Riddhima's settled, satisfied with life...BUT - Page 4

Originally posted by: rapunzel84

<font color="#0066ff">Sorry to butt in a AR topic...But couldn't help wondering...Satisfaction comes ONLY when you are happy with what you have...If she still wished or desired something else, she would NOT have been satisfied...pretty contradictory right? 'coz satisfaction and happiness can never be mutually exclusive....
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Satisfaction is actually fuzzy logic. Depends on how you apply it to being happy. Riddhima has seen best of times when she was in love. And she is satisfied with having a loving husband as Siddhant. This satisfaction is because she has buried her feelings for Armaan and taking things in stride. I guess that is exactly what Reemz has mentioned. So you see, her satisfaction has come from her acceptance of the situation. Armaan has not accepted things yet (and God knows if he can ever come to terms with it) and hence is frustrated and unhappy.

Originally posted by: shalu2012

lovely post totally agree with u . i hope & pray to god nobody comes across these situatn/phase or feelingin his/her life.

True ... God dushman ko bhi itna pain na de ... 😭 😭 😭

love ur post...totally agree wid u...!!

😆 Sorry! i am not laughing at your topic Reemu... I am laughing at ur DP... Aaah.. I ❤️ it so much... my fav movie... aaahh! 😃

Ok moving on to the topic... Hugs 🤗 as usual...very well written and how true...
There is a khalish and always will be of "what could have been" but didn't happen... otherwise she wouldn't have bothered to say sorry...Mind you...she was the one who started the 'reminiscing' when she said Shilpa was like Armaan in playing pranks and how much he used to trouble her.... 😃 and she smiled...laughed....b/c she knew that she was thinking about teh best time of her life...

Yes...we hate Riddhima always for how she treats Armaan...but deep down...she cares...and it shows or she wouldn't have said 'main zyada hi rude thi na...' 😊

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Umm no.. for me she is HAPPIER.. Becoz she has the satisfaction of her Father's consent for this relationship..She had her father's consent for her relationship with Armaan too.. in fact, the shoot out happened just a few days before their wedding And also she has the Secured feeling of getting married with Sid.. She knew Armaan would love her more than anyone else in the world, so security was not an issue when she was with Armaan either

Hence.. She is happier 😃

we are not saying she is not happy with sid..of course she is, he is great guy.. but she'll never be able to stop herself from wondering what her life would have been if she were married to Armaan..
Coz marrying him was dream but she was married to Sid b4 she could even think about him...😊

Tere bina zindagi se koi shiqwa to nahi...shiqwa nahi...tere bina zindagi bhi lekin,zindahi to nahi !!! yes that is true for both armaan and riddhima at the moment..

I totally disagree..do you have any proof to back up your "opinion"? Riddhima is completely happy with Sid, and she has forgotten about Armaan. Don't know how long you guys will keep dreaming.

Originally posted by: nish_dmg

we are not saying she is not happy with sid..of course she is, he is great guy.. but she'll never be able to stop herself from wondering what her life would have been if she were married to Armaan..
Coz marrying him was dream but she was married to Sid b4 she could even think about him...😊

Actually Ridz has already stopped wondering .. if we watch the same show😊

And for those things.. Nope.. When ur father doesnt agree with u on the first note, and then eventually HAS to agree with ur love, that's diff thing.. And father's own choice is diff thing..

Secondly.. Marriage provides that security.. Love can never do.. It can provide security to a certain extent.. ( abt cheating n all ).. But Marriage gives 100% emotional security in all sense if u husband loves u..😊

Thirdly.. Armaan was a beautiful dream for her.. And will always remain special.. But with Sid, she is gonna be in bliss.. 😊 She even doesnt have time to think abt other things, even when she is with Armaan.. She keeps on talking abt Sid😆😛

She is happier more than ever.. becoz of those😉

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Actually Ridz has already stopped wondering .. if we watch the same show😊

And for those things.. Nope.. When ur father doesnt agree with u on the first note, and then eventually HAS to agree with ur love, that's diff thing.. And father's own choice is diff thing..

Secondly.. Marriage provides that security.. Love can never do.. It can provide security to a certain extent.. ( abt cheating n all ).. But Marriage gives 100% emotional security in all sense if u husband loves u..😊

Thirdly.. Armaan was a beautiful dream for her.. And will always remain special.. But with Sid, she is gonna be in bliss.. 😊 She even doesnt have time to think abt other things, even when she is with Armaan.. She keeps on talking abt Sid😆😛

She is happier more than ever.. becoz of those😉

Well, just to remind you coz we are watching the same show that Sid was not Shashank's choice.Sid himself volunteered to marry Riddhima when the whole body heat and rape fiasco happened.Had it not happened,do you think Sid would STILL have been shashank's choice for his daughter?? So,there you go!!! and btw,Armaan-Riddhima had their roka and they were going to be engaged the day the unfortunate shootout happened..So their love had all the security that needs to be there..Just going around 7 times round the fire infront of an audience or a marriage certificate doesnot guarantee security...otherwise,divorses would never happen.

Well any blind person in DMG can see Shashank has always been biased towards Sid.. So many Armaan fanz bash Shashank for that.. U can deny if u want, but that's a fact.. Given a choice btwn Armaan and Sid, Shanky will always go against Armaan, no matter who is opp. of Armaan..😕

So Sid has that advantage and Ridz has that assurance.. That Shashank, her dad likes Sid hands down😃

Secondly, again if u want, u can deny, but engagement and marriage aint the same.. Marriage gives social acceptance and as well as legal.. it is a HUGE secured relationship.. specially for girls.. Which is why whenever a girl falls in love, the first thing she thinks abt is getting married, and not of getting engaged.. Engagement is acceptance of love.. marriage is acceptance of 10000 other factors.. Commitment..

Hence.. Ridz is a absolute peace with her relationship with Sid😛