for the last 20 or so years...karan has just now grown up and begun to help...who do you think was running the business before?? adn what major contribution if any has hetal made to the house?? the house was running even better with out her in it then it is with her in it. those are all excuses to get him to stay...because they love him and want him to know that they need him as he feels that he is useless and not loved...and ultimately it is that belief that hetal fed into karan's head that is why he is leaving...which is sad pathetic and dumb to create such insecurities. and hetal is so dumb first she cries noone loves him noone cares about him...it's quite evident now how much they care...as they are going through all extremes to ensure karan's happiness and keep him close by...but anywyas first hetal cries and complains that noone cares about karan and now when everyone is showing how much they care for karan she is crying and complaining because they care too much!! seriously if it was about his "taraki" as she put it she would be happy for him still but as i've already said earlier it's not about taraki it's about hetal's inability to get along with anyone and insistence on finding faults in everyone...seriously in chandigar she probably would have gotten jealous and mad at karan for spednign too much time ont he business she insisted he start in the first place! there is no making such a selfish bitter person happy...she will always be unhappy no matter what the situation or circumstance...and if you guys have noticed she is always bothering someone when mona came into the house then mona, when she left the house then vimmy chachi and satnam chacha...and if they were to go to chandigar the only person near her would be karna poor guy would get it sooo bad! she's not happy unless she is bullying someone...and right now he just has to deal with a small dose (which is bad as it is) there he would have gotten the fool dose!

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Posted: 14 years ago
#39
mona is right in her thinking no matter where hetal goes she will be unhappy...at least here karan can be a little happy...there he sin't going to find any happiness...not with hetal's attitude and nature.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes allways good will win and if you give love and respect to others you will get same with in bonus and that is proved by mona today.

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