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Nishita Rao

@Nishitarao

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Posted: 15 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Actually Ridz has already stopped wondering .. if we watch the same show😊 Thats debatable 😊 hmm for now lets just leave at side..

And for those things.. Nope.. When ur father doesnt agree with u on the first note, and then eventually HAS to agree with ur love, that's diff thing.. And father's own choice is diff thing.. He didn't agree becoz she blackmailed him or smthing.. he agreed becoz he realized Armaan truly loves her..there was no pressure involved.. but he agreed to have Sid as is SIL coz he was under the pressure of the society..(correct me if im wrong coz i wasn't watching dmg then) n most imp.. she agreed to marry sid for her dad's sake

Secondly.. Marriage provides that security.. Love can never do.. It can provide security to a certain extent.. ( abt cheating n all ).. But Marriage gives 100% emotional security in all sense if u husband loves u..😊 AR would have been married if it wasn't for the shoot out.. or even if it wasn't for SR marriage.. n if that had happened, she would have gotten the security u r talking abt + the man of her dreams 😊

Thirdly.. Armaan was a beautiful dream for her.. And will always remain special.. But with Sid, she is gonna be in bliss.. 😊 She even doesnt have time to think abt other things, even when she is with Armaan.. She keeps on talking abt Sid😆😛 there are tons of times she has thought of Armaan when she was with sid.. so lets not go there 😆

She is happier more than ever.. becoz of those😉

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Nishita Rao

@Nishitarao

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Posted: 15 years ago

#42

Well any blind person in DMG can see Shashank has always been biased towards Sid.. So many Armaan fanz bash Shashank for that.. U can deny if u want, but that's a fact.. Given a choice btwn Armaan and Sid, Shanky will always go against Armaan, no matter who is opp. of Armaan..😕

[QOUTE\]

Remember when Shash got to know that Armaan had returned, he talked to him in his chamber?... when Armaan tells Shash that he is leaving... shash wont let him go.. he says... "I let you go last time, but this time u have to stay for ridz sake".. then Armaan says.."I wish u had stopped me last time itself" so shash says "I will never forgive myself for that" it means he still thinks he is responsible for AR not happening 😊

Shashank does favor Sid over Armaan..but not coz he is better than Armaan..but only becoz he is his SIL..If u take that part from the equation, Armaan will become his first choice again...

ARians dont hate him for supporting Sid.. they hate him coz he asked Armaan to help SR with their marriage in spite of knowing that it would kill him.. ARians also know that, Shash did that coz he trusted Armaan...

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@DB_reloaded

Trailblazer

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Posted: 15 years ago

#43

amazin topic gal..luvd every bit of it...she will miss da golden old days as soon as she cfind da old things cumin bac 2 her...i mean her old frends n all...bi no means shees better off nw....shee juss in a negotiation point...n slowly slowly shees acceptin it...>>>dats it..>>>

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

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Posted: 15 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav
Well any blind person in DMG can see Shashank has always been biased towards Sid.. So many Armaan fanz bash Shashank for that.. U can deny if u want, but that's a fact.. Given a choice btwn Armaan and Sid, Shanky will always go against Armaan, no matter who is opp. of Armaan..😕

So Sid has that advantage and Ridz has that assurance.. That Shashank, her dad likes Sid hands down😃

Secondly, again if u want, u can deny, but engagement and marriage aint the same.. Marriage gives social acceptance and as well as legal.. it is a HUGE secured relationship.. specially for girls.. Which is why whenever a girl falls in love, the first thing she thinks abt is getting married, and not of getting engaged.. Engagement is acceptance of love.. marriage is acceptance of 10000 other factors.. Commitment..

Hence.. Ridz is a absolute peace with her relationship with Sid😛

I am sorry for quoting you yet again,but you again got it wrong. Shashank is not biased towards Sid.He is biased towards his son in law.There's a difference.Before Sid had become his son-in law shashank and sid hardly had any interaction...except for the day,Sid came late for his orientation and offended Shashank and the day Sid offerered to help Shshank in accompanying Riddhima..and what makes you think that shashank would go against armaan?Agree,he had at many instances misunderstood armaan,though armaan went out of his way to get shashank-padma together,saved sanjeevani and above all loved his daughter more than anything else in his life.But if you remember the same shashank,hugged armaan and said he's proud to have him for his daughter, when armaan told the truth about his parents on the day of AR roka.If shashank was biased against armaan,he could have called off the roka that day..So,shashank is just being a principled father supporting his daughter's marriage and son-in law..its got nothing to do with preferring Sid over Armaan..On the contrary,if shashank had a ''legal'' choice since he's so particular about his family pride,he would have preferred Armaan anyday,coz he has witnessed their love,seen them sacrificing their lives and career for each other,if need be.

Now coming to the sec.point,Armaan and Riddhima were as good as married,agree or not.Secured? Definitely YES! Cmon,they would have got married if that shoot out didint happen.Why are you turning a blind eye to that? Marriage was just one step away...BTW,the secured marriage you are talking about was on the verge of a break up,if you remember,not once but many times.

Thnx😊

Edited by basuvaishali - 15 years ago

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Avantika

@ArshiARMaaneet

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Posted: 15 years ago

#45

I totally agree..........when c was thinking abt the old time nd suddlny sid appeared.........c came back to reality nd became little sad....while going out of locker room c also said to sid dat here u go again.....dat means sid interupted her from thinking about her good times in the past and of course ridzy didnt like it......nd again when ridzy realize dat Armaan was also in the elevator c smiled at him.......nd dat kind of amile ridzy never had when c is wid sid.....for a moment in the locker room ridzy wanted to forget about the reality and wanted to become the old ridzy...

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Aquarius18

@Aquarius18

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#46

Wonderful topic reemz!!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Yes I agree that riddhima has accepted the marriage. Yes maybe she's fallen in love with him. But deep down she'll always know that she could have had MUCH better-she could have had her dream which was armaan.
I don't really class SR marriage as a proper marriage. Shashank never like planned or arranged their marriage-social pressures forced him to give consent to SR marriage. Even when ridz has accepted this marriage, she still does not even share the same room as him. I know some might argue with 'papa jag jaayega' but that seemed more like lust than love to me. When it got down to it, she said no.
AR were like a married couple anyway. Even after they broke up she still had that trust in him to go to him and ask him who she should choose. I remember she said 'Even when I need a friend I can only think of you'. With the person you love the most, you should even be able to find a friend on them. My parents had an arranged marriage but my mum still confides in my dad as he's both her husband and her friend and they both love each other a lot. I myself would prefer an arranged marriage as my parents know best but I don't believe in force marriages or marriages due to social pressure. SR are married but they're not like a married couple. Riddhima can't confide in him like she could with armaan.

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RandomSquared

@RandomSquared

Sparkler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#47

i know Riddhima just looks soo tired of life...she looks bored.

but yeah even if she is happy with the way things are, she knows there was a time when she was happier. There ws a time when she was alive. And there will always be that "what if", and "if only"....there will always be a *sigh*

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Amaira

@amaira

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Posted: 15 years ago

#48

amazingly said.. how do u manage to put words so beutifully?

but yes, there will always be that 'What if?' in Ridhimas life

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Nikki

@Nikki_C

Voyager

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Posted: 15 years ago

#49

Beautiful post😳👏

and i really couldn't have agreed more

Sid is a great husband and he really loves Riddhima but there is still something missing

Riddhima has definitely matured and moved on from those good old days, but somewhere deep down inside, she still wishes that she could relive that too perfect to be true life.

AR complete each other's life and it shall always be that way😳

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