Megha Barsenge Episode Discussion Thread. -2 DT Note Page8 and Page93 - Page 70

Originally posted by: Resham

It was a mixed bag for me as well writ today's episode...loved Arha moments and Meghas sulking ... thankfully she said I love you...bas Arjun ke saamne bhi bol de....also loved how she gave back to aunties....and Buji ..bas aage dekhte hai ab

Same same but different I haven't liked her response to Buji though aunties wala was right.....

Originally posted by: Resham

It was a mixed bag for me as well writ today's episode...loved Arha moments and Meghas sulking ... thankfully she said I love you...bas Arjun ke saamne bhi bol de....also loved how she gave back to aunties....and Buji ..bas aage dekhte hai ab

@Resham - finally Father Christmas has listened to me and Megha has finally said the immortal words 'Iove you Arjun' : sadly she did not say it to our dashing hero himself but that day will.come..for now I am.satisfied 💘

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Why can't a FL be normal enough whereas ML is Chalta firta Amazon......at this stage I am not into abortion but why such emotional manipulation is glorified.....why can't we accept a show to portray a Megha who aborts and prioritises second chance in her life and gives everything to Arjun instead here discussing she hadn't cheated or there was 0.1% chance of this coming....

Andy ITV has always been toxic especially Ekta shows so don't accept it better than other pregnancies..... it doesn't mean we should ignore the exceptional cases and call it bare min....what if when we interchange the positions

I remember once I wrote about his last show ML did so many favours on FL which can't be paid back so she replied it was women's empowerment.....

At the end it's Megha's body and her choice. She has full rights to decide whether she wants an abortion or want to continue her pregnancy. Even Arjun doesn't have the right to dictate her what to do with the baby. Men mansplaining women on their body is definitely not progressive; as it is - No Uterus, No Opinion. I didn't bring cheating angle to divert the topic; but the whole knowing pregnancy after marriage is sin so outdated and archaic thought. Many pregnancies do remain undetected for a long time and the foetus isn't at fault too.

Tbh as a boy you might feel it as a great thing because the thought process between girls and boys are different. Supporting wife's decision isn't a great thing, it's a bare minimum and comes under basic responsibility of marriage because at the end the wife in the sasural is emotionally depended upon the husband, that's why it's not a great feet. ITV portrays MLs a someone who's almost a red flag with green flag qualities that's why even a basic support from husband comes as some huge favour done to his wife. It's not!! Many person should understand this. That's why Arjun's stance for accepting the child is coming out as some great thing because we're conditioned to believe a man won't accept past relationships' responsibilities. Now if Arjun had a child from previous marriage, the same audience would have dictated how Megha should accept his child without being judgemental about Arjun's past and it is shown in many shows in ITV. Interchanging positions won't help in this debate because the condition of a girl in marriage especially in India isn't in a good place. If it was Arjun's child, the same Talwars who are being bonkers for not accepting the child of Manoj would have pressurized Megha to accept the child of Arjun from his ex wife.

Supporting your wife on her education, standing for her in front of the whole family, shielding her from his ex who constantly abuse the wife isn't "doing favour ". No it's not!! It's the basic responsibility in a marriage. Men need to understand them fulfilling basic responsibilities in a marriage doesn't need to be applauded everytime for doing so.

Characters of previous show looks good on TV but isn't feasible for real life. Not at all.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

If she was widow and a dependent woman in such conditions.....that's admirable.....I know cases where women were left out because of skin diseases......and in this such great guys exist whereas Megha is somewhere wrong

I need to understand why you find Megha wrong. She's a woman at the end, and while she's being somewhere ott with Maa ki Mamta, I can understand being a woman it's not easy to let go off a baby who's a part of your own, who's inside you breathing, whose life depends on you. At the end it's her body, her choice. If she wanted the abortion she's right and she's equally right to keep her baby.

.....Andy do you mean just because it's not the body of man, so he doesn't have any say when it comes to his child and here toh not theirs, of past relationship .......mansplaining, archaic thoughts and no fault of foetus..... Is this the conclusion???

You want to say a guy helped her from abroad to different cities in India and then here after his dad's c@ncer accepted such a woman, who clearly is undeserving.....then if he is ok with her pyaar ki nishaani of ex- it's bare min.....(I don't wanna comment on GF RF..... everyone knows ITV is FL biased🤷).....so if we interchange and imagine for a while it was Arjun's ex who got pregnant after his second marriage and even if Megha wasn't mahaan like him- a normal wife and she didn't want his past to come in between them toh uss waqt, Megha would've been wrong.....

