Megha Barsenge Episode Discussion Thread. -2 DT Note Page8 and Page93 - Page 69

Originally posted by: Wynn

@Ashane 25 - agree with you on Arjun railroading Surinder; that did not sit well with me...as to Arjun well he is St Arjun...no way he can be a genuine Talwar unless Karma is rewarding him in this life time...he is tooo good to be true, what woman in her right mind would not want Arjun as her husband?.Megha hit jackpot and yes Megha is definitey beginning to see Arjun in more ways thsn one, this is slow and deep start of love on her part

The reason I have love hate relation with Arjun's characters is his moral compass, which is highly inclined towards wife but very weak in family oriented and over his own life.....

Accepting your ex's child is not wrong when child was already present before marriage, if you are ok with marrying a single mom.....but if it's about pregnancy after marriage then sorry I personally don't support Arjun's idea.....you should asked her to abort and start a new journey it takes a lot to accept your wife's pyaar ki nishani with ex.....he is possible in only written books and max ITV ka ML which is exceptional as they are highly flawed too....

Let's see how this sensible point about abortion will go from here.....

Originally posted by: Wynn

@Dihiva - lovely update as always. I am a little conflicted by todays epi - let me explain. Its Arha's decision to accept this baby - I have no problem with it - its what they want & they choose to stand by their decision - good for them - what I dislike is the emotional manipulation by both of them to force others - Talwars & Kuharranas to accept this child. In real life same happens, some will support you & others wont, walk away & appreciate those that back you up & for the rest either they will come around in time or they won't, either way you still live with the choices you make

I like the bond bwt Surinder & Arjun, always have, its respectful & man to man & softer than KPL & Arjun where its KPL who rules but gives way to Arjun because of his love for him

I did not like the subtle manipulation by Arjun to get Surinder to come round to his pov. Surinder never said he wanted to see Megha suffer, he loves ,Megha & wants to spare her suffering but Arjun presented it differently.. and yes a woman may have two Central figures in her life, her husband and father - but this is again just my pov - at some point you as an individual have to fight for yourself regardless of father & husband - it helps of course if they are both on your side but life does not come with glass tinted roses

Megha is all too quick to appreciate Arjun when things go right for her but woe betide anyone having a different view from her esp Arjun.

It must have hurt him terribly to leave her behind for her and her baby's safety; but no matter his rationale what does she do, give him the cold shoulder - that girl needs to wake up with a bang..some on forum have said the intro of another female to rouse Megha's interest and love for Arjun is needed - I agree - nothing romantic on Arjun's side but just enough for the feminine in Megha to awaken - the woman has yet to say she loves him & why is she not wearing her wedding & engagement ring & why has her mangalsutra changed - pet peeves of mine

On the other hand it was really nice to see how much she does not want to be separated from him & is prepared to live on the road with him, not because of baby, but because she now sees him as her friend; her husband & partner - whether he is her lover remains to be seen- its odd PH had no qualms showing wedding night aftermath with Manoj & Megha but we have yet to see Arha's wedding night - maybe that will come after baby is born😀

Well Buji is going to plot and plan...really Megha to stay for 7 months in maternal home...it will be interesting to see how long it takes for Buji to strike

Megha has come to depend on Arjun so much..I want to see what she can do without him

Good one💪....

I accept and we discussed about Arha's manipulation about their acceptance of child which definitely continues that Megha is a woman who will not take a single moment to flip and work as per her whims against practicality....that's why I wanted Arjun not to accept this child where it would have questioned how much she loves him is it over her ego or reached the levels where she knows to adjust and give in relationship too.....my past experience is creating this draft....

And I don't want wedding night till this child ka chapter ends or whatever.....it's already looking 🫤 when Arjun is romancing with Megha and she is pregnant with Manoj's child......

Originally posted by: AninditaB

There's no restrictions on having wedding night while she's pregnant but it'll be too bold for ITV audience to accept this step tbh

Megha is carrying ex's child after her second marriage ....so ye toh dikha hi sakte hain 🤷

.....shyness has omitted from my dictionary after this show🌑....

