Megha Barsenge Episode Discussion Thread. -2 DT Note Page8 and Page93 - Page 73

Originally posted by: Anj_01

She deserved only manoj. She should go back to him only. She is so obsessed with him, keeps taking his name every time. Arjun mein bhi usko manoj hi dikhta hoga... delusional fool. Infact this is the reason ki usko ye bachha chahiye, manoj na sahi to koi to cheez hai jo usko manoj se jode hua hai... Thats why... She is manoj ki deewani from the starting, jab wo ghaseet ghaseet ke maarta tha isko tabhi isko charam sukh ki prapti hoti hogi😂😂

I can't say this wrong though disrespectful because I feel somewhere Megha is more attracted to Manoj than Arjun.....still finding what kind of hormonesshe doesn't get sukh kaunsa bhi by his love but Manoj's antics gives her a new meaning of living life....you know how hubby issues work......

Originally posted by: Resham

Watched today's episode only for Neil....he is just fabulous in whatever he does - be it angst, hurt , disappointment....angst over Meghas attitude, hurt and disappointed because of his mother.....ohh boy he is just too good...carried an entire episode on his shoulder.....

Baki story wise nothing much to talk about....don't know how far they can stretch this....

Btw the show completed 150 episodes today....

Loved Neil's performance in today's episode 👏👏👏 .. his dialogues were spot on with his frustration and irritation 💯. When he caught Megha's head close to his and said "tumhe bhi kisi ne nahi bataya ki mein ek baddimag, badtameez aur bohot ziddi insaan hun.. itna ziddi ki mere zidd ke aage kisi ki nahi chalti🔥🔥🔥" .. he was on fire for real and frankly I felt a bit scared that we may be getting a shade of Arjun that we had not seen before.🥹💕 Arjun burning all the items and money may not be right but I loved it😆🤩🔥

There was so much anger and angst in Arjun today that I felt under the sweet AT, there must be layers of other traits which made him who he is. And if that calm exterior is shaken, he is pretty violent from within🤠. His behaviour with his family is also an indication of his disappointment with them which did not start since he brought Megha into the house but he always probably carried some sort of under current trauma.. may be something that happened in his childhood which he was unable to digest or accept and blocked it in his mind at that point but subconsciously it made him who he is. The way he deals with Shagun from the beginning, it was more of sympathy for her than love, I felt. He may have been disappointed that his mother did not stand up for herself and chose to become submissive to the abuse of buji and KP😮‍💨. May be that is what attracted him to Megha, her spirit to fight and not give up🫡. May be that is the reason he became an IAS and works for women's welfare. I wouldn't be surprised if Arjun already knows the violent nature of his father and buji as he must have seen something in his childhood which he chose to block out and developed an exterior show of respect for KP🧐. But on a subconscious level he knows the nature of KP and buji🤮. There is so much they could explore from Arjun and his background if they wanted but they choose to stick with the FL who is hopeless and typical like every other FL🥱. I don't have any expectations from the makers to explore Arjun's pov and life in detail 😒

Originally posted by: Anj_01

She deserved only manoj. She should go back to him only. She is so obsessed with him, keeps taking his name every time. Arjun mein bhi usko manoj hi dikhta hoga... delusional fool. Infact this is the reason ki usko ye bachha chahiye, manoj na sahi to koi to cheez hai jo usko manoj se jode hua hai... Thats why... She is manoj ki deewani from the starting, jab wo ghaseet ghaseet ke maarta tha isko tabhi isko charam sukh ki prapti hoti hogi😂😂

I feel the same. I sometimes feel she gets angry on Arjun and starts shouting and treating him like shit because he separated her from her Manoj ji🧐. Now she has her Manoj Ji's nishaani in her womb and she will even kill Arjun if she has to inorder to keep the sweet nishaani which will keep her tied to her Manoj ji and his passionate love for her. This child will always keep the divine parents together😍 and this way she doesn't have to let go of her Manoj ji and his pyaar for her. She probably misses his attention on her.🥹. Sab Arjun ki galti hai.. do pyaar karne walon ke beech mein haddi ban gaya😡

Originally posted by: Dihiva

I feel the same. I sometimes feel she gets angry on Arjun and starts shouting and treating him like shit because he separated her from her Manoj ji🧐. Now she has her Manoj Ji's nishaani in her womb and she will even kill Arjun if she has to inorder to keep the sweet nishaani which will keep her tied to her Manoj ji and his passionate love for her. This child will always keep the divine parents together😍 and this way she doesn't have to let go of her Manoj ji and his pyaar for her. She probably misses his attention on her.🥹. Sab Arjun ki galti hai.. do pyaar karne walon ke beech mein haddi ban gaya😡

That's where we are becoming insensitive to Megha's pain at next level.....if I see Manoj ji can be second Genghis Khan too....who knows uske pyaar ki nishaani kahan kahan paali jaa rhi hai and unfortunately Megha ki mamta ke badaulat one more is getting added....

