Sunn Mere Dil (GEO) #12 - Wahaj Ali, Maya Ali, Hira Mani - Page 78

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

He’s even more dumb and annoying than Gopi hameshaaaaan playing victim card 🤦‍♀️

I just hope Sadaf never goes back to him....I can't take sadmar sadma anymore ...but it seems like she will be going back to him

Originally posted by: 2RsFan

One thing that I don't understand is why is Sadaf in such a hurry to be with Bilal ? They could have shown her trying to be independent and focusing on her job. In the process their love story could have been properly developed. Currently it feels as if Sadaf must need a man on her life.

Sadaf went through a traumatic divorce. She is emotionally exhausted. Her self-worth and self-confidence is at an all time low and she is subconsciously looking for self validation. She thinks she will be able to erase the past and regain her confidence and self-worth if she undoes her past mistake and marries a good and worthwhile person like Bilal Abdullah. There is also an element there of her wanting to hurt Ammar like he hurt her by hitting him at his biggest insecurity. This is unhealthy trauma response. Many women (and men) who are not able to properly process the trauma of their divorce can exhibit rebound behaviour, thinking that a new love and relationship can fill the emptiness and insecurities in their hearts. A good show would go beyond just this trauma response to also show how she learned that this is not healthy coping behaviour and decided to focus on her own healing and to recalibrate herself before jumping into something new. But I don't think we will get that journey here.

Also you have to understand that this is the Who Will Sadaf Choose track and not a 2nd chance romance track. The makers are trying to set up that Sadaf is at crossroads yet again, mirroring the choice she had to make 20+ episodes ago. Will she cede to pressure from people around her and Ammar's manipulations again and reconcile with Ammar OR will she listen to her own heart this time? Ammar gets so much ss because he is one half of the choice Sadaf has to pick from. Bilal is shown to distance himself because if he was still reciprocating, the choices will have no weight and there won't be any suspense. They r trying to lead up to will Sadaf choose Bilal who she thinks is not that much into her anymore or will she still think Ammar's drinking poison stunt is a manifestation of love. We will see Sadaf choose Bilal because her definition of love will have changed. It won't be about give & take/reciprocity for her anymore (no more khareedna, beechna, boli lagana) but about loving someone whether they love you back or not. She will take a leap of faith and choose Bilal not knowing if he still feels same way about her because that's what her heart tells her. Once Sadaf confesses to Bilal, Bilal will reiterate that he loves her too.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

I just hope Sadaf never goes back to him....I can't take sadmar sadma anymore ...but it seems like she will be going back to him

I’m tired of seeing this man

Originally posted by: hypnotoad

Sadaf went through a traumatic divorce. She is emotionally exhausted. Her self-worth and self-confidence is at an all time low and she is subconsciously looking for self validation. She thinks she will be able to erase the past and regain her confidence and self-worth if she undoes her past mistake and marries a good and worthwhile person like Bilal Abdullah. There is also an element there of her wanting to hurt Ammar like he hurt her by hitting him at his biggest insecurity. This is unhealthy trauma response. Many women (and men) who are not able to properly process the trauma of their divorce can exhibit rebound behaviour, thinking that a new love and relationship can fill the emptiness and insecurities in their hearts. A good show would go beyond just this trauma response to also show how she learned that this is not healthy coping behaviour and decided to focus on her own healing and to recalibrate herself before jumping into something new. But I don't think we will get that journey here.

Also you have to understand that this is the Who Will Sadaf Choose track and not a 2nd chance romance track. The makers are trying to set up that Sadaf is at crossroads yet again, mirroring the choice she had to make 20+ episodes ago. Will she cede to pressure from people around her and Ammar's manipulations again and reconcile with Ammar OR will she listen to her own heart this time? Ammar gets so much ss because he is one half of the choice Sadaf has to pick from. Bilal is shown to distance himself because if he was still reciprocating, the choices will have no weight and there won't be any suspense. They r trying to lead up to will Sadaf choose Bilal who she thinks is not that much into her anymore or will she still think Ammar's drinking poison stunt is a manifestation of love. We will see Sadaf choose Bilal because her definition of love will have changed. It won't be about give & take/reciprocity for her anymore (no more khareedna, beechna, boli lagana) but about loving someone whether they love you back or not. She will take a leap of faith and choose Bilal not knowing if he still feels same way about her because that's what her heart tells her. Once Sadaf confesses to Bilal, Bilal will reiterate that he loves her too.

Well I agree with all your points hypno but I dont agree with one thing..I think Sadaf's definition of love will change but I think she is understanding the fact that Bilal still loves her but it is in that stage where he doesn't need her to love her..

Sadaf's problem was like she felt love means just staying together..but she never really experienced the true genuine connection with Ammar..which I think she'll feel for Bilal even if they aren't together. I think that's where they are going because Sadaf Bilal dont have scenes together before the rain sequence.

Originally posted by: unicornhugs

I don’t think this is true. I have a friend that went through a divorce and they consulted a reputed Imam about it. Reconciliation is encouraged but she doesn’t need to stay with him if he takes the talaq back.

actually it more of husband's right to take wife back (Quran 2:228). husband has more responsibility hence more right.

but obviouly a husband can't force her wife to stay with him. the option of khula is always there.

here sadaf doesn't really mind ammar coming for reconciliation. infact she gave him hope. if he takes divorce back, will she really go to the court? that's the real question.

does anyone know how many episodes of SMD are left? 6 or 8?

has geo announced new show replacing it?

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Just their phone conversation get lakhs of likes, they would have broken all records if they had screenspace with eachother and the show focused on them.

Kaddu and haseeb need to go to hell for not utilising their insane potential

Originally posted by: TwinkleStar12

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Just their phone conversation get lakhs of likes, they would have broken all records if they had screenspace with eachother and the show focused on them.

Kaddu and haseeb need to go to hell for not utilising their insane potential

Haseeb Kaddu can't do anything if the script doesn't demand scenes between them

Most of the people who are watching the show..have the hope that they'll be together towards the end...I am so done with overdose of ammar now...I dont want to see the other characters anymore..!!

Originally posted by: wildflower9

does anyone know how many episodes of SMD are left? 6 or 8?

has geo announced new show replacing it?

I think the show is almost reaching its climax..so it will be max 6-10 epis more.

Originally posted by: kuhelidebbarma

I think the show is almost reaching its climax..so it will be max 6-10 epis more.

10? really? if it has 10 more episodes, they will surely show a lot of bilal sadaf scenes in dubai track.

i do think more than 6 episodes are left. may be 8.

also they have started shortening the episdoes so definitely they will strech it to 43 atleast.