Kaffara #3 (GEO) Ali Ansari , Laiba Khan , Usman Peerzada - Page 66

Also it's about time they show salar retrospecting about Sitara's behaviour and her harsh and insensitive words, then just being happy about some crumbs of nice things she tells him. He should confront her and tell her her behaviour isn't acceptable and that if she's having so much of misconceptions she is free to leave. Salar's reaction also doesn't make sense.

I just speed watched the episodes and I must say one thing. I genuinely feel that Sitara is losing her marbles. Like I get she is traumatised and everything, but yesterday's episode really felt as though she needs some intense therapy ASAP.

It is as PrincessJoJo asked. Sitara definitely probably thinks that Salar will probably get fed up of her and throw her out in weeks, if not days and maybe that he was holding on to the marriage because he didn't want to further upset his Nani. Now that Nani is gone, there is literally nothing holding him back in her opinion. At best, she thinks that he might try to ensure she is financially taken care of until she is on her own two feet. At worst, she probably fears that he wants to get intimate with her and then throw her away in some kind of elaborate scheme to rebel against his parents or hand her down to Salman (essentially paisa vasool karna). The continuous focus that she has on the consummation only plays into that. She wants to leave with her dignity intact, that is without losing her virginity to Salar, and unfortunately now she is interpreting any kind of touch from Salar as a precursor to him initiating sex.

Her survival mode has turned on now. It is the same tactic she used to use with her family. I am sure what her gameplan is though, if she has one at all. One thing is definitely for sure though. She wants to leave with her chastity intact and that is why she is being hostile to any proximity to Salar. Honestly, I do not understand this. She is sleeping on the same bed as him. Literally no one outside her bedroom is ever going to believe that nothing happened between them. So why is she making such a big deal out of the consummation? Like why is there such a big focus on the consummation now? Is this track heading towards that?

Also, Zayyan probably likes Sitara. It is not love but there is definitely admiration out there. There will be definitely miscommunication and while Salar will not think that Sitara is being unfaithful even emotionally, he will definitely get territorial and possessive. One thing is that Salar had always been incredibly dominating in regards to Sitara and he is not above being aggressive with her when he feels that she is denying him herself. We have seen this during the Qasim wedding track and while right now, Salar has toned down this side of him to give Sitara the space that he thinks she needs, this possessive side will definitely come back roaring back with full vigour. I just hope that this is not a TB situation because that one really left a bitter taste in my mouth, especially with the way Meerab was crying the next morning.

I am also not sure how Salar is interpreting this. Like does he think this is just grief talking? The way he got so happy when Sitara said he can do anything made me shake my head. Also, I liked the breakfast because it seemed that Salar was trying to bring back their old Hyderabad dynamic by offering to help with the coffee and for a moment, Sitara genuinely smiled. She did say that she is making breakfast. I thought it was for both of them.

Honestly, I need these two to talk things out and make Sitara go to therapy ASAP. MU dikhane ke naam par agar characters ke original personality traits hi writers bhul jaye to kahaani ka falooda banna to likha hi hai. I have hated Sitara's dialogues post-marriage. Pre-marriage, she had sass, but post-marriage, it is entirely something else altogether because it is so crude. I am not defending her but expressing my frustration with the storywriting. Essentially, we are back to square one with the bonus that we have no Nani who could have been a good influence. The only additions this track made are a new baby and an inherited house. Also, I think Sahiba's chaal will fail socially because Zayyan's parents will shut down any such rumours and instead easily expose that Zayyan helped Sitara and Salar and Sitara was thanking him for exposing Sahiba. Even if Zayyan is scared regarding helping Sitara and Salar right now, it would not surprise me if Sitara takes the initiative and rescues Zayyan and saves his engagement. I hope this will be Sahiba's downfall because Mirza's will probably go through a complete social boycott after this. That should be their punishment for trying to support their molester daughter.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Also it's about time they show salar retrospecting about Sitara's behaviour and her harsh and insensitive words, then just being happy about some crumbs of nice things she tells him. He should confront her and tell her her behaviour isn't acceptable and that if she's having so much of misconceptions she is free to leave. Salar's reaction also doesn't make sense.

