Parineetii Episode Discussion #1|*DT NOTE P. 23*| - Page 77

Originally posted by: KalmaLove92

Actually Rajiv cited his reasons for printing that card and giving it to her: the nonstop insults from Niti of his whole family, the baby and Niti continously calling Pari names when the latter is the 1st wife is what convinced him to ahead with the marriage idea suggested by Pammi.

Of course, at the last moment Niti will come and interrupt by saying the divorce hasn't happened yet and then something will happen to make Pari leave BH.

He told her his side of the story, admitted his faults and then decided to put a full stop to the ongoing nonsense for the sake of everyone involved.

Taiji's baddua of 1yr ago has shown its effect.

And woh chup chap divorce ho jati toh he can do whatever he wants with pari and everyone but he chose to purposefully go and throw the wedding card in her face how is he any better than neeti? Has neeti claimed she doesn’t love him no inspite of that he chooses to go and hurt her because usse saha nh ja rha hai bandi sach bol rhi hai. Did she say anything wrong? Did taiji and chandrika not encourage pariraj? Agar they accepted neeti then they should have firmly told them to stay away from each other. Instead taiji kept insisting sanju to keep pari as an option lomg after they knew the truth. Is parivar ko besharam nh kahenge toh kis parivar ko kahenge. Agar koyi normal family hoti toh woh baithke sanju ko samjhatw how pari being there is detrimental to his marriage with neeti regardless of whether pari is wrong or not. They could have made some alternative arrangements for pari for her to be taken care of but did they do that? No . So haan family toh besharam hai and aj bhi neeti shayad kuch bolti nh if you remember it is rajeev and pari who started the natak with first pari nautanki and then rajeev giving taunts to neeti indirectly

Originally posted by: shirin04

I don’t think she wants sanju to take her back especially on the sick terms in which he wants her to agree and see unlike Pari neeti is in tune with her emotions. When you are divorcing you will always have range of emtions. Today also neeti crying was at best a moment of weakness it happens to the best of us. See It hardly qualifies as desperate and she was not really going to act on it until rajeev just ended up at her doorstep. And unlike pari neeti has never said she doesn’t love sanju even while telling him it is over she did not say I don’t love you she said I can’t be with you if you are also with pari. I think she is the most clear headed person.

The person who reeks of desperation atp is rajeev lit printing a card to get neeti enraged. And unlike neeti it was not a moment of weakness he lit legit planned the whole thing just to get back at her. If that doesn’t qualify as desperate I don’t know what does.

Really? Didn't you hear her talking to her mom repenting on her behaviour and saying she wants to go back to him, before Sanju came there with Pariraj's wedding card?

So let's put this to bed. I read ahead to DECEMBER 2nd synopsis on Tellybest. Spoilers here. DONT READ IF YOU DONT WANT TO KNOW

Contrary to the made up stories in the heads of others herethis is what ACTUALLY happens.

Upon hearing about Rajiv' s impending marriage to Pari, Neeti and her mother goes there to confront PARI. Neeti says to Pari that she cannot believe that she will.marry Rajiv even tjough NEETI hasn't been granted a divorce.

Unlike the schizoid rantings of some here, at no time did Neeti requests that Rajiv take her back.

In fact, SHE heads to the courts and she requests that the judge SPEED it up and grant her a divorce As soon AS POSSIBLE. REREAD IT if comprehension is a problem. It is NEETI who requests the process be sped up

By the end of the episode, BOTH Neeti and Rajiv sign the divorce papers

So, that's what will happen on our screens. Neeti will be sad that everything has ended but she signs the divorce papers.

In one week, we have seen Neeti show more strength than Pari has in her own life.

So now people can cope and cry

Originally posted by: shirin04

@bold- yeh pehle krdeta and pari ke upar itna na charta na toh ho itna problem nh hota. Before todah itni clarity ke sath mene toh sanju ko bolte hue nh suna.

And woh chup chap divorce ho jati toh he can do whatever he wants with pari and everyone but he chose to purposefully go and throw the wedding card in her face how is he any better than neeti? Has neeti claimed she doesn’t love him no inspite of that he chooses to go and hurt her because usse saha nh ja rha hai bandi sach bol rhi hai. Did she say anything wrong? Did taiji and chandrika not encourage pariraj? Agar they accepted neeti then they should have firmly told them to stay away from each other. Instead taiji kept insisting sanju to keep pari as an option lomg after they knew the truth. Is parivar ko besharam nh kahenge toh kis parivar ko kahenge. Agar koyi normal family hoti toh woh baithke sanju ko samjhatw how pari being there is detrimental to his marriage with neeti regardless of whether pari is wrong or not. They could have made some alternative arrangements for pari for her to be taken care of but did they do that? No . So haan family toh besharam hai and aj bhi neeti shayad kuch bolti nh if you remember it is rajeev and pari who started the natak with first pari nautanki and then rajeev giving taunts to neeti indirectly

tbh i don't think some people are here even married to understand the nuances of emotional aspects of marriage.agr neeti vapas jana chahti h to she wanted to save her marriage...she is just going through the ups and downs of a trauma...mtlb isme bhi desperation bol dia yr...what should i say to these types of people who have thoughts like these??

