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Originally posted by: Zica04

Agreed that Aarav is protective but has he seen Viaan hit her ? Has he ever even seen Viaan talk in a loud voice with her ? How could he just hear the word hurt and assume the worst of the person he was ready to spend his life with as a father. Palak Tiwari ke case mai she has seen the step father do things and then hated him. Yes any person should move out if the relationship is abusive but first it is essential to establish that the relationship is abusive if not then its just misunderstanding

Prior to that Yuvraj also beat him for no reason. No one beats anyone for no reason in this way. So, a lot to take in from that as well.

Originally posted by: Neutral2

No matter how much stranger loves you, if he did something miserable like slapping to your mother, you gonna hate him forever.

Take the example of Shweta Tiwari's daughter. Now she hate her step father which she loved in the past.

I agree Aarav is no saint boy, he himself has broken his friend arm, do lot of bully and it is not justified in any circumstances.

But Aarav fear come from Maya Masi story too. Also in absence of his father, he feel very protective for his mother which is normal in 9-10 year boy. Indian society is built in a way where even a small boy is consider responsible for protecting his female member. Festival like Rakhabhandan put a pressure on boys too. Moreover Aarav is learning Karate where they might have teach some lesson on protecting your family member.

I understand your pov but still, seeing with your own eyes is more impactful.

Aarav never experienced a love of father and first time he got to feel it because of viaan. To aarav viaan is his actual papa because aadi was never there for him. Such a strong connection with father and then you see your relative beating your father black and blue and still not asking questions or getting offended by it is beyond my comprehension.

On the other hand, I know its very difficult to respect a person who has hurt your mother but there is no conclusive evidence of it. His mother never said viaan hurt her, aarav never saw anything like that. Just overhearing a vague sentence about hurting your mother makes you this much angry is idiotic. He never asked any questions also from his mother, never wished to confront viaan. He just arrived at conclusion, passed his judgement and declared viaan guilty.

Originally posted by: Zica04

Katha ko saare acche and rich bande kaise mil jaate hai 😂. Yaha dhoondne ke baad bhi nhi mil raha aur iske liye sab line mai khde hai.

Yeah, doctor is third handsome and rich man fallen for katha

Kismat yaar kismat

Originally posted by: Neutral2

Do you need to see everything and judge. Suppose your sibling said someone disrespect mother, are you not gonna believe it? Anyway he is just a child and he listen to Viaan telling that he hurt Katha and mental torture her.

I took the example of Palak Tiwari only to say no matter how much bond you have with somebody but when it comes to family, it is the first priority.

@bold thats the thing, viaan was never a part of katha and Aarav's family. He was always an outsider. But they both were his world.

Originally posted by: Anj_01

I understand your pov but still, seeing with your own eyes is more impactful.

Aarav never experienced a love of father and first time he got to feel it because of viaan. To aarav viaan is his actual papa because aadi was never there for him. Such a strong connection with father and then you see your relative beating your father black and blue and still not asking questions or getting offended by it is beyond my comprehension.

On the other hand, I know its very difficult to respect a person who has hurt your mother but there is no conclusive evidence of it. His mother never said viaan hurt her, aarav never saw anything like that. Just overhearing a vague sentence about hurting your mother makes you this much angry is idiotic. He never asked any questions also from his mother, never wished to confront viaan. He just arrived at conclusion, passed his judgement and declared viaan guilty.

He heard from Viaan himself. His mother broke up the marriage before he listen that hurt thing. His chacha has beaten Viaan, at that time he was questioning and hating his chacha. But after Viaan confession, it is very clear to him that it is the Viaan who hurt his mother first then all this sort of things.

I agree with that Katha can still manipulate him saying it is some office mental torture and some confusion within the family. But I guess it is drama, so they are creating more mess.

I think people are underestimating Aarav intelligence considering his age. But at those age, things are very simple and logical compare to what mature people think. For children it is black and white. Say stealing is wrong/sin for children. For mature people they try to understand why they steal, may be they are really poor and need money.

There is one scenario where Viaan was accussed by shamita. At that time, Katha taught Aarav to respect girl. Aarav said he asked girl permission to sit nearby in the bus. So for him respecting girl is huge and hurting girl is wrong.

Originally posted by: Anj_01

@bold thats the thing, viaan was never a part of katha and Aarav's family. He was always an outsider. But they both were his world.

Ofcourse, comparing 8 year with his mother and 8 month with stranger, he will be more sensitive towards his mother. No matter what. It is very logical.

He will always side with his mother in any fight until his rational mind kick in and think neutrally.

Plus the story from Maya Masi played the role where step father first friendship with child but started torturing his mother. He is afraid to lose his mother.

