Originally posted by: R.G.C
Abhimâs character took way too long to show character growth honestly. It is only post Abhinâs death I see that. He started off as an unnecessarily angry OOT charcter, continued to be so throughout the show, his mistakes are never acknowledged but in every track they have been there.
1. He shouldnât have said yes to marriage with Ar, no matter how much pressure he felt coming from his mother; just because Ak said no does not mean you go on your ego trip and say yes to her sister
2. He shouldnât have emotionally manipulated Ak to confess; agar really pyaar karta hai koi kisi se itna forceful nahi hota hai, love is not about forcing but respecting
3. He shouldnât have made Ak feel like an outsider after their marriage by constantly telling her to not indulge in family matters. Agar you donât want her to indulge then simply no point keeping your partner in a joint family environment
4. He should have shown more faith in Ak in the Neil adoption track
5. He should have given Ak a chance to tell her side of the story once post leap 1, but his anger was way too blinding for him to do that
6. WD and whatever followed should have not happened at all if the guy truly loved Ak. Chalo heat of the moment mein one can be harsh mana, but being so inconsiderate to not care about looking for someone you once used to claim go have loved is just pathetic. To not care to receive calls when you can see that the person is desperately trying to contact you; ignoring the concerns of them being in a problematic situation is just too low. Abhim was not at all a gentleman to Ak here
7. He should have shown regrets of all the bad choices he made instead of making ridiculous pleas to both Ak and Abhin to get back Ak while at the time being under the impression that Abhir is Akshnavâs son. This was certainly problematic on so many levels
8. He should have heard Ak when Kairav sent out a restraining order against him instead of jumping to conclusions because of his impulsive nature
9. He should have reprimanded Manju when she was trying to cut off Abhin from Abhirâs life despite it having a visibly detrimental effect on Abhirâs mental health. He was too much in his own la la land to see all these obvious things happening around him
Because of all this his character comes off selfish and situational. If things are in his and his momâs favour he would just do anything. His mummaâs boy attitude was also toxic. Its one thing to love your mother and another to always side with her even in her wrongs. The characters aggressive attitude towards others to defend his mother was toxic. If it is a truly loving maa-beta relationship there should be freedom in the relationship. He was never free in his relationship with Manju and I guess he learned the same and thus never gave Ak the freedom in their relationship either. He was controlling of her career, of her behaviour within his family and much more.
When Abhin entered, he was a breath of fresh air and totally opposite of what Abhim was. His character was liberating and it was new to watch and I guess that caused the audience to split. I also feel agar Abhim sahi mein strong character hota to ye split hota hi nahi kabhi, and everybody who watched the season from the start should have stayed loyal. But clearly aisa hua nhi.
Initially makers ne bhi dikhaya tha that Ak had yet to move on because they were hoping to show a faster reunion but seeing the love Abhinâs character was getting for his uniqueness is what I believed changed the course of the story.
Then wo do boats pe pair rakh ke sawar ho gaye but obviously its not possible to go too far like that. And now aisa situation aa gaya ki when they had to make a call and write Abhinâs exit, that split clearly costed them viewership and brought them to this point ki Gen4 lana parr raha ab.
Ab they are showing Abhim fighting against Manjuâs unrealistic demands finally jo usse bohot pehle karna chahiye tha ki show ki aisi halat hi na hoti.
Abhimâs character was not ruined over the course of the story, it was toxic since the very beginning.
Manju instead is a character they ruined with time. She was a naive lady who was very homely and unaware of the world because of all that she had gone through. Now they have made her a vile person with so much double standards and has become the epitome of selfishness
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