Who exactly happy after custody? - Page 3

Originally posted by: sweta2005

after any co story no one becomes happy in few days,it takes time to settle some where specially to children where her own so called mother father makes their children as burden on them

Abhir still wants to be with the so called mother father ..this is what consent is about..and abhir still wants her , that's about it...it's abt what he wants and what will keep him happy.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Abhir ki aj ki happiness ke liye lifetime usse uska real parentage nahi chupana chahiye.

Akshara ne 7 saal pehle juth ki ret par short term happiness ka socha isliye aj yeh din aye , agar lifetime juth ka dher pade rehne dete toh isse bhi zyada damage hota jo kisi bhi parent ko bilkul nahi hone dena chahiye.
Without custody battle agar yeh ho gaya hota toh best tha.

It's not the right age to reveal....6 yrs old kid can't process everything

Maybe they should've listened to Abhi from the start and handled the situation better instead of threatening to keep him away from his son forever?

The irony is the Abhi spent six years without his son, but he was more than willing to be a weekend dad just to see his son. He respected everyone's relationship, but was denied his. Other people cause all the problems, but he is left holding the bag. He is the male and female lead of the show lol.

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

It's not the right age to reveal....6 yrs old kid can't process everything

Duniya mai baccho ko iss age par sahi tarike se unke parents ke divorce ka bataya jata hai, agar ek parent ki death ho jaye toh woh bhi bataya jata hai and agar unse judi koi badi baat ho tab woh bhi sahi tarike se bataya jata hai.

Bacche ko sach and transition ki taraf le jane ka “tarika” bahot important hota hai.

Agar ap ko itna suj-buj nahi hai ki kaise acche tarike se bacche ko badlav/transition ki taraf le Jaya jana chahiye toh apne ghar ki dadi/maa/chahi/bhabhi/kisi bhi experienced mother se baat karo lekin bina suj buj ke tarika na milne par bacche ko aise crush na karo.

Jab life kisi bade badlav ki taraf ja rahi ho tab mother hath pakad kar bacche ko dusre kinare ki taraf le jati hai kyunki chota baccha usually maa se sabse zyada attach hota hai.

Court ke decision ke baad abhir ki zindgi bade badlav ki taraf ja rahi thi, tab Akshara ne apne bete ka hath pakad kar dusre kinare ki taraf le jane ke badle pura crush kar ke dusre kinare bheja , Akshara ne bacche ko crush kar ke jo zakhm diya uski wajah se baccha dusre kinare apni sudh-budh gawa kar pohcha.

Jitni baar Akshara ko as a mother dekhti hu utni baar uss par thuuuu thuuu thuuuu karne ka mann karta hai.

Yaha toh mai day-care bhejne ke liye bhi mere bete ko best possible way mai mentally ready kar rahi hu ki usko aisa na lage ki uski mumma ne usko akela chod diya hai and dusri taraf Akshara custody kya haari, itne bade badlav ke liye bacche ko kaise zakhm de kar sab kuch kiya and aisa jataya uss bacche ko ki now they are not with him.

Physically ap bacche ke sath ho na ho lekin bacche ko kabhi yeh nahi jataya jata ki we don’t need you.

Originally posted by: yellomellow

Maybe they should've listened to Abhi from the start and handled the situation better instead of threatening to keep him away from his son forever?

The irony is the Abhi spent six years without his son, but he was more than willing to be a weekend dad just to see his son. He respected everyone's relationship, but was denied his. Other people cause all the problems, but he is left holding the bag. He is the male and female lead of the show lol.

The result would still be the same. Abhir would still land up in bh bec manjari wouldn't settle for anything less and he is manjaris puppet.

