Is Ruhi stuck in a toxic environment? - Page 4

Exactly…kids will act as kids, yet we question parenting of Akshnav (as I saw posts about them being bad parents) and see posts praising Poppy to be a good father just because he talks well to kids? Akshnav have also given great upbringing to Abhir, so its very unfair. Parents are also human, and can make mistakes. But If Ruhi does something wrong, not Poppy’s responsibility, he is not the parent, its the mother’s responsibility; if she understands and accepts things finally, Poppy is the real God; if Abhir is a good boy, it’s not Akshnav’s upbringing, it’s Poppy’s blood?

As per this post Birlas toxic hi nahi hain? We have got two wife abusers, then over achievers who force their children to act like robots and impose career paths on them, a mother who till date takes impromptu decisions for her son, a child born out of an EMA, and much more. And still we have to ask ourselves whether its really toxic or not? And it was completely a topic you started bro, but when someone pointed how the family is toxic, you are countering with how Goenka family is toxic. Don’t you think that clearly shows that we don’t have points to defend the Birlas on their behavior and need to justify them using the Goenkas? The elder Birlas have been controlling parents, be it Harsh who tried his best to marry Abhim with Arohi just because he thought they are at par with each other, or him trying to force Abhim to interact with that minister girl; or be it Mahima who put way to high expectations of her kids, unnecessarily comparing them with others, driving out Anisha, and other things too.

So yeah, I do feel Abhim does get a Godly treatment here, either people praising him directly or praising something which does not deserve praise, like the Birla family here. No offence to you bro, but I feel this post is biased when we clearly know both Birlas and Goenkas are extremely toxic households. And neither should be used to justify the others.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Exactly…kids will act as kids, yet we question parenting of Akshnav (as I saw posts about them being bad parents) and see posts praising Poppy to be a good father just because he talks well to kids? Akshnav have also given great upbringing to Abhir, so its very unfair. Parents are also human, and can make mistakes. But If Ruhi does something wrong, not Poppy’s responsibility, he is not the parent, its the mother’s responsibility; if she understands and accepts things finally, Poppy is the real God; if Abhir is a good boy, it’s not Akshnav’s upbringing, it’s Poppy’s blood?

As per this post Birlas toxic hi nahi hain? We have got two wife abusers, then over achievers who force their children to act like robots and impose career paths on them, a mother who till date takes impromptu decisions for her son, a child born out of an EMA, and much more. And still we have to ask ourselves whether its really toxic or not? And it was completely a topic you started bro, but when someone pointed how the family is toxic, you are countering with how Goenka family is toxic. Don’t you think that clearly shows that we don’t have points to defend the Birlas on their behavior and need to justify them using the Goenkas? The elder Birlas have been controlling parents, be it Harsh who tried his best to marry Abhim with Arohi just because he thought they are at par with each other, or him trying to force Abhim to interact with that minister girl; or be it Mahima who put way to high expectations of her kids, unnecessarily comparing them with others, driving out Anisha, and other things too.

So yeah, I do feel Abhim does get a Godly treatment here, either people praising him directly or praising something which does not deserve praise, like the Birla family here. No offence to you bro, but I feel this post is biased when we clearly know both Birlas and Goenkas are extremely toxic households. And neither should be used to justify the others.

Which post is not biased now.

Recently I just wanted to talk about how Akshnav could have tackled the situation with Abhir better people get hysterical more than Manjari got when Neil Died so can imagine the level of biasedness.

This post is simple people are claiming that Birla house is so bad for Abhir but we see Ruhi getting a normal childhood there I personally feel that's biasedness.

Rest we can always Agree to Disagree.

As i have said before always open for healthy discussions.

It's you and I feel you will get it and you too know how every other post be it in any tone if it's slightly against Akshnav or Nav gets derailed to WD, Abhimanyu abuser and all.

See Abhimanyu isn't paying my bills so honestly I don't even care if you call him names but when I am talking about a topic/ a scene I expect a better response on the point talks.

Last two episodes Akshnav did a very bad job concerning their Kid. Doesn't make them bad parents but they could have done a better job not for Abhimanyu but for the peace of Abhir.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Goenka siblings bonding post leap came at cost of Birla so much for bonding then

A family lost a son, a brother for them to learn hey let's be eachothers support. That's funny

😆Lol, har story mein there will be a turning point for a character.

Waise toh every show and gen has lost brother, sister, mother everyone but these things are important for story to move forward. It's not like Neil's death had anything to do with Goenkas. It wad a tragedy and let's not even start if akshu should be held responsible for it.. Because I say no, you say yes and we keep writing paras about it... Yaar bohot posts mein we have discussed that.

For Arohi, it was Neil's death, Akshu learnt that marriage needs respect as much as it needs love, and Kairav learnt.... Umm... Woh jaane do 😆

Kairav learnt plastic surgery is a thing and did a crash course on “Kitne gande expressions de sakte hain hum in 6 years?”

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

😆Lol, har story mein there will be a turning point for a character.

Waise toh every show and gen