He doesn't. At this point, I would love to smoke whatever he is smoking whenever Sitara pulls out crumbs of affection and he reacts like this. Does he think that he is being mature or patient or does he do it because he knows that he is the one in the position of power and she is dependent on him? I dunno.

Originally posted by: roopshas1

He doesn't. At this point, I would love to smoke whatever he is smoking whenever Sitara pulls out crumbs of affection and he reacts like this. Does he think that he is being mature or patient or does he do it because he knows that he is the one in the position of power and she is dependent on him? I dunno.

I think he's being patient with her, but I'm not liking that ML ko green flag banane ke chakkar mein they are showing him doing so at the expense of his self respect.

I hate when they show FLs taking crap from MLs and shows glorifying that and here they r showing reverse and that's also wrong.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

I think he's being patient with her, but I'm not liking that ML ko green flag banane ke chakkar mein they are showing him doing so at the expense of his self respect.

I hate when they show FLs taking crap from MLs and shows glorifying that and here they r showing reverse and that's also wrong.

So true. It is beginning to annoy me. It is one thing to be assertive and clear about your boundaries while whatever Sitara is doing something else. I do not like this.

Originally posted by: Priyankaakdha

Sitara has clearly told salar in promo that zayan gave her the evidence ... pic toh upload ho hi gyi media m of zayan sitara , toh uske dad ko vaise bhi pta chl gya hoga that they are in touch ...

isse acha h ki sitara ko salar itna provoke kare ki vo sab gusse m bta de .... nahi toh nani ko hi zinda krna padega bas

Ye provoke kr k hi nikle dono sides sem.wrna aesa hi guzar denge 20 saal ye

Originally posted by: roopshas1

He doesn't. At this point, I would love to smoke whatever he is smoking whenever Sitara pulls out crumbs of affection and he reacts like this. Does he think that he is being mature or patient or does he do it because he knows that he is the one in the position of power and she is dependent on him? I dunno.

I would love if they explored this power dynamics between them. At this point of time sitara has no where to go, and he is partially responsible for her having no support system, and i thought Salar's accusation plot will kind of explore that, that how inspite of having everything parents/guardians support Matters, but they brushed it under the carpet. Either they address sitara's mengal health soon or if they are not, it will be a missed opportunity. I am not really interested in zayaaan's plot. I think siatara salar have their own mess, a lot of them i might say, and it's time they try resolving those. Putting new MUs is totally unnecessary at this point of time. Or the writer is extremely Sadist and wants sitara to end up in a mental hospital soon. As you mentioned above, what's the use if characters lose their charm for the character growth. I wish script would have been written in a better way, instead of relying on Ali to carry ghe show. Which atp he is doing.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Also it's about time they show salar retrospecting about Sitara's behaviour and her harsh and insensitive words, then just being happy about some crumbs of nice things she tells him. He should confront her and tell her her behaviour isn't acceptable and that if she's having so much of misconceptions she is free to leave. Salar's reaction also doesn't make sense.

Salar is obsessed with her. Ye option nhi de rha naa wo Sitara ko. He told her in yesterday episode " biwi ab bhi ho tum meri " aur Sitara ki sari badtmeezi k baad bhi his actions were same . Na wo use dour jata hai, naa hi touch krne se rukta hai.

Nani ki death k grief mein lga tha, maybe he will give her space, or ask her to do her heart will. But No, he is also still threre. That he will change her feelings with his heart

Now that Sitara thinks salar doesn't want to take her responsibility, she should do a job.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Now that Sitara thinks salar doesn't want to take her responsibility, she should do a job.

Wo to Salar ko hi kaam pr bhejh rhi thi...motivation de kr. Writer bhi kuch smoke kr rhi hai in dono k sath