Katha Ankahee -- #15 daily EDT - Page 87

Koi kuch bhi kahe I'm very excited for this EC track

It's going to bring those old vibes back I have a feeling. And I don't fully agree with people saying that Viaan should stop running behind Katha. Because first, it makes katha uncomfortable and nervous, so he should do exactly that. Why give her the satisfaction of doing exactly what she wants and leaving her alone? It would be easier for her to move on and forget him. Out of sight, out of mind and all that. If he's around, she'll always be on her toes and he would always be on her mind.

Second, if both of them gave up at the same time how will that work? Their relationship will disintegrate forever. For any relationship to work in the long run both the people in it should be equally committed. But there's still a survival chance in hell as long as both of them not stop fighting at the same time. Viaan has more than pulled his weight in this relationship, has fought for them till the end. It's Katha's turn now and I think she'll take the baton from him the moment he gives up. I really really hope that happens. Or it'll become too much of an emotional burden for Viaan in the end.

Though, I do think Viaan should change his approach now. He's got to keep himself and his self respect while doing whatever it is he wants to do. The idea is to make katha realize her mistakes and her love on her own, to subtly nudge her towards this realisation that what she's doing is wrong and wouldn't benefit anyone. And the more forceful, overbearing and in your face he would be, the more stubborn and determined it'll make her. The more he'll try to pull, the more it'll push her away. Just give her space and also not give her space. It's a delicate balance

Originally posted by: Eternalallure

Koi kuch bhi kahe I'm very excited for this EC track

It's going to bring those old vibes back I have a feeling. And I don't fully agree with people saying that Viaan should stop running behind Katha. Because first, it makes katha uncomfortable and nervous, so he should do exactly that. Why give her the satisfaction of doing exactly what she wants and leaving her alone? It would be easier for her to move on and forget him. Out of sight, out of mind and all that. If he's around, she'll always be on her toes and he would always be on her mind.

Second, if both of them gave up at the same time how will that work? Their relationship will disintegrate forever. For any relationship to work in the long run both the people in it should be equally committed. But there's still a survival chance in hell as long as both of them not stop fighting at the same time. Viaan has more than pulled his weight in this relationship, has fought for them till the end. It's Katha's turn now and I think she'll take the baton from him the moment he gives up. I really really hope that happens. Or it'll become too much of an emotional burden for Viaan in the end.

Though, I do think Viaan should change his approach now. He's got to keep himself and his self respect while doing whatever it is he wants to do. The idea is to make katha realize her mistakes and her love on her own, to subtly nudge her towards this realisation that what she's doing is wrong and wouldn't benefit anyone. And the more forceful, overbearing and in your face he would be, the more stubborn and determined it'll make her. The more he'll try to pull, the more it'll push her away. Just give her space and also not give her space. It's a delicate balance

Honestly, They should resume Lonavala Project. This project had been very integral to KaViaan. This project was the reason for their friendship and eventually, became their monument of love. This project is literally made by KaViaan for KaViaan. .

Honestly, whenever I remember how beautiful those days were. Such a novel and creative use of genuine office work as a tool in plot, still amazes me. Kid's space development discussion made Viaan embark on a journey which not only made him a beautiful person and eventually led him to face ghosts of his past and help him move on. And that entire incident which sprouted from a minor project discussion also acted as a catalyst in their love.

Originally posted by: Zica04

Yes thats fair. Its high time Katha is shown a mirror. What i also don’t understand is that if it would have been Adi. Would she have done the same thing? Its not about being the biological father only but also that she was ready to fight his family and cut ties with them for love. Here in a similar case it feels like she is determined to let the love go at any cost. In her sab ki bhalai its only her and her son. Kyuki in the end she is stringing along 2 men at a time and we all know in the end its hurtful for everyone toh kiski bhalai ho rhi hai madam 🙄

Sometimes I think both mother son are so materialistic they would have never liked doctor if he was a aged man of 45+, bald with a paunch and middle class.

Originally posted by: Neutral2

I think Aarav think Viaan slap Katha.

May be or may not.

Hurting someone can mean physical violence for a child but if it does then also its not something that he will not be able to understand if his mother tries.

If he just assumes that viaan slap katha and he is hating viaan so much then sorry to say but this child is really biased, selfish and idiot. Because he saw yuvraj inflicting so much more violence than a slap on viaan and he doesn't have any questions, any anger on yuvraj.

The father he claimed to love so much was in hospital because of it and yet that boy has no queries about it but he overhead a small vague sentence and he just gone nuts so much that he forgets immediately all the love, trust, care for his papa. He doesn't have any questions about it.

Originally posted by: Anj_01

Sometimes I think both mother son are so materialistic they would have never liked doctor if he was a aged man of 45+, bald with a paunch and middle class.

Like Viaan would've slept or fallen for her if she was old, sagging, ugly and not young and pretty?

Originally posted by: Anj_01

May be or may not.

Hurting someone can mean physical violence for a child but if it does then also its not something that he will not be able to understand if his mother tries.

If he just assumes that viaan slap katha and he is hating viaan so much then sorry to say but this child is really biased, selfish and idiot. Because he saw yuvraj inflicting so much more violence than a slap on viaan and he doesn't have any questions, any anger on yuvraj.

The father he claimed to love so much was in hospital because of it and yet that boy has no queries about it but he overhead a small vague sentence and he just gone nuts so much that he forgets immediately all the love, trust, care for his papa. He doesn't have any questions about it.

No matter how much stranger loves you, if he did something miserable like slapping to your mother, you gonna hate him forever.

Take the example of Shweta Tiwari's daughter. Now she hate her step father which she loved in the past.

I agree Aarav is no saint boy, he himself has broken his friend arm, do lot of bully and it is not justified in any circumstances.

But Aarav fear come from Maya Masi story too. Also in absence of his father, he feel very protective for his mother which is normal in 9-10 year boy. Indian society is built in a way where even a small boy is consider responsible for protecting his female member. Festival like Rakhabhandan put a pressure on boys too. Moreover Aarav is learning Karate where they might have teach some lesson on protecting your family member.

Originally posted by: Anj_01

Sometimes I think both mother son are so materialistic they would have never liked doctor if he was a aged man of 45+, bald with a paunch and middle class.

Originally posted by: Neutral2

No matter how much stranger loves you, if he did something miserable like slapping to your mother, you gonna hate him forever.

Take the example of Shweta Tiwari's daughter. Now she hate her step father which she loved in the past.

I agree Aarav is no saint boy, he himself has broken his friend arm, do lot of bully and it is not justified in any circumstances.

But Aarav fear come from Maya Masi story too. Also in absence of his father, he feel very protective for his mother which is normal in 9-10 year boy. Indian society is built in a way where even a small boy is consider responsible for protecting his female member. Festival like Rakhabhandan put a pressure on boys too. Moreover Aarav is learning Karate where they might have teach some lesson on protecting your family member.

Originally posted by: Zica04

Agreed that Aarav is protective but has he seen Viaan hit her ? Has he ever even seen Viaan talk in a loud voice with her ? How could he just hear the word hurt and assume the worst of the person he was ready to spend his life with as a father. Palak Tiwari ke case mai she has seen the step father do things and then hated him. Yes any person should move out if the relationship is abusive but first it is essential to establish that the relationship is abusive if not then its just misunderstanding

Do you need to see everything and judge. Suppose your sibling said someone disrespect mother, are you not gonna believe it? Anyway he is just a child and he listen to Viaan telling that he hurt Katha and mental torture her.

I took the example of Palak Tiwari only to say no matter how much bond you have with somebody but when it comes to family, it is the first priority.