Kaffara #3 (GEO) Ali Ansari , Laiba Khan , Usman Peerzada - Page 67

Also Mehreen's outburst regarding class and everything. Definitely Sitara and Salar will be hurt and react but I want Saba and Junaid to react badly as well. Given how much of an issue Saba made out of Sitara making Junaid apologise, I hope to God she holds Mehreen to fire because this woman not only has the audacity to behave this way when she herself comes from middle class, she just insulted Junaid and Saba's newborn as well without even realising it.

I just want Salar to go low contact with her. I remember Tahir switching off her calls and enjoying his own time. And I hope that happens with Salar as well. He anyway calls her Siren but I genuinely hope he does not entertain her anymore and keep their contact to the bare minimum.

Originally posted by: roopshas1

He doesn't. At this point, I would love to smoke whatever he is smoking whenever Sitara pulls out crumbs of affection and he reacts like this. Does he think that he is being mature or patient or does he do it because he knows that he is the one in the position of power and she is dependent on him? I dunno.

Definitely he is doing some kind of drugs, otherwise he was the man with " no bakwas" attitude . Kisi bde chote ko jawab dey bger nhi rehta tha...

Aur na hi sitara k kisi response se koi fark pdta hai usko. In night she clearly show she is not comfortable with his touch ..but still in moring he was same.

Atleast show him as he was before, clarify misunderstanding ..telling truth

Salar is not a green flag at this point. Maybe he is being respectful but that's the bare minimum right, you cannot go around pulling, pushing, prodding and beating a girl you love and admire, while she is going through a lot. I am not saying taht he is a red flag, but i think the bar for ML or males in general is so low that fandom laps up even for him being a decent human. He is toxic, not as toxic as sitara tho😂 Now that they rae married, and atleast he plans to spend a lifetime with her, so why not talk to her and make her understand his viewpoint. They around talking about random things on beach with such a big understanding hanging between them, kya fooka aisa, i also want to know. and How do they plan on spending their life with her mood swings and no sex.? Lol

Originally posted by: Schrute

I would love if they explored this power dynamics between them. At this point of time sitara has no where to go, and he is partially responsible for her having no support system, and i thought Salar's accusation plot will kind of explore that, that how inspite of having everything parents/guardians support Matters, but they brushed it under the carpet. Either they address sitara's mengal health soon or if they are not, it will be a missed opportunity. I am not really interested in zayaaan's plot. I think siatara salar have their own mess, a lot of them i might say, and it's time they try resolving those. Putting new MUs is totally unnecessary at this point of time. Or the writer is extremely Sadist and wants sitara to end up in a mental hospital soon. As you mentioned above, what's the use if characters lose their charm for the character growth. I wish script would have been written in a better way, instead of relying on Ali to carry ghe show. Which atp he is doing.

Honestly, they could have just shown Salar and Sitara struggling to be a spouse to each other despite being in love. Where is the softness? The learning about each other? The realising their true potential? Establishing themselves career wise and socially? The navigating the social class divide? Like Sitara getting jealous over hearing how casually people of opposite sex can mingle in upper class and Salar does it so easily? While Salar gets jealous over hearing how easily Sitara got marriage rishtas or when she starts mingling with people in his own class and they are all so easily enamoured by her? They talk about travelling? He shows her the animals he rescued and raised? All the animal books that he has? While she discovers hobbies? Like Nail Art?

Originally posted by: roopshas1

Honestly, they could have just shown Salar and Sitara struggling to be a spouse to each other despite being in love. Where is the softness? The learning about each other? The realising their true potential? Establishing themselves career wise and socially? The navigating the social class divide? Like Sitara getting jealous over hearing how casually people of opposite sex can mingle in upper class and Salar does it so easily? While Salar gets jealous over hearing how easily Sitara got marriage rishtas or when she starts mingling with people in his own class and they are all so easily enamoured by her? They talk about travelling? He shows her the animals he rescued and raised? All the animal books that he has? While she discovers hobbies? Like Nail Art?

Don't worry they'll show all this in last 5 min.

I like this self love wala track for sitara, but i wish this was done by salar and not nani. He should have supported her, and made her realise that she is worthy of everything and more. Like he used to do in pre wedding phase. "Tum bhi toh sitara hai" i want him simping like this, and not being happy at the breadcrumbings. And her being shy and non chalant but trying to maintain bold appearance. What is happening now is ultimate shit show

Originally posted by: AAKMH2

Salar is obsessed with her. Ye option nhi de rha naa wo Sitara ko. He told her in yesterday episode " biwi ab bhi ho tum meri " aur Sitara ki sari badtmeezi k baad bhi his actions were same . Na wo use dour jata hai, naa hi touch krne se rukta hai.

Nani ki death k grief mein lga tha, maybe he will give her space, or ask her to do her heart will. But No, he is also still threre. That he will change her feelings with his heart

Seriously, he is not going to let her go. She is both the object of his affection and his obsession. I mean, even if she wants, she can not leave. What a brilliant couple we have here - the girl has abandonment issues and the guy is an obsessed husband.

Originally posted by: Schrute

I would love if they explored this power dynamics between them. At this point of time sitara has no where to go, and he is partially responsible for her having no support system, and i thought Salar's accusation plot will kind of explore that, that how inspite of having everything parents/guardians support Matters, but they brushed it under the carpet. Either they address sitara's mengal health soon or if they are not, it will be a missed opportunity. I am not really interested in zayaaan's plot. I think siatara salar have their own mess, a lot of them i might say, and it's time they try resolving those. Putting new MUs is totally unnecessary at this point of time. Or the writer is extremely Sadist and wants sitara to end up in a mental hospital soon. As you mentioned above, what's the use if characters lose their charm for the character growth. I wish script would have been written in a better way, instead of relying on Ali to carry ghe show. Which atp he is doing.