Any child will choose to stay away from the person who torture his mother.

Your POV is justified when you put it like that but the main reason that we have an issue in believing it is that the show has not cleared that aspect in a way that you perceive it. All we got to see was Aarav overreacting in every single thing ever since the hurt incident and he is coming off as a spoit brat. Add to that the fact that we have not seen him talk freely about his emotions to the therapist Raghav(they just play around and crack jokes).

Another thing is that if i hear my father say that he hurt my mother, my first instinct will be to ask as many questions and clear it up rather than hate him for life by hearing that one thing.

But then again it comes down to the thing they never really considered him as a father in all its senses like Viaan did for Aarav. Thats why he was ready to against Maya Masi and his mom for both of them.

Your points are valid but what the show has been able to project till now has not captured your sentiments.

Katha's face when Viaan congratulated her

Goddd i hope he stays and makes her even more uncomfortable. Especially when woh is there. Tu jahan jahan rahega mera saaya saath hoga

Originally posted by: Zica04

Your POV is justified when you put it like that but the main reason that we have an issue in believing it is that the show has not cleared that aspect in a way that you perceive it. All we got to see was Aarav overreacting in every single thing ever since the hurt incident and he is coming off as a spoit brat. Add to that the fact that we have not seen him talk freely about his emotions to the therapist Raghav(they just play around and crack jokes).

Another thing is that if i hear my father say that he hurt my mother, my first instinct will be to ask as many questions and clear it up rather than hate him for life by hearing that one thing.

But then again it comes down to the thing they never really considered him as a father in all its senses like Viaan did for Aarav. Thats why he was ready to against Maya Masi and his mom for both of them.

Your points are valid but what the show has been able to project till now has not captured your sentiments.

@bold, because we are used to it. We have seen our parent having conflict since we born.

It is normal for us. For the village people, it is normal for child to perceive man as boss of house and woman just a servant. Sometime they consider beating as normal because they are seeing from the time they born. Similarly alcoholic husband.

When I was a child, I see many time my parents fighting seriously. Even I thought they will separate or they don't love each other. I thought I will stay with my mom if they separate because mom is housewives and I was not very attach with papa since he was always busy with office work.

Aarav has never perceived husband wife dynamic. He met Viaan in a completely different way. He never traveled with Mummy Papa together. They never got chance to be together, might be only some hours. Suddenly his chacha beat Viaan. Suddenly Katha broke marriage without telling reason. At that time he was fighting for his robin. But then Viaan self confession. Not only he was thinking Viaan might have physical hurt Katha but also his trust is broken too. And it is too much for him to understand what is going on.

@red, not very true. It is mixture of everything, not very attach with Viaan, Viaan self confession, his whole family against marriage and hiding the reason, Maya's story, very attach with his mother, feel protective for his mother, his own ideology which is build by Katha (of not hurting any woman or extra respect towards woman).

Originally posted by: Zica04

Your POV is justified when you put it like that but the main reason that we have an issue in believing it is that the show has not cleared that aspect in a way that you perceive it. All we got to see was Aarav overreacting in every single thing ever since the hurt incident and he is coming off as a spoit brat. Add to that the fact that we have not seen him talk freely about his emotions to the therapist Raghav(they just play around and crack jokes).

Another thing is that if i hear my father say that he hurt my mother, my first instinct will be to ask as many questions and clear it up rather than hate him for life by hearing that one thing.

But then again it comes down to the thing they never really considered him as a father in all its senses like Viaan did for Aarav. Thats why he was ready to against Maya Masi and his mom for both of them.

Your points are valid but what the show has been able to project till now has not captured your sentiments.

@Bold Yeah that's true that the show isn't doing the best job at showing the perspective of child right now. Honestly, show isn't doing a good job at showing the perspective of Katha. However, there are clear hints which led to this conclusion. It began from Maya's fake but, tragic story. Then, Aarav was able to connect dots when he heard Viaan saying he tortured Katha - at that moment he gasped and said "Isiliye aap sab log mujhe kuch nahi bata rahe the.....". Then, he saw Kailash getting shot, then Viaan goes to jail, then Kailash dies. So many questions with no explanation. If there is explanation then, it will be followed by another question. Ehsan and Teji don't know about condition of Aarav but, still agree that what happened with them was tragic. When they will know about condition of Aarav, they will be shocked.

But, for me, main advantage of such a logical perception is that it becomes easier to watch the show. Also, this POV isn't entirely made up. There are clear hints which adds to the benefits. Now, With this POV in mind, half of the questions about the story are solved. The questions which used to annoy me don't annoy me while watching the show. And, all it requires for this POV is to see through child's perspective.