Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
If Siddharth finds out about Viren, who will believe him? Nivedita herself might not believe him, even if Siddharth brings in the greatest proof. Its not Nivedita's fault, but she cannot in her wildest dreams think Viren can be the stalker. Similarly, when Viren was framing Sid, Sid could never make out that Viren, his younger brother and Nivedita's husband, can frame him and traumatise his own beloved wife Nivedita, and can give DS wrong medicines. Its beyond Nivedita's belief, that Viren can be the stalker.
Its said "diamonds cut diamonds". If someone wants to give Viren a "sermon", he will not understand, he needs to be made understood in the language he understands now.Viren used Nivedita against Sid, because Nivedita was his childhood friend and also Nivedita is an honest girl. If Nivedita herself points fingers at Sid, even a person like DS will pause and think, as DS knows Nivedita will never speak lies. (I am not talking about YD, because I feel people like her do not have any intuition or proper judgement who is honest or who is fake).Similarly, if Nivedita finds out about Viren and says Sid is innocentc (without taking real stalker's name), that makes better sense, DS will believe Nivedita's words, the reason being same, that she, as a person will not speak lies.
When she says Sid is innocent, she will not name Viren in public or accuse him, in front of everyone. Because the story has to proceed to Nivi working to build her relationship with Viren, and hence she needs to know what is making Viren do all these? She will try to lessen Viren's pain, and after that, its completely upto Viren, whether to realise or not. A relationship can survive on two pillars. Viren needs to realise his path was not right, and at the same time, start working towards the betterment of his marriage from his side. Its only Viren, who can realise and rectify his actions. Nivedita can just help him, but he has to realise and implement. A teacher can only teach, but the student has to go and write the exam and come out successful. Both teacher and student are important for an exam, but duties of both are different, both have to do their part jointly to succeed in an exam.
I had read many comments yesterday, about the institution of marriage, about marital vows. I feel, its all upto the humans to nurture a relationship. If a person is not compassionate, no marriage vows can make the person more responsible. Without vows also, a person will be dutiful. If Viren-Nivi's marriage works, it will be only because of Nivedita's patience, when she will give Viren the chance and time to realise and rectify.This track has no other immediate way, than to show Viren realising his mistake, that the path he has taken is not right.
Talking about "institution of marriage", its all depends on humans, as per their thoughts and the circumstance they face in life. I feel in this world, the most passionate relationship is of "mother-children". But we do not take any vows for abiding that relationship. Though rare, but its true, parents make mistakes. It is upto the children, whether to forgive them or not. Just we are thinking that Nivedita will forgive Viren and work towards her marriage, because one should not pay disrespect to the marriage, its also true, that we need to be impartial to every one, whether our parents, our friends, our partners and think in a similar way of "forgetting and forgiving". Some relationships do not start with "chanting of mantras", but those are also relationships, where people need to apply the same principles.. Impartiality and unbiasedness should prevail whenever we decide anything, whether about our parents, children, love, friends, anyone. ( I just like to mention I am not talking about Sid-Nivi relationship in any ways, but I was keeping more in mind, NTdadi's words to Pratap. Sometimes, instead of children, parents make mistakes, we need to apply the same principle as "forget and forgive").
Nivedita will work towards Viren's betterment, whether she was married or not to Viren. She would have even worked towards betterment of her relationship with Sid if circumstance was such. But the entire circumstance that time was very messy, with Keshav sick, Divya crazy for Sid, HL's manipulations, CC's schemes, JW's plots, DS's stroke and then Viren enters with his own ideas, not known to anyone. She really had no control on anything that time, but to flow with time. But today, she has control, she is not as badly tied up as she was before, she just has to concentrate on Viren now. She will definitely do that, as she is sketched to be a compassionate person.
Nivedita and Sid's relationship is not possible at this moment, unless in reply to Nivedita's care and love, Viren does not realise and keeps on walking the wrong way. Everything depends on Viren now, whether he will be able to see the love and affection that his family as well as Nivedita has for him and his conscience starts to play OR he wants to contibue in his revenge mode.