The hypocrisy in the treatment of Ruhi versus Armaan - Page 2

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

Before anyone calls me a Ruhi fan, I've already mentioned a hundred times that she is a villain and I am a casual viewer. There are so many hypocrisies in the treatment of Ruhi vs Armaan and I really wanted to point it out. Feel free to add on:

1. Abhir deserves to take revenge on Ruhi because Ruhi was one of the reasons his family had to separate and had to live alone with his parents. Let's cheer him on as he takes revenge on Ruhi. No one bothered to clarify that Akshara did not kill her mother, including Akshara herself. But yes, she is the most evil person for treating Abhira horribly. Armaan stole her baby. No she doesn't get to take revenge and the baby should stay with the best set of parents which includes Armaan.

2. Ruhi's trauma does not excuse her from the way she is behaving towards Abhira. She deserves to be jailed/killed. Yet, Armaan's trauma and sufferings at the hand of his family prior justify him stealing the baby. The best part is his trauma excuses him from not going to jail for his crime.

3. Ruhi is so evil for attempting to kidnap Armaan on his wedding day. She is the most evil person who deserves to suffer (the best part is she is portrayed as the villain in the show). But Armaan who stole the baby is so innocent (and he is the ML).

4. Ruhi is the worst wife for lusting after another man and hiding the truth from her husband regarding the kidnapping incident. Rohit should divorce and send her to jail. But Armaan is not a terrible husband for hiding the truth of the miscarriage from his wife and emotionally cheating her. Given that Abhira is bonding with the baby and will suffer more when the truth comes out later, Armaan is not a bad person and should help her move on. No Armaan, does not deserve to go to jail.

5. Ruhi is 30 years old and should be treated as an adult. She knows better and should not behave the way she is behaving. Armaan's is 30+ but is allowed to be easily manipulated by his brother. His brother is the sole culprit- how dare he brainwash innocent Armaan?

6. Ruhi deserves to be bashed for everything she does. But Armaan who took part in one of the biggest crime does not deserve to be bashed at all. Anyone who bashes him is a hater.

7. Ruhi is rightfully portrayed as a villain for her actions but Armaan is still the postive ML despite his actions. And his crime does not get emphasized but writers attempt to gloss over it by making Ruhi the villain more terrible. Yet Ruhi is the one who is whitewashed by the writers?

8. Ruhi is immoral for conducting an emotional affair with her brother-in-law when she was married. Rohit should divorce her ASAP. But No, Armaan is not wrong for conducting an emotional affair with his sister-in-law and he is the best husband. Abhira should never divorce him.

Sorry, I just couldn't help myself but the hypocrisy in some of the posts on social media is astounding. Right now, Armaan and Ruhi are on the same level but no, only Ruhi deserves to be punished.

waise aapne apni post read ki hai??? ruhi ki itni saari wrongs likhe...and har mein ....arman stole the baby...se counter kiya.....😂 waise rohit ne apna baby armaan ko diya...to armaan ne steal kaise kiya??😂

and i dont think anyone is saying armaan is doing right?? kahan likha kisi ne ki what rohit and armaan r doing is right???

jo armaan ne ruhi ke saath wala relation nahi bataya tha...uss waqt everone was mad at him.....uske liye he was made to say sorry to each and every person....ruhi ke rohit ke sab ke per pakad kar maafi maangi hai usne...manish ke per pakad kar maafi maangi hai...where was ruhi shown to say a simple sorry???? kisi ko bhi??? although...it was ruhi who married rohit with wrong intentions..to stay close to armaan.....😂

armaan is guilty...feels guilty....rohit and armaan ne jo kiya and kar rahe hain..galat hai....

but ruhi....na hi woh guilty feel karti hai...and upar se baby ke liye hate paal rakhi hai...mummu ki tummy mein abhira ke liye...abhira ke unborn baby ke liye....and ab iss baby ke liye....so there is lots of difference.........😂

Thank you for being neutral.

1. All things said, he still conducted an emotional affair with Ruhi. Both of their partners should never have accepted them as this is red flag behaviour.

