Slap Justified? - Page 11

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Armaan mom was first wife of madhav so how can vidya compare armaan mom with ruhi?! Ruhi is not armaan's first wife.

Even though she doesn't know that Ruhi is the other woman like Armaans mom. Wife thi? Pata nahi

Ruhi was the woman Armaan loved before Abhira

Just like in Vidya Madhav case, that's the foreshadowing

As for now Ruhi is just meddling but Vidya's similar buttons will get pushed unknowingly itself.

She is the good mother in law who doesn't want her daughter in law to go through the same fire she went through. She wants better for Abhira and Armaan unlike hers

Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer

Even though she doesn't know that Ruhi is the other woman like Armaans mom. Wife thi? Pata nahi

Ruhi was the woman Armaan loved before Abhira

Just like in Vidya Madhav case, that's the foreshadowing

As for now Ruhi is just meddling but Vidya's similar buttons will get pushed unknowingly itself.

She is the good mother in law who doesn't want her daughter in law to go through the same fire she went through. She wants better for Abhira and Armaan unlike hers

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

She is poking her nose into her matters and her family matters and her future husband's matters.

Abhira divorcing Armaan will free Armaan.

Abhira leaving will free Poddar's from a girl like abhira who will not even blink her eyes to blame them.

But when abhira is doing her work when she goes outside for her work i don't think ruhi has poked her nose except dadisa's matter.

Ruhi is only poking the nose where the impacted person is either Armaan or poddars.

Whereas Abhira wants Ruhi to get married. Abhira wants Ruhi to not to poke her nose in their contract marriage even after knowing Ruhi is chit wali gfs friend. So ideally his gf wants to know what she should do wait for him or move on.

If abhira was not in love post 1 year contract agar chitwali move on kargayi thab abhira nahi rukne wali armaan ke liye as at that point she made it clear it was contract marriage.

Just because Ab is in love chitwali should back off? Why they are in love as per narrative. Lovers ke beech main haddi toh abhira hai. Any woman who has dignity would have left home once she gets a job knowing Armaan has a gf and after seeing him hugging her in a sunsaan hut.

Abhira apologized only sometimes. Has she apologized for pushing Ruhi in the kitchen? Has she apologized for blasting at Ruhi for blaming her for breaking Murthi and even spoiling her boxes? Has she apologized to Phuphasa for saying he purposefully wanted to handicap his son?

When she has not done it many times ek baar se mujhe koi fark nahi padhega.

Regarding Ruhi, yes she is wrong but that will not make AB right.

I agree Ar said he doesn’t want to talk about his past and it’s over but she could have asked Ruhi na… instead of all those illogical and stupid cat fights, she could have gone to Ruhi and simply asked Ar and his gf relationship status…

Even irl before catching feelings, we make sure to know as much as possible about the person… whether he is single or not, if he wants to be in a relationship or if he has any plans to patch up with his ex… any decent person would not want to come between two people…

Had Ab asked Ruhi, she could have said they both are planning to give themselves a chance after 3 months… infact she could have also said that DP were her idea as she had seen your kiss and wanted clarity… everything would have easily resolved.. lekin jaan bhuj kar anjaan bana and phir heartbreak pe victim card play karna hai…

And it’s not like Ab is some teenage girl to go all nibbi in pyaar… she is an adult.. and already was dating her senior who went to foreign… the feelings might not be as intense as now but she knows what love is and could have acted maturely…

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

the thing that’s off putting is Ab saw Ar and his gf hugging in a secluded place… at that time she felt guilty for chitwali... she even deduced that Ruhi could be chitwali’s friend… and now pyaar mein itni pagal hogayi hai ki chitwali ka khayal bhi nahi aaraha..

I agree Ar said he doesn’t want to talk about his past and it’s over but she could have asked Ruhi na… instead of all those illogical and stupid cat fights, she could have gone to Ruhi and simply asked Ar and his gf relationship status…

Even irl before catching feelings, we make sure to know as much as possible about the person… whether he is single or not, if he wants to be in a relationship or if he has any plans to patch up with his ex… any decent person would not want to come between two people…

Had Ab asked Ruhi, she could have said they both are planning to give themselves a chance after 3 months… infact she could have also said that DP were her idea as she had seen your kiss and wanted clarity… everything would have easily resolved.. lekin jaan bhuj kar anjaan bana and phir heartbreak pe victim card play karna hai…

And it’s not like Ab is some teenage girl to go all nibbi in pyaar… she is an adult.. and already was dating her senior who went to foreign… the feelings might not be as intense as now but she knows what love is and could have acted maturely…

Armaan is only defending AB against Dadisa for her education only because she is not part of the family and she need not follow the rules of the house. She has to move on and he internally knows she is a guest. Once he accepts her as real bahu of the family he will expect her to not to disrespect others. As for him they are more important. Thab gidgidakar toxic bolne see acha single raho bhai or find a man like your father no family so no one to kill or no one to poke your nose in their business. Her mum and she do not belong to a joint family set up they should either stay single or choose a nuclear family. Yahi accha hai at least family members will be alive.

Originally posted by: Krinya

By what logic ?

I never liked akshnav frankly ..everything about s3 was shit , even if I liked some aspects of it ..eventually every character went down the drain (went down the hill literally ) ..there is nothing remotely likeable in the prev season ..

Nothing would stop me from liking ruhi if she earned it ..others are horrible than her & equally at fault doesn't make her less horrible ..ruhi is in this mess bec of herself . I have similar views on Arman.he ain't any good either for the same reasons..

Nothing would stop me from hating abhira if she was like that ...i mean i can have an opinion on her.....abhiras character makes me curious..she's like a Phoenix & I like such chars, till they are butchered of course ..she never had it easy..her moms death , yuvraj, unwanted marriage , sasural where nobody wanted her , husband who doesn't love her ..she still makes the best out of it , without any sulking and blaming fate or others for her misery..she tries to stay happy in that hell hole..except manisha chachi koi aur wahan khush dikhta bhi hai? In future if they Butcher her , I'll express it as it is..

I respect ur opinion on ruhi & abhira & enjoyed reading abt it ..it gave me another perspective ..cya around

I don't know Abhira's father or mother. She is brain child of Leena Gangopadhyay. I don't have any fondness for her I do not have it for any other character either not liking her is not about her father abhi Tak Aisa kuch mila nahi ki I should like her character she is not better than her Ghum version. Initial Sai was a better character, Imon to alag hi level pe thi

But many love her because of her father so what is wrong if many hate her for the same reason? Both are on same level