Originally posted by: suresh555
If Hetal wanted to live alone with her husband, she should have not gone after Karan. She damn well knew he was part of a joint family and a tight one too. Hetal also came from a joint family and would have done exactly the same if Mona had tried to get Anu to live separately. I really do not see any logic for Hetal's behaviour and having an evil partner in crime named Phui does not help. I can see nothing but misery for Hetal if she continues and she will have no one but herself to blame for.
Anukalp is honestly acting like an idiot lately. Would he be that supportive of Mona if she also decided she wanted to break his family? I can see the entire Gandhi family attack Mona if she tried to take Anu dikraa away from them. Pehle to both these she-devils will taunt Mona like they do now even if Mona has just simply not prapared breakfast. They complain Mona to be a bad bahu when Hetal is not even in her sasural helping out with sick daarji
What's with females wanting to separate their hubbies from joint families when they knew that the husband was part of a joint family? These men were first the sons/brothers etc than husbands. They have a longer relationship with their familes and wives came into their lives later. I can understand if there was a serious issue to live separately but females like Hetal who entered the house with a plan and brainwashing from her Phui and Daadi deserve to stay unmarried rather than ruin a decent family
You said it so well...
This is the crux of the matter, if Hetal wanted to live alone she should have gone after professional man living far away from the family, working in different city or a family in which everybody had their own homes.
Hetal before marriage knew that Karan works with his uncle and he lives in a joint family, she shouldn't have chosen marry a boy from this kind of background.
Hetal's mom has lived in joint family all her life and even their Phui lives with them, and her brother Anu supports everybody financially and Mona tolerates all of them and shares her husbands income with them, who the heck Hetal is to abuse Mona. Hetal should tell her mother and father to get their own place and move out of Mona and Anu's house. She is taking Mona's generosity for granted. Mona should look after all her family while Hetal doesn't want to do anything with Karan's family.
I am disappointed in Ambaji, for not throwing Phui out for encouraging Hetal to seperate and preaching Hetal riot act..telling her in no uncertain terms that it is her duty to keep the family together just as Mona has done. Hetal is abusing Mona in Ambaji's presence and Ambaji pretends not to pay attention. Ambaji also wants Hetal to go away (maybe she is fed up) but she is not thinking how she will feel if Anu and Mona were to leave. She says she won't mind but her previous actions don't supports what she is saying..
Hetal and Karan should be allowed to go and never ever allowed to come back..let them enjoy Chandigar..let Hetal sit in flat alone whole day, while Karan tries to make a living and come back to angry, upset lonely Hetal. Bedi's should never ever let them back. If I were part of Bedi family I wouldn't want Karan and Hetal to live with me (after what happened), infact I would want to do nothing with them for a very very long time, maybe for rest of my life...they cannot eat their cake and have also have it...
Edited by April2007 - 14 years ago