Good analysis from both of you. I enjoyed the discussionOriginally posted by: April2007
You said it so well...
This is the crux of the matter, if Hetal wanted to live alone she should have gone after professional man living far away from the family, working in different city or a family in which everybody had their own homes.Hetal before marriage knew that Karan works with his uncle and he lives in a joint family, she shouldn't have chosen marry a boy from this kind of background.Hetal's mom has lived in joint family all her life and even their Phui lives with them, and her brother Anu supports everybody financially and Mona tolerates all of them and shares her husbands income with them, who the heck Hetal is to abuse Mona. Hetal should tell her mother and father to get their own place and move out of Mona and Anu's house. She is taking Mona's generosity for granted. Mona should look after all her family while Hetal doesn't want to do anything with Karan's family.I am disappointed in Ambaji, for not throwing Phui out for encouraging Hetal to seperate and preaching Hetal riot act..telling her in no uncertain terms that it is her duty to keep the family together just as Mona has done. Hetal is abusing Mona in Ambaji's presence and Ambaji pretends not to pay attention. Ambaji also wants Hetal to go away (maybe she is fed up) but she is not thinking how she will feel if Anu and Mona were to leave. She says she won't mind but her previous actions don't supports what she is saying..Hetal and Karan should be allowed to go and never ever allowed to come back..let them enjoy Chandigar..let Hetal sit in flat alone whole day, while Karan tries to make a living and come back to angry, upset lonely Hetal. Bedi's should never ever let them back. If I were part of Bedi family I wouldn't want Karan and Hetal to live with me (after what happened), infact I would want to do nothing with them for a very very long time, maybe for rest of my life...they cannot eat their cake and have also have it...