Yaar I still feel she got physical first night by her will whereas accepting Arjun was chalo ehsaan kiya hai isne......

Why ITV doesn't promote Sairat type love stories instead Virakhi mediums.....it looks pta nhi weird ki why she loves both of them.....and more than that why Arjun loves her....🫤

Manoj is the only one with sensible storyline....

I don't find Megha wrong in this money debacle. Any woman with self respect would be triggered if MIL comes and gives lecture of how she's enjoying her son's money without forgetting that it's her son only doing at her wish. Anybody in Megha's place would be triggered. She did accept all his gifts as soon as she got the letter and was happy and blushing at Arjun's care. But once Shagun accused her of leeching Arjun, her self respect got triggered and obviously hurt. I might be sounding like Devil's advocate here but it was practical only to get a job for herself in this situation. Megha is too calm, I would have actually taunted my MIL in this case if she accused me the same because Shagun herself is living in KP's money. She doesn’t want to share with Arjun, obviously being the girl she's, she won't want to break the relationship between Arjun and Shagun which Arjun also realises. I don't find her wrong in this fiasco.

Secondly, I might be pissed off at her but she definitely doesn’t deserve a monster like Manoj who doesn't even care for his own child. As I said, the drama is exaggerated but Megha's yearn for the child is not some out of the box thing. At the end she's a woman.

She loves Arjun and is now clear from her behaviour. Otherwise she wouldn't have hidden the truth only because she knows how much Arjun loves his family, his Buji , his mom. I only want her to be a bit selfish for her and her relationship with Arjun.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

That's where we are becoming insensitive to Megha's pain at next level.....if I see Manoj ji can be second Genghis Khan too....who knows uske pyaar ki nishaani kahan kahan paali jaa rhi hai and unfortunately Megha ki mamta ke badaulat one more is getting added....

Yaar I still feel she got physical first night by her will whereas accepting Arjun was chalo ehsaan kiya hai isne......

Why ITV doesn't promote Sairat type love stories instead Virakhi mediums.....it looks pta nhi weird ki why she loves both of them.....and more than that why Arjun loves her....🫤

Manoj is the only one with sensible storyline....

Bold : I wanna know what's wrong in being physical 🤦🏻‍♀️ and what's wrong if she wants not to be physical with Arjun

Originally posted by: Dihiva

Loved Neil's performance in today's episode 👏👏👏 .. his dialogues were spot on with his frustration and irritation 💯. When he caught Megha's head close to his and said "tumhe bhi kisi ne nahi bataya ki mein ek baddimag, badtameez aur bohot ziddi insaan hun.. itna ziddi ki mere zidd ke aage kisi ki nahi chalti🔥🔥🔥" .. he was on fire for real and frankly I felt a bit scared that we may be getting a shade of Arjun that we had not seen before.🥹💕 Arjun burning all the items and money may not be right but I loved it😆🤩🔥

There was so much anger and angst in Arjun today that I felt under the sweet AT, there must be layers of other traits which made him who he is. And if that calm exterior is shaken, he is pretty violent from within🤠. His behaviour with his family is also an indication of his disappointment with them which did not start since he brought Megha into the house but he always probably carried some sort of under current trauma.. may be something that happened in his childhood which he was unable to digest or accept and blocked it in his mind at that point but subconsciously it made him who he is. The way he deals with Shagun from the beginning, it was more of sympathy for her than love, I felt. He may have been disappointed that his mother did not stand up for herself and chose to become submissive to the abuse of buji and KP😮‍💨. May be that is what attracted him to Megha, her spirit to fight and not give up🫡. May be that is the reason he became an IAS and works for women's welfare. I wouldn't be surprised if Arjun already knows the violent nature of his father and buji as he must have seen something in his childhood which he chose to block out and developed an exterior show of respect for KP🧐. But on a subconscious level he knows the nature of KP and buji🤮. There is so much they could explore from Arjun and his background if they wanted but they choose to stick with the FL who is hopeless and typical like every other FL🥱. I don't have any expectations from the makers to explore Arjun's pov and life in detail 😒

I like this analysis haven't watched episode jab tak naya mod nhi laayenge will not .....But you input some sense here whereas some of the stuffs are filmy if you remember I have written such thing for someone else too.....

I can understand if he chose civil services (already being part of officer's family) and had a subconscious impression of childhood or would have seen many other women like it.....whereas this is the reason for loving Megha is quite impractical because she is nihaayti bewakoof not a fighter.....

And hope so ye Arjun ke naye shades which is looking quite violent as what you wrote isn't his new face.....

~sorry but for me makers failed to establish a liking for how he got characterized

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Bold : I wanna know what's wrong in being physical 🤦🏻‍♀️ and what's wrong if she wants not to be physical with Arjun

When did I say wrong I was comparing her love and comfort with Manoj ji and Arjun.....