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Megha is carrying ex's child after her second marriage ....so ye toh dikha hi sakte hain 🤷

.....shyness has omitted from my dictionary after this show🌑....

Well actually it'll actually put forward a new step that ITV pregnancies can be happier than the sad ones ITV shows portray. And there's no wrong in carrying ex's child. In Balika Vadhu, Sugna was also pregnant with Pratap's child yet Shyam married her and gave his name. And this was way back in 2009, after 15 years this shouldn't be a taboo too. If Megha has no trauma attached to the child and Arjun is happy too, what's the fault of the child to be aborted? Arjun did bare minimum of a good man would do tbh because he married Megha soundly knowing that she was married before and there's a chance she can be pregnant her ex's baby. She didn't cheat Arjun or had an EMA, it is her part of the past which Arjun had accepted.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

There's no restrictions on having wedding night while she's pregnant but it'll be too bold for ITV audience to accept this step tbh

@Andy - ohhhhh 7 month celibacy then....lets hope Arjun has lots and lots of cases then😃😃😃

It was a mixed bag for me as well writ today's episode...loved Arha moments and Meghas sulking ... thankfully she said I love you...bas Arjun ke saamne bhi bol de....also loved how she gave back to aunties....and Buji ..bas aage dekhte hai ab

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Well actually it'll actually put forward a new step that ITV pregnancies can be happier than the sad ones ITV shows portray. And there's no wrong in carrying ex's child. In Balika Vadhu, Sugna was also pregnant with Pratap's child yet Shyam married her and gave his name. And this was way back in 2009, after 15 years this shouldn't be a taboo too. If Megha has no trauma attached to the child and Arjun is happy too, what's the fault of the child to be aborted? Arjun did bare minimum of a good man would do tbh because he married Megha soundly knowing that she was married before and there's a chance she can be pregnant her ex's baby. She didn't cheat Arjun or had an EMA, it is her part of the past which Arjun had accepted.

I have watched BV. Sugna was not only pregnant but was a widow and still Shyam married her and gave his name to her child. They had family issues but with time both families forgot their past rivalry and accepted both Sugna and the child.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Well actually it'll actually put forward a new step that ITV pregnancies can be happier than the sad ones ITV shows portray. And there's no wrong in carrying ex's child. In Balika Vadhu, Sugna was also pregnant with Pratap's child yet Shyam married her and gave his name. And this was way back in 2009, after 15 years this shouldn't be a taboo too. If Megha has no trauma attached to the child and Arjun is happy too, what's the fault of the child to be aborted? Arjun did bare minimum of a good man would do tbh because he married Megha soundly knowing that she was married before and there's a chance she can be pregnant her ex's baby. She didn't cheat Arjun or had an EMA, it is her part of the past which Arjun had accepted.

Why can't a FL be normal enough whereas ML is Chalta firta Amazon......at this stage I am not into abortion but why such emotional manipulation is glorified.....why can't we accept a show to portray a Megha who aborts and prioritises second chance in her life and gives everything to Arjun instead here discussing she hadn't cheated or there was 0.1% chance of this coming....

Andy ITV has always been toxic especially Ekta shows so don't accept it better than other pregnancies..... it doesn't mean we should ignore the exceptional cases and call it bare min....what if when we interchange the positions

I remember once I wrote about his last show ML did so many favours on FL which can't be paid back so she replied it was women's empowerment.....

Originally posted by: Fats24

I have watched BV. Sugna was not only pregnant but was a widow and still Shyam married her and gave his name to her child. They had family issues but with time both families forgot their past rivalry and accepted both Sugna and the child.

If she was widow and a dependent woman in such conditions.....that's admirable.....I know cases where women were left out because of skin diseases......and in this such great guys exist whereas Megha is somewhere wrong

Don't you think so intercourse while pregnancy is risky man and what if Arha's love life fulfills Buji's plans....bahut dark ho gaya