and we should not forget that some people here are from not hindu religion.they can't think what feelings one go when someone who goes through divorce..coz some religion allow multiple marriages and there females would have mentally ready from young age(even their laws are very different)

and divorce -->that too on one reason

ki pari vahan rahegi ya nahi

i mean the whole reason itself is pari

aur ab madam shaadi k kapde phn kr bhi tyaar h...oh god the hypocrisy is at best

and i dont even think that pari+rajeev marriage is even valid coz they are not even registered as per the law

yr mtlb

koi ek din court m kehta hai "neeti aur rajeev ek dusre k bina ni reh skte"

aur agle din usi insan se shaadi krne ko tyaar vyaar hokr khadi hai

i mean

this itself justifies the character of pari.

smjh to har koi gaya hi hoga ki pari jaisi ladki ko kya bolenge

bs likh nahi rhi kyunki jinke paas valid arguments ni hote vo posts report krte h

p.s maine to phle hi bol dia tha ye promo bkwas h ek din mana kregi pari dusre din bistar garam kregi rajeev ka...i was right

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

So let's put this to bed. I read ahead to DECEMBER 2nd synopsis on Tellybest. Spoilers here. DONT READ IF YOU DONT WANT TO KNOW

Contrary to the made up stories in the heads of others herethis is what ACTUALLY happens.

Upon hearing about Rajiv' s impending marriage to Pari, Neeti and her mother goes there to confront PARI. Neeti says to Pari that she cannot believe that she will.marry Rajiv even tjough NEETI hasn't been granted a divorce.

Unlike the schizoid rantings of some here, at no time did Neeti requests that Rajiv take her back.

In fact, SHE heads to the courts and she requests that the judge SPEED it up and grant her a divorce As soon AS POSSIBLE. REREAD IT if comprehension is a problem. It is NEETI who requests the process be sped up

By the end of the episode, BOTH Neeti and Rajiv sign the divorce papers

So, that's what will happen on our screens. Neeti will be sad that everything has ended but she signs the divorce papers.

In one week, we have seen Neeti show more strength than Pari has in her own life.

So now people can cope and cry

ofcourse neeti has shown very strong behaviour than pari has shown in her entire life

Originally posted by: mysteriousdoll

tbh i don't think some people are here even married to understand the nuances of emotional aspects of marriage.agr neeti vapas jana chahti h to she wanted to save her marriage...she is just going through the ups and downs of a trauma...mtlb isme bhi desperation bol dia yr...what should i say to these types of people who have thoughts like these??

and we should not forget that some people here are from not hindu religion.they can't think what feelings one go when someone who goes through divorce..coz some religion allow multiple marriages and there females would have mentally ready from young age(even their laws are very different)

and divorce -->that too on one reason

ki pari vahan rahegi ya nahi

i mean the whole reason itself is pari

aur ab madam shaadi k kapde phn kr bhi tyaar h...oh god the hypocrisy is at best

and i dont even think that pari+rajeev marriage is even valid coz they are not even registered as per the law

yr mtlb

koi ek din court m kehta hai "neeti aur rajeev ek dusre k bina ni reh skte"

aur agle din usi insan se shaadi krne ko tyaar vyaar hokr khadi hai

i mean

this itself justifies the character of pari.

smjh to har koi gaya hi hoga ki pari jaisi ladki ko kya bolenge

bs likh nahi rhi kyunki jinke paas valid arguments ni hote vo posts report krte h

p.s maine to phle hi bol dia tha ye promo bkwas h ek din mana kregi pari dusre din bistar garam kregi rajeev ka...i was right

Originally posted by: KalmaLove92

Really? Didn't you hear her talking to her mom repenting on her behaviour and saying she wants to go back to him, before Sanju came there with Pariraj's wedding card?

I was laughing hard when i hear it from her mouth that she feels lonely and she is not happy and wants to go back. Self-respect kahan haithe best part when Rajeev came she was like talking in her heart all the positive loving words she wants to hear from Rajeev's mouth

I am damn sure she did not sign the divorce papers

Originally posted by: Mages

That depends on the wrters

The show needs new writers but I guess it's too late to clear up the mess now

Originally posted by: MochaQueen

The show needs new writers but I guess it's too late to clear up the mess now

They can show it through a leap

Originally posted by: shirin04

@bold- i partly agree with it. While in some countries like nigeria or othwr african countries polygamy is very socially acceptable indian muslims do not partake in it at all. Coming from a muslim family agar mere family me se koyi dusri shadi krta na toh chappal chappal khajayega and then would be ostrisized. Social acceptance of bigamy is extremely low in india across all religions and the data that talks about bigamy mostly reflect marriages where the 1st wife is estranged but not legally seperated or about secret wives. Very few men ( like arman malik that youtuber) actually have two women living under the same roof as their wife at the same time. It is simply unheard of atleast in the indian context but koyi hamare desh ke serials dekh le na bahar se toh sochenge hamare desh ki established custom hai polygamy.

@bold-exactly my point

btw you come from muslim family..its very heartening to see u r supporting neeti in bigamy angle..

actually where i live

there is only one muslim family i know...and he has been married twice..and one hindu family..there also both first wives have no prob with another one and vice versa

(same in arman malik case--even these type of youtubers are increasing day by day)

last year i made a friend she is muslim too...but i never asked her about the marriage laws

about ostracization-->both families i know have not been excluded by anybody where they are known...even one family is very rich and many people want to be in their good books

although i know in some parts of india too bigamy is followed..i was always interested in indian law..and hence i know some of them by heart

so yeah nice to know about some muslim culture too...very happy to see that bigamy is very much frowned upon..

thanks for explaining