If abhim was willing to be the weekend dad why did he fight the case ? He was the one who filed custody case then put it on hold then manish initiated it and manjari consented , not akshara . Akshara was willing to find another solution but before she cud say anything he said "let the court decide " . He isn't innocent in all this since he wanted it and he is also taking pride in winning . If he doesn't want it he can give up the custody who's stopping him? What's stopping him from telling abhir the truth that akshnav lied to him?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

It’s all about “Tarika” . Ap bacche ko kaise transition ki taraf le jate ho, apka tarika kaisa hai, ap ko kitna sahi tarike se bacche ko sach ki taraf le jaana aata hai “.

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Physically ap bacche ke sath ho na ho lekin bacche ko kabhi yeh nahi jataya jata ki we don’t need you.

sahi kaha TARIKA hota hai....jo abhi and uski mamma mein hai hi nahi...WD ki baat chodo...abhinav ko dhamkaane ki baat chodo...married akshu ko propose karne ki baar chodo...kasauli mein akshu ke ghar per ghus jaane ki baat chodo...In sab ke TAAREKE ki baat na bhi karo....

abhir to BH mein hai na...kaun sa TARI+KA dikhaya hai mamma bete ne....bina abhir ko sune use blame kar diya and kaha sorry bolo...bol diya unintentional hi cake spoil kiya hai to bhi sorry bolo...yeh TARIKA hai....blame kar do.....

TARIKA....abhir ko kaha hai uske mamma papa se milne jaana hai..but shopping le kar gayee...

TARIKA...sahi kaha....ab abhir ki sole custody ke baad...bhi abhir ko apna na bana saka uska biological father..... TRIKA...

Originally posted by: Krinya

The result would still be the same. Abhir would still land up in bh bec manjari wouldn't settle for anything less and he is manjaris puppet.

If abhim was willing to be the weekend dad why did he fight the case ? He was the one who filed custody case then put it on hold then manish initiated it and manjari consented , not akshara . Akshara was willing to find another solution but before she cud say anything he said "let the court decide " . He isn't innocent in all this since he wanted it and he is also taking pride in winning . If he doesn't want it he can give up the custody who's stopping him? What's stopping him from telling abhir the truth that akshnav lied to him?

he has clearly said this to akshu that he is thankful to his mom for the win of Abhir;s custody!

Originally posted by: India_TV

sahi kaha TARIKA hota hai....jo abhi and uski mamma mein hai hi nahi...WD ki baat chodo...abhinav ko dhamkaane ki baat chodo...married akshu ko propose karne ki baar chodo...kasauli mein akshu ke ghar per ghus jaane ki baat chodo...In sab ke TAAREKE ki baat na bhi karo....

abhir to BH mein hai na...kaun sa TARI+KA dikhaya hai mamma bete ne....bina abhir ko sune use blame kar diya and kaha sorry bolo...bol diya unintentional hi cake spoil kiya hai to bhi sorry bolo...yeh TARIKA hai....blame kar do.....

TARIKA....abhir ko kaha hai uske mamma papa se milne jaana hai..but shopping le kar gayee...

TARIKA...sahi kaha....ab abhir ki sole custody ke baad...bhi abhir ko apna na bana saka uska biological father..... TRIKA...

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Manjari ka tarika is worst but jab court ke decision ke baad bacche ki zindgi badlav/transition ki taraf jaa rahi thi tab abhir ke sath physically na reh kar bhi uski maa jo uske bahot close thi woh uska support system bann sakti thi lekin bacche ko yeh jataya ki we don’t want you so ab baccha apni maa se kuch bolna tak nahi chahta and hamesha uska yehi yaad aata dikhate hai ki his parents doesn’t want him aur hua usko crush karne ke tarike ki wajah se.

Yeh tarika to akshu and abhinav ke liye bad hai...they showed themselves bad so that abhir can settle well in BH...I m not in support of what akshu and abhnav did...but this cold have made ot good for abhi and his mamma...

but what has abhidone...after bringing abhir to BH? I dont want to talk about manjari at all...abhi ko custody mili hai..abhi abhir ka biological father hai...kya kiya hai usne? simple se scenario mein abhir ka saath dena to chodo...usse poocha bhi nahi and use blame kar diya...kya tareeka????