Yes I found consummating first night thora alag.....we had discussed....I see love and attraction as opposite poles so ye do din mein *** nhi samajhta....

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I don't find Megha wrong in this money debacle. Any woman with self respect would be triggered if MIL comes and gives lecture of how she's enjoying her son's money without forgetting that it's her son only doing at her wish. Anybody in Megha's place would be triggered. She did accept all his gifts as soon as she got the letter and was happy and blushing at Arjun's care. But once Shagun accused her of leeching Arjun, her self respect got triggered and obviously hurt. I might be sounding like Devil's advocate here but it was practical only to get a job for herself in this situation. Megha is too calm, I would have actually taunted my MIL in this case if she accused me the same because Shagun herself is living in KP's money. She doesn’t want to share with Arjun, obviously being the girl she's, she won't want to break the relationship between Arjun and Shagun which Arjun also realises. I don't find her wrong in this fiasco.

Secondly, I might be pissed off at her but she definitely doesn’t deserve a monster like Manoj who doesn't even care for his own child. As I said, the drama is exaggerated but Megha's yearn for the child is not some out of the box thing. At the end she's a woman.

She loves Arjun and is now clear from her behaviour. Otherwise she wouldn't have hidden the truth only because she knows how much Arjun loves his family, his Buji , his mom. I only want her to be a bit selfish for her and her relationship with Arjun.

Didn't know leeching wala Shagun part....agree on certain aspects but not on taunting.....there is big difference between their time and position.....so respect is important....whereas getting a job is good idea if family doesn't create an issue.... atleast she would be busy toh their bond will increase....

About mamta at the end woman-man principle works when there are reasons, here toh I feel like how can I force my current wife to accept my ex's pregnancy.....

It's better infact best if she leaves Arjun and takes care of child whole life.....not only she is wasting his life where he clearly deserves a better woman over to it indirectly creating situation where there is no valid reason to accept her past and fights with families.....

I laugh there was a time on ITV when I used to disconnect how a woman can be so docile and giver....and now I feel like how man love such girls and do so much without any expectations.....

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I don't find Megha wrong in this money debacle. Any woman with self respect would be triggered if MIL comes and gives lecture of how she's enjoying her son's money without forgetting that it's her son only doing at her wish. Anybody in Megha's place would be triggered. She did accept all his gifts as soon as she got the letter and was happy and blushing at Arjun's care. But once Shagun accused her of leeching Arjun, her self respect got triggered and obviously hurt. I might be sounding like Devil's advocate here but it was practical only to get a job for herself in this situation. Megha is too calm, I would have actually taunted my MIL in this case if she accused me the same because Shagun herself is living in KP's money. She doesn’t want to share with Arjun, obviously being the girl she's, she won't want to break the relationship between Arjun and Shagun which Arjun also realises. I don't find her wrong in this fiasco.

Secondly, I might be pissed off at her but she definitely doesn’t deserve a monster like Manoj who doesn't even care for his own child. As I said, the drama is exaggerated but Megha's yearn for the child is not some out of the box thing. At the end she's a woman.

She loves Arjun and is now clear from her behaviour. Otherwise she wouldn't have hidden the truth only because she knows how much Arjun loves his family, his Buji , his mom. I only want her to be a bit selfish for her and her relationship with Arjun.

There is nothing wrong with Megha taking up a job because the circumstances called for it. She could have thought a bit more about what job she should do rather than jumping into a dancing assignment considering she is pregnant. She is impulsive in her decisions and extremely impractical. She always thinks she will do things by herself which is good but she is always unable to handle the situation she creates for herself and complicates things for Arjun. Anyway there is nothing wrong in her intention to earn for herself after what Shagun said.

I know she is falling in love with Arjun, enjoys his company and is very comfortable with him but her love for Arjun is as per her convenience. She has never done anything for him to prove her love or for us to think that she loves him a lot. In the name of love, if she did not reveal Shagun's harsh words to him, by hiding the truth she literally drove him crazy for the night. Riya anyway revealed the truth to him and he did what he did.

As for Manoj's child, I don't see how it fits into the story except for bringing back Manoj every now and then into the show. I cannot understand Megha's mamta for this intense trauma product. Yes, it is exaggerated to insensible levels. Comparing Arjun to Manoj as per her convenience and treating him like a punching bag is a big no for me. I hate it when people are ungrateful and for megha, literally Arjun is the only person standing by her since the beginning of the show under every circumstance.. she cannot treat him like crap and say hurtful things to him.

And my main rant is about the makers not giving Arjun's pov for us to understand him better. He only reacts to Megha's actions. I honestly love Arjun's character but he is mostly in the show as Megha's husband. Want to see more layers in his characterization but makers are so FL oriented that I feel frustrated.