Exactly…kids will act as kids, yet we question parenting of Akshnav (as I saw posts about them being bad parents) and see posts praising Poppy to be a good father just because he talks well to kids? Akshnav have also given great upbringing to Abhir, so its very unfair. Parents are also human, and can make mistakes. But If Ruhi does something wrong, not Poppy’s responsibility, he is not the parent, its the mother’s responsibility; if she understands and accepts things finally, Poppy is the real God; if Abhir is a good boy, it’s not Akshnav’s upbringing, it’s Poppy’s blood?
As per this post Birlas toxic hi nahi hain? We have got two wife abusers, then over achievers who force their children to act like robots and impose career paths on them, a mother who till date takes impromptu decisions for her son, a child born out of an EMA, and much more. And still we have to ask ourselves whether its really toxic or not? And it was completely a topic you started bro, but when someone pointed how the family is toxic, you are countering with how Goenka family is toxic. Don’t you think that clearly shows that we don’t have points to defend the Birlas on their behavior and need to justify them using the Goenkas? The elder Birlas have been controlling parents, be it Harsh who tried his best to marry Abhim with Arohi just because he thought they are at par with each other, or him trying to force Abhim to interact with that minister girl; or be it Mahima who put way to high expectations of her kids, unnecessarily comparing them with others, driving out Anisha, and other things too.
So yeah, I do feel Abhim does get a Godly treatment here, either people praising him directly or praising something which does not deserve praise, like the Birla family here. No offence to you bro, but I feel this post is biased when we clearly know both Birlas and Goenkas are extremely toxic households. And neither should be used to justify the others.

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