2. He had the option to send anyone else- perhaps Manish Goenka. No Ruhi, is not given a free pass for going to a Tantrik. Her actions were wrong. The hypocrisy being called out is Ruhi being labelled a bad mom for driving while pregnant and having an accident- driving is not risky and accidents are unplanned. Yet Abhira's action of proceeding with a high-risk pregnancy without the approval of her husband is not defined as being a bad mom. Going through a high-risk pregnancy is no joke and can be damaging for your fertility. There is also the risks of birth defects. The other alternative is a baby growing up without a mum. There are other alternatives like adoption etc. It was not a do or die situation. Abhira is equally wrong.

3. This post is not directed at you. There were so many Abhimaan fans who were defensive and saying Armaan is not wrong as he was manipulated or attempted to reduce his role in this crime. Some can't even seem to accept any criticism on Armaan- they are asking people why Armaan is being bashed.The worst response were those who switched over to Ruhi's past wrongs to cover up Armaan's crime or those who out rightly labelled people who criticized Armaan as Ruhi lovers and even made implicit comments on posters' characters for criticizing Armaan. The last point was what triggered me to make this post.

You have your personal perception of Ruhi. But one thing, let's not forget Ruhi and Armaan are currently at the same level with their actions. If Ruhi needs to show remorse, Armaan needs to do so equally or even more so because he is the supposed ML.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Okay I need to understand something. I was told that people like characters & root for them coz they connect the most with them, despite understanding that their actions are not to be condoned.

In Armaan's case let's go through what he has been accused of:

1. Writing Shiv Shakti with another woman while still being married to Abhira - agreed, he should be bashed. But the guy actually didn't write anything coz kismat didn't want him to do something that wrong - I will take that as a sign that sometimes when you are going in a very wrong direction, gid helps you and pushes you in the right one, despite your otherwise stupid tendencies.

2. During Ar & Ab's wedding day, Ruhi threatened to off herself. At that point had he done anything apart from try to save her, anyone & everyone would have called him inhumane for not having basic humanity to save someone. Hume chodo, even Abhira understood & supported him there. And he did not call Rohit coz at that point Armaan's main concern was getting back to Abhira & as many people have said, stress main aadmi ka dimaag normally function nahi kar sakta (like how Ruhi was given a free pass for driving to a Tantrik to know the gender of her kid in her 9th month close to her due date, due to stress)

3. In the current kaand, no one is supporting Armaan. We are calling him all sorts of names & agree that he deserves punishment. But he is not the only one who should be punished. Rohit is an equal of not more of an offender in this case. They have wronged both Abhira & Ruhi & kal jaakar agar dono ne in bhaiyon pe case karkar unhe jail bhejna chaha, then even we as Abhimaan Stans will support. Armaan is in guilt & is trying his level best to function in a way that his family stays together, but even he & we know that this situation will not last. His house of cards will fall & people will get hurt. But that doesn't make him a villian - just a flawed himan being.

Also I am willing to accept Ruhi also to be a flawed human - of after all this, she is willing to apologise for all the vile and awful things she said & did while she assumed the kid was Abhira's . Let her apologise. Let her show remorse. Then maybe we will also consider that she is not that bad.

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

If this is the criteria to define a 'bad mom', then Abhira and Ruhi are equally bad.

And the biggest irony is that if the baby kidnapping track was reversed and Abhira's baby was given to Rohit and Ruhi, even then Rohit and Ruhi would be bashed the most.

Oh yeah garvitas comment section would be so vile and all the sad angsty Instagram edits lol in thousands flooding everywhere

Haha imo you can't say who's a bad mom unless the person is put into a situation. Just for ex, i guess today or yesterday epi abhira had baby in her arms and almost put in on air up down like a swing motion multiple times. Isn't a baby's neck supposed to be supported initial days? So how's that good thing though?

Back to my point. I won't say anyone is bad mom. Ruhi had to be in the situation to judge her. Now she's feeling envious for a baby she's bad. The kids "mother" tried to share it's responsibility with a grieving mother. In an ideal world issues with adult won't bleed to babies, but it's not so it will happen

I read something today - it's like a nice girl epidemic lmao just like we have nice guys who tries to be so nice and humble brag how they aren't like other guys. The moment you reject them, their attitude change, they start calling u bitxh etc. With abhira I see same thing. She goes beyond her way to accomodate someone who really don't want that. When the person don't appreciate it she will cry lol i mean girl who told you to do this in first place?