This is really shocking both the guys have dedicated their life even having quite a good options against everything/everyone even family on that so many problems/gave so much one sided- considering FLs situation- it's a basic responsibility. Are you serious??.....

I don't want to connect ITV with reality but it's nowhere possible and what do you really think, Megha's ott mamta is more important than her hubby and future..... it's nowhere about Arjun because he is perfect it's about Megha as wife.....which she failed in my eyes.....

Originally posted by: Ashane25

.....Andy do you mean just because it's not the body of man, so he doesn't have any say when it comes to his child and here toh not theirs, of past relationship .......mansplaining, archaic thoughts and no fault of foetus..... Is this the conclusion???

You want to say a guy helped her from abroad to different cities in India and then here after his dad's c@ncer accepted such a woman, who clearly is undeserving.....then if he is ok with her pyaar ki nishaani of ex- it's bare min.....(I don't wanna comment on GF RF..... everyone knows ITV is FL biased🤷).....so if we interchange and imagine for a while it was Arjun's ex who got pregnant after his second marriage and even if Megha wasn't mahaan like him- a normal wife and she didn't want his past to come in between them toh uss waqt, Megha would've been wrong.....

This is really shocking both the guys have dedicated their life even having quite a good options against everything/everyone even family on that so many problems/gave so much one sided- considering FLs situation- it's a basic responsibility. Are you serious??.....

I don't want to connect ITV with reality but it's nowhere possible and what do you really think, Megha's ott mamta is more important than her hubby and future..... it's nowhere about Arjun because he is perfect it's about Megha as wife.....which she failed in my eyes.....

@bold you said exactly what's in my mind and what made me loose interest in show. I was so sure that Arjun will accept the baby sooner or later because he is greenest flag I have seen till now on itv, his love is really unconditional for megha but I see here megha at fault because this baby has caused lots of trouble for them, because of this arjun is getting separated from his family. Ghar mein roz kalesh hote hain, khud megha ke papa ko bhi ye baby se koi lagaav nahi. Aise mein zabardasti ki ott maa ki mamta ke chalte megha is stupid to keep the baby. The decision is not practical at all.

Bhale hi arjun ne baby ke sath megha ko apnaya hai lekin come on yaar, kisko apne life partner ke past ka baggage lekar chalne mein maza aata hai? Agar koi medical condition ke karan abortion possible nahi hota to phir bhi main samajh sakti thi lekin yaha to I just cant relate and understand the fact that why megha is so keen on keeping the live reminder of her abusive marriage. Manoj was a bloody criminal a hardcore murderer, kidnapper, pyscho, and what not. Megha was so disgusted with him that she couldn't bear being married to him, remember she was so hell bent on getting divorced but now she just wants to keep his baby...this is so foolish. This is just beyond my imagination. And for this baby, megha is fighting with each and everyone. Why cant she choose to move on completely with Arjun.

Arjun ne baby ko apna kar apna unconditional pyar sabit kiya (not that he needed to do that but still...) arjun ke liye sabse badhkar, sabse upar megha hai par megha kyu nahi sabse badhkar, sabse upar arjun ko chun sakti? Wo kyu apne past ka saaya apni second marriage mein rakhna chahti hai? Kaun samajhdar ladki aisa karegi.

I am still hoping for the miscarriage track so that I can start watching again otherwise I just cant digest this baby track, sorry but megha and her choice disgusts me to no end.

And seeing the precap I just cannot like Megha for more than one episode....the way she treats Arjun as per her convenience is so so annoying now....good lord please Arjun don't go back to Amritsar...koi pyar mein itna bhi deewana na bane ki apni self respect ki dhajjiya udte dekhe....I seriously don't like Megha and her attitude....I should go back again to not watch the episodes....

Originally posted by: Anj_01

@bold you said exactly what's in my mind and what made me loose interest in show. I was so sure that Arjun will accept the baby sooner or later because he is greenest flag I have seen till now on itv, his love is really unconditional for megha but I see here megha at fault because this baby has caused lots of trouble for them, because of this arjun is getting separated from his family. Ghar mein roz kalesh hote hain, khud megha ke papa ko bhi ye baby se koi lagaav nahi. Aise mein zabardasti ki ott maa ki mamta ke chalte megha is stupid to keep the baby. The decision is not practical at all.

Bhale hi arjun ne baby ke sath megha ko apnaya hai lekin come on yaar, kisko apne life partner ke past ka baggage lekar chalne mein maza aata hai? Agar koi medical condition ke karan abortion possible nahi hota to phir bhi main samajh sakti thi lekin yaha to I just cant relate and understand the fact that why megha is so keen on keeping the live reminder of her abusive marriage. Manoj was a bloody criminal a hardcore murderer, kidnapper, pyscho, and what not. Megha was so disgusted with him that she couldn't bear being married to him, remember she was so hell bent on getting divorced but now she just wants to keep his baby...this is so foolish. This is just beyond my imagination. And for this baby, megha is fighting with each and everyone. Why cant she choose to move on completely with Arjun.

