Mayank's and Nupur's POV

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Authors Note: The views on husband-wife relation are of majority and successful marriages. Also I personally believe the whole Trauma Center idea was just to create Hype for Myu and us fans, simply CVs mistake again.
So A lot of people have concerns on how who is right and wrong. well there is a saying that goes there are two sides of a coin: one is head and one is tails. It depends on which one lands first.
Let's start with Mayanks POV
Mayank has every right to behave the way he has been behaving for the last 3 years. A husband lost a wife, a man lost his best friend, a man lost his lover. Although he has other relations too but when a marriage takes place, your new bond is the strongest bond in every society. You can fight with eachother and say anything to eachother but the thought of loosing them or having someone come in between you is just unbearable. You can be angry with your spouse and that is your right but have someone else be angry with your spouse is a big NO NO for you and you have every right to defend them even if you think they are wrong (you is the man in this case). After a mother's relationship, its the husband and wife relationship that is the strongest especially where husband is concerned. For a woman, her husband and his family is her new family after her marriage. So Mayank has every right to be angry with Nupur, even if Gunjan is related to Nupur but Mayank has more right on her than Gunjan (this is not bashing or anything). It's weird how relationships work but they work just this way. Mayank lost her wife and for 3 years he was lead to believe that she was no more and will never return. Do you know how hard that is for a man to live with? For women, they are emotionally strong because they are lead to live that way because to them they have other responsibilities to think too but for majority of men, they can break down easily once their life is taken from them. Their Ego lies in their wife's support. Mayank's ego is his Nupur, he can fight with her and be angry at her but he can't have anyone else do the same to her. He is possessive. His ego was broken when Nupur left and if she came back, his first reaction is to win her back and then think onwards because after 3 long years he saw his wife, he saw his ego (btw ego is used in good terms). He has every right to behave the way he is behaving right now.
I personally believe that all this behavior of his is just an act to bring Nupur back or have Nupur confess. A husband knows his wife the best and in this case Mayank knows that Nupur won't come back if he runs after her and show his broken self because that is what Nupur wants. He knows that if he silently challenges her by ignoring her then she will come running becuase she herself would want to know why he left her in the first place. Remember how she came back when he left her in the middle? So yes mayank's indifference towards Nupur is justified but in his own terms.
Nupur's POV:
Yes Nupur has suffered and yes she was away for 3 years. We don't know what her story is yet because it is still developing and from the looks of it she suffered a lot. As she returns she didn't expect to meet them but she did and in the moment she decided to play along and well thought that she can at least see them one last time before disappearing forever. She thought that she was emotionally strong but what she didn't expect was that the trio were stronger and would do anything to get her back. To her the old Nupur is dead and it hurts her to say that to them. She is convincing herself more than she is convincing them. She was bombarded by them all and yes she has the right to say what she said to them. She has other lives too but somehow I felt that she was tyring to convince herself more than them.
For a wife, cheating is a big no no. She can protect herself from her husband and can fight him but she can't see someone else fight him. She can say anything to her husband but can't have or hear anything against her husband. No matter how wrong or right the other person might be but she will support her husband only. Nupur is strong but not strong enough against Mayank. She has that pull towards him that no matter what she can hide things from her sister and friend but can't hide it from Mayank because she knows that she will blurt it out once he leaves her. She can't bear the thought of Mayank leaving her. She can leave him but him leaving her is just not her cup of tea.
Yes it is high time CVs show Nupur's story and rightly she deserves it too but what we and CVs need to understand that even the trio have long waiting because they lost someone too just like she did.
I am waiting to see Nupur's side of the story.
We were landed with the trio story first and hence they took the possession of the field but now it's Nupur's turn.
My main idea is to let everyone know that neither are right but they are not wrong either. In time we will fit both stories and come to a conclusion just like in a match we are given a conclusion but in this case the conclusion lies in the hand of our dear CVs and the audience and MN.
Those were my two cents.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wonderful post as usual rooj..u said evrything beautifully.

newayz,res for today...can't do it now..mom's gonna kill me if i stay a minute longer here... 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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awesome post👏👏👏

res..will edit later😛

edit:

u have written everything wonder what's left for me too right..lolz

mayanks thoughts are totally disturbed....he has tried all his effort to make nupur remember him- be it showing her their pics....or talking sweetly to her....or fiting with her once again & then simply reconfessing his love to her

but nupur's not accepting it....what more the guy can do..he can't force himself upon her....she is not responding back to him..he can't see her sad..coz of him so he is just doing what she wants....staying away from him.....i guess he believes- if that girl is the same girl who sweared eternal love to him...will surely be back for him..if she still loves him..it's useless to force her or irritate her

but by being so hard isn't giving him any happiness...he's back to his sadu avatar again....it's surely hurting him immensely that his love his no more recognizing him but thwarting him away

nupur's pov- is still a mystery to me..but one thing is sure she's not at all happy to be with whoever that dhruv fiancee is....coz his phone calls are not giving her a smile but terror in her eyes

he's holding her back- but for what & why is all a mystery right now

but she surely remembers mayank- coz when he told her ki tum jaha jana hai jao..lekin jaane se pejle gunjan ko yakken dila do ki tum uski di nahi ho

her eyse conveyed hurt.....she has succeeded in making mayank believe at last that she isn't his nupur but still her heart is yearning for his comfort & love

Edited by Shivani1arti - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Amazing topic Rooj! 😃
Will be back! =]
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u hv written it beautifully girl...
take a bow....absolutely brilliant....!!!
sacred bond f marriage is the symbol f togederness....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deblina_ArTi

wonderful post as usual rooj..u said evrything beautifully.

newayz,res for today...can't do it now..mom's gonna kill me if i stay a minute longer here... 🤣

Thanks...
go go run like the wind...actually fly. lmaoROFL
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivani1arti

awesome post👏👏👏

res..will edit later😛

Thanks Shivani,
Please do so soon Im dying to read what you write...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheLioness

Amazing topic Rooj! 😃
Will be back! =]

thanks and plz be back soon will be waiting
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Amazingly written Rooj!
Reserved for now. =]
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shakti_rock

u hv written it beautifully girl...

take a bow....absolutely brilliant....!!!
sacred bond f marriage is the symbol f togederness....

Thanks 😳
Yes marriage is one bond that can't be really broken. It's a bond special on its own. Mothers bond is diff. from marriage...i just hope the cv's will give justice to MN's bond

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