You are the exact demographic I am talking about. Is taking stolen goods despite knowing it is stolen not a crime? And keeping quiet about a crime also makes him an accomplice in the crime. I think even according to law, Armaan is a criminal .

No the problem is people are attempting to minimize the severity of Armaan's crime. And people not being given the freedom to criticize Armaan. If you have the freedom to bash Ruhi for her wrongs who is being portrayed as a villain. Why can't people have the freedom to criticize Armaan who is being portrayed as ML despite his crime. Did you not see the comments on 'Ruhi lovers' and 'why is Armaan being bashed so much'?

Lol, didn't Armaan also behave closely with Ruhi after his marriage with Abhira? He went to the extent of almost getting married with her. Why isn't Armaan immoral then?

Why Armaan is so guilty that even now, he can't open his mouth and spill out the truth? He can see Ruhi suffering but chooses to keep quiet. What is the big difference between him and Ruhi lol?

It is the free passes Armaan gets that really inspired this post.

Originally posted by: India_TV

waise aapne apni post read ki hai??? ruhi ki itni saari wrongs likhe...and har mein ....arman stole the baby...se counter kiya.....😂 waise rohit ne apna baby armaan ko diya...to armaan ne steal kaise kiya??😂

and i dont think anyone is saying armaan is doing right?? kahan likha kisi ne ki what rohit and armaan r doing is right???

jo armaan ne ruhi ke saath wala relation nahi bataya tha...uss waqt everone was mad at him.....uske liye he was made to say sorry to each and every person....ruhi ke rohit ke sab ke per pakad kar maafi maangi hai usne...manish ke per pakad kar maafi maangi hai...where was ruhi shown to say a simple sorry???? kisi ko bhi??? although...it was ruhi who married rohit with wrong intentions..to stay close to armaan.....😂

armaan is guilty...feels guilty....rohit and armaan ne jo kiya and kar rahe hain..galat hai....

but ruhi....na hi woh guilty feel karti hai...and upar se baby ke liye hate paal rakhi hai...mummu ki tummy mein abhira ke liye...abhira ke unborn baby ke liye....and ab iss baby ke liye....so there is lots of difference.........😂

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Okay I need to understand something. I was told that people like characters & root for them coz they connect the most with them, despite understanding that their actions are not to be condoned.

In Armaan's case let's go through what he has been accused of:

1. Writing Shiv Shakti with another woman while still being married to Abhira - agreed, he should be bashed. But the guy actually didn't write anything coz kismat didn't want him to do something that wrong - I will take that as a sign that sometimes when you are going in a very wrong direction, gid helps you and pushes you in the right one, despite your otherwise stupid tendencies.

2. During Ar & Ab's wedding day, Ruhi threatened to off herself. At that point had he done anything apart from try to save her, anyone & everyone would have called him inhumane for not having basic humanity to save someone. Hume chodo, even Abhira understood & supported him there. And he did not call Rohit coz at that point Armaan's main concern was getting back to Abhira & as many people have said, stress main aadmi ka dimaag normally function nahi kar sakta (like how Ruhi was given a free pass for driving to a Tantrik to know the gender of her kid in her 9th month close to her due date, due to stress)

3. In the current kaand, no one is supporting Armaan. We are calling him all sorts of names & agree that he deserves punishment. But he is not the only one who should be punished. Rohit is an equal of not more of an offender in this case. They have wronged both Abhira & Ruhi & kal jaakar agar dono ne in bhaiyon pe case karkar unhe jail bhejna chaha, then even we as Abhimaan Stans will support. Armaan is in guilt & is trying his level best to function in a way that his family stays together, but even he & we know that this situation will not last. His house of cards will fall & people will get hurt. But that doesn't make him a villian - just a flawed himan being.

Also I am willing to accept Ruhi also to be a flawed human - of after all this, she is willing to apologise for all the vile and awful things she said & did while she assumed the kid was Abhira's . Let her apologise. Let her show remorse. Then maybe we will also consider that she is not that bad.

Ruhi is behaving in a wrong manner and yes, trauma does not excuse her actions. I called her a villain multiple times. I am only calling out the hypocrisy. How does Armaan's trauma excuse his actions? This was an excuse used by many Abhimaan fans to defend his actions.

