I think people should remember that neither Akshara and Abhi are innocent for what’s going on in their lives. They are both stubborn and at fault. Whatever is happening in their life is because both of them couldn’t balance family issues and their marriage. They both actually do have anger issues, it’s not Abhi alone. Remember when Abhi and Akshara argued about Manjiri’s divorce situation, Akshara took a stick and threw all those bricks around. Then she also slapped Arohi when she found out Manjiri was the victim in their accident. Akshara is very stubborn also, if she wants to do something, she will make sure no matter what happens, she achieves it. She was very stubborn in admitting her feelings for Abhi. Some people on here go like Abhi forced out the confession- what else was he to do when the girl does things that shows him she loves him - his birthday celebration, saving him from Rubi’s accusations when everyone told her not to, running into fire for him. Also, she would get sad and mad at him when he would follow her advice and ignore her. She was stubborn in trying to keep Abhir’s truth a secret, she did whatever it took to hide it until she finally got caught trying to run away with the medical reports. I don’t think their pain should be compared, they both made stupid decisions and are dealing with the consequences. I’m not listing all of Abhi’s stubborn and anger issues cause it’s already repeated in the show and forum every day.
Reality is this-
Abhi being a husband and doctor was very inhumane for divorcing his wife after miscarriage and blaming her for many deaths. For ignoring Akshara’s calls and not listening to her. For not searching for Akshara for those 7 months. For accepting Manish’s words that you both don’t belong together- when they both fought against everyone to be together and Abhi even asked Akshara for a second chance. For taking decisions in anger. For choosing family over his wife, when that was the very reason he always argued with her. For blindly always believing his mom and letting her irrational behavior getting in the way instead of stopping her.
Akshara was very stubborn for deciding to walk on roadside instead of going to her family. Also to not go back with her grandpa after finding out about her pregnancy. Because imagine this scenario- Akshra was already told her pregnancy is risky and her birth was very painful- imagine she died, she should have been prepared for that- she already told Abhi to choose their child over her. So she should have made sure Abhinav knew her family so in case she died, she should have made sure her son would be with her family and Abhi. Also, no one can tell me otherwise but Akshara in her pain and anger decided to make Abhinav the father. Because since she found out about her pregnancy, she kept saying my Abhi will be a dad, she was worried that Abhi is losing on his fatherhood dream when he kept saying she is enough.So how does a girl like that decide to make her child have a different father when her husband and her dreamed of this child together. Also, she said she was studying law because she knew one day Abhi would find out about Abhir and take him away so that means she knew Abhi would want his son- so why change the father and have your son go through custody battle later and not even that- why not prepare your son for this truth and battle since you knew it would come one day.
Akshara is the reason Abhir doesn’t want his biological father however Abhi is the reason Akshara made that decision. They both decided that two negatives would make a positive, well it didn’t instead it introduced more negative consequences.
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