I would love for writers to explore this power dynamics as well but this writer is hell bent on writing things that give us anxiety.

Originally posted by: roopshas1

I just speed watched the episodes and I must say one thing. I genuinely feel that Sitara is losing her marbles. Like I get she is traumatised and everything, but yesterday's episode really felt as though she needs some intense therapy ASAP.

It is as PrincessJoJo asked. Sitara definitely probably thinks that Salar will probably get fed up of her and throw her out in weeks, if not days and maybe that he was holding on to the marriage because he didn't want to further upset his Nani. Now that Nani is gone, there is literally nothing holding him back in her opinion. At best, she thinks that he might try to ensure she is financially taken care of until she is on her own two feet. At worst, she probably fears that he wants to get intimate with her and then throw her away in some kind of elaborate scheme to rebel against his parents or hand her down to Salman (essentially paisa vasool karna). The continuous focus that she has on the consummation only plays into that. She wants to leave with her dignity intact, that is without losing her virginity to Salar, and unfortunately now she is interpreting any kind of touch from Salar as a precursor to him initiating sex.

Her survival mode has turned on now. It is the same tactic she used to use with her family. I am sure what her gameplan is though, if she has one at all. One thing is definitely for sure though. She wants to leave with her chastity intact and that is why she is being hostile to any proximity to Salar. Honestly, I do not understand this. She is sleeping on the same bed as him. Literally no one outside her bedroom is ever going to believe that nothing happened between them. So why is she making such a big deal out of the consummation? Like why is there such a big focus on the consummation now? Is this track heading towards that?

Also, Zayyan probably likes Sitara. It is not love but there is definitely admiration out there. There will be definitely miscommunication and while Salar will not think that Sitara is being unfaithful even emotionally, he will definitely get territorial and possessive. One thing is that Salar had always been incredibly dominating in regards to Sitara and he is not above being aggressive with her when he feels that she is denying him herself. We have seen this during the Qasim wedding track and while right now, Salar has toned down this side of him to give Sitara the space that he thinks she needs, this possessive side will definitely come back roaring back with full vigour. I just hope that this is not a TB situation because that one really left a bitter taste in my mouth, especially with the way Meerab was crying the next morning.

I am also not sure how Salar is interpreting this. Like does he think this is just grief talking? The way he got so happy when Sitara said he can do anything made me shake my head. Also, I liked the breakfast because it seemed that Salar was trying to bring back their old Hyderabad dynamic by offering to help with the coffee and for a moment, Sitara genuinely smiled. She did say that she is making breakfast. I thought it was for both of them.

Honestly, I need these two to talk things out and make Sitara go to therapy ASAP. MU dikhane ke naam par agar characters ke original personality traits hi writers bhul jaye to kahaani ka falooda banna to likha hi hai. I have hated Sitara's dialogues post-marriage. Pre-marriage, she had sass, but post-marriage, it is entirely something else altogether because it is so crude. I am not defending her but expressing my frustration with the storywriting. Essentially, we are back to square one with the bonus that we have no Nani who could have been a good influence. The only additions this track made are a new baby and an inherited house. Also, I think Sahiba's chaal will fail socially because Zayyan's parents will shut down any such rumours and instead easily expose that Zayyan helped Sitara and Salar and Sitara was thanking him for exposing Sahiba. Even if Zayyan is scared regarding helping Sitara and Salar right now, it would not surprise me if Sitara takes the initiative and rescues Zayyan and saves his engagement. I hope this will be Sahiba's downfall because Mirza's will probably go through a complete social boycott after this. That should be their punishment for trying to support their molester daughter.

Agree, with all your point. Sitara ko yehi lgta hai Salar is pretending all this mohabbat and care for consummation of their marriage. Aur ab to nani bhi nhi hai, responsibility bhi bnane ka promise nhi kya. Parents se bhi jhgra hai, adventure hai ye sb us ke ley

But Salman ko thpad lgaya usne? ...but use trust nhi ab. Zayan ka jealous angle beech mein la kr, mujhe bhi yehi dar lg rha hai ..tere bin track pr naa jay.

Lekin zayan ki help sitara ko bhari zrur pdegi...aesa lg rha hai. Sahiba ko phir se kyun dikha dya. Koi nhi sudhar rha..mehreen to wo last episode wala hi scene hain

Honestly, about the touch and sex part, I have a darker interpretation and that is Salar is waiting for that one moment when Sitara is becomes vulnerable (agreeable in his interpretation) and responds positively to his touch. He knows he can seduce her, that she is definitely affected by him but he wants her to give in to him herself. I do not think he has any plans of living without sex for the rest of his life or with sex from someone else, especially when he is clearly lusting after his wife. I think he just wants her to melt and give him that one moment or instance from where he can seduce her in the moment and take things forward. That is why despite her clear rejections of his touch, he keeps coming back and touching her. He is only momentarily waiting and giving her space. That is why I am genuinely wondering if this Zayyan track is finally heading towards some place where Salar gets territorial and possessive and his patience finally bursts because this past two episodes talked about the state of their conjugal relations far more times than any time before.

As I write before....

Salar cant be a hero, till he give her choice. Thats why I want Tahir to step in. I want Salar to leave from the house. In anger or guilt ...to gv her space.

(Buht mohabbat hai Salar ko, but Sitara ka peecha nhi chod skta)

(Nani k ghar nhi ja skti, mehreen will eat her alive. Sitara ko uski inheritance lene ka bhi ilzam lga degi)

Tahir can offer her job, aur jese orphange wala scene dala..maybe she will start getting success in that departnent with her studies.

Zayan will provoke salar, or maybe he become second option for her.

I want her to choose salar, when she is free to take her decision without any majboori.