And you proved me wrong. You made a judgement call that people who are responding to this post are supporting Ruhi for punishing Abhira for her mother's apparent crimes that happened when Ab was a foetus in her mother's stomach. Then, by your logic, you belong to the same group of fans who are defending Armaan's crime just because of Abhimaan lol.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

You do realise that in the above mentioned situation, Abhira would never behave with a child the way Ruhi is currently acting with a kid she assumes is Abhira's. Our contention is that her trauma doesn't give her a free pass to be vile towards a baby who did absolutely nothing wrong except be born.

But then I realise that this is the same set of people.who support Ruhi for punishing Abhira for her mother's apparent crimes that happened when Ab was a foetus in her mother's stomach

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

You are the exact demographic I am talking about. Is taking stolen goods despite knowing it is stolen not a crime? And keeping quiet about a crime also makes him an accomplice in the crime. I think even according to law, Armaan is a criminal .

No the problem is people are attempting to minimize the severity of Armaan's crime. And people not being given the freedom to criticize Armaan. If you have the freedom to bash Ruhi for her wrongs who is being portrayed as a villain. Why can't people have the freedom to criticize Armaan who is being portrayed as ML despite his crime. Did you not see the comments on 'Ruhi lovers' and 'why is Armaan being bashed so much'?

Lol, didn't Armaan also behave closely with Ruhi after his marriage with Abhira? He went to the extent of almost getting married with her. Why isn't Armaan immoral then?

Why Armaan is so guilty that even now, he can't open his mouth and spill out the truth? He can see Ruhi suffering but chooses to keep quiet. What is the big difference between him and Ruhi lol?

It is the free passes Armaan gets that really inspired this post.

no, when R gives his/her thing to A, A is not said to be stealing R ki thing!!!!

armaan and rohit r wrong.....and no one is saying they are right..I have not read a single post that says what these brothers r doing is correct...

The posts that claim armaan stole the baby...woh wrong hai..and use wrong bol rahe hain..😂 jo kah rahe hain...ki araamn is more wrong thanrohit...woh wrong hai...Maine aise hi posts padhe hain...

What armaan was close ro ruhi....most of darshak bashed him...he said sorry to each and every person..per pakad pakaf kar....

where was ruhi ka sorry shown?? instead...she went ahead in blackmailing armaan on his marriage day...to armaan and ruhi kaise same hue??😂

for bhi....aap ne ruhi ki itni saari galtiyan....gunah...per armaan ak sirf stole baby laga diya...and unn galtiyon mein ruhi ka baby ko baddua dena etc etc to include hi nahi kiya..

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Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

Is this not considered a personal attack to comment on one's brain cells? Lol, why so extreme for criticising a character. If that's what you say, you are not the demographic this post is targeted at. And you should also admit that Armaan and Ruhi are at the same level and ask for a new ML for Abhira lol.

And also Why shd I admit anything bcz u say so🤔🤔

The problem is that 'thing' does not belong to Rohit alone, it belongs to Ruhi too? Did she give her consent? It is stealing.

If Armaan is wrong, then why is criticism on him not allowed? Why can't he be called a villain? People who criticize him are called 'Ruhi fans' and implicit comments are made about their characters lol.

Wow, so all one does is to say sorry any anything and everything can be excused. If Ruhi says sorry, no one will call her a hypocrite and not bash her anymore?

Originally posted by: India_TV

no, when R gives his/her thing to A, A is not said to be stealing R ki thing!!!!

armaan and rohit r wrong.....and no one is saying they are right..I have not read a single post that says what these brothers r doing is correct...

The posts that claim armaan stole the baby...woh wrong hai..and use wrong bol rahe hain..😂 jo kah rahe hain...ki araamn is more wrong thanrohit...woh wrong hai...Maine aise hi posts padhe hain...

What armaan was close ro ruhi....most of darshak bashed him...he said sorry to each and every person..per pakad pakaf kar....

where was ruhi ka sorry shown?? instead...she went ahead in blackmailing armaan on his marriage day...to armaan and ruhi kaise same hue??😂

for bhi....aap ne ruhi ki itni saari galtiyan....gunah...per armaan ak sirf stole baby laga diya...and unn galtiyon mein ruhi ka baby ko baddua dena etc etc to include hi nahi kiya..

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