Arjun ne baby ko apna kar apna unconditional pyar sabit kiya (not that he needed to do that but still...) arjun ke liye sabse badhkar, sabse upar megha hai par megha kyu nahi sabse badhkar, sabse upar arjun ko chun sakti? Wo kyu apne past ka saaya apni second marriage mein rakhna chahti hai? Kaun samajhdar ladki aisa karegi.

I am still hoping for the miscarriage track so that I can start watching again otherwise I just cant digest this baby track, sorry but megha and her choice disgusts me to no end.

Exactly even if Arjun wasn't this good and Manoj criminal nhi hota it's a responsibility of a spouse to not impose their past baggage over their partner.....I wasn't into this show from start because of Murkha Megha puraan, just watched recent episodes as it was Arha filled.....now again as what Resham said 🫤 waise kya hua????

Atleast they should come with Arjun's job....I am missing Virat's missions....it was drama and fun, here they are showing, as Megha is a govt official MIA and janaab is busy..... miscarriage would be wrong at this moment....let's see what they sell

Are kuch nahi precap mein yeh bolti hai ke ye baccha na to Talwars ka hai na Kohlis ka, sirf Megha ka hai...fir she storms in her room, Arjun follows her, but she shuts the door on his face .....this is enough for me to get angry on her...Meghas trauma is as per her convenience...hadd haiPoor soul Arjun...I so want Arjun to go to some mission and not return for few days atleast.....

Just watched the episode and read some comments here.

My take: What is Megha and Surender 's problem with Arjun exactly, I did not understand. He left her there for her safety and she and her family know Arjun very well and that his love for megha is unconditional. Why can't they let him work? He already told her he would be busy. They are making him shuttle to Amritsar without any sleep so many times. And the way megha spoke to him when he came back.. what was that? How quickly they judge him and jump to conclusions about him! He doesn't come to the hospital because of work and these people quickly conclude that he has made her a chodi hui aurat?! Are they mad ?😡 At least Arjun came up with a solution to keep her safe. What did mahaan megha do except cry out Arjun whenever she was attacked? How does she plan to keep herself safe from buji?

I am completely against Arha manipulating the families into accepting the baby. But when Arjun convinced Surender the other day, I felt he was trying to convince and not manipulate him. From Arjun's dialogues I understood why he accepted the baby in the first place. Because he just wants to see Megha happy and couldn't see her in pain. He personally doesn't have any interest in Manoj's baby but his love for megha is much bigger than this decision. He compromised for megha is what I understand and it's fine. So, I watched it from Arjun's lens and understood his pov wrt the child.

I completely agree it is the husband's duty to stand by his wife as she is all alone without his support in the sasural. But I also feel that doesn't give her the right to make stupid ott decisions and force them on the husband and the families on both sides. First Megha emotionally blackmailed Arjun to accept the pregnancy before the fire track. I felt he was forced by her words and actions into accepting it but he did it with a whole heart. Now, Arha are emotionally blackmailing the families to accept the child. EB doesn't work in Talwar family mainly for buji and KP. So what choice was Arjun left with? He wanted to leave with Megha, she doesn't agree! He has to drop her at her home.. what choice is left?

Megha is the reason behind Arjun's fights with his family. She and her ott unreasonable expectations from the Talwars are the reason for his decision to leave her in Amritsar. But she feels so entitled that she feels it's all Arjun's fault! Hadd hai! Why doesn't she take responsibility for her actions and decision to keep the child? What else in the form of support is she expecting from Arjun? I agree it's her body but she is not the only one who will be involved in bringing up the child. It's a family decision. Marriage and kids are not decisions that can be made by just the couple involved let alone just the mother or father. Normally, entire families are involved in raising them. Here no one is interested in this kid except Manoj and his parents .. for me, Arjun also only compromised for megha. How is the mahaan megha who is saying in the precap also mera baccha, mera baccha planning to raise it without anyone's support? Again lashing out at Arjun is her favorite pass time. Blame it on the harmones 🙏😡

Yaar! This show is going in circles and not going towards any conclusion of this bewaars track. I find so many things wrong and manipulative that it's becoming unbearable now.

Ps: I also feel this is not a normal child! Syapa hai aur pura Manoj niklega, dekh lena! And what is that attachment with the product of so much trauma? I cannot understand megha and her mamta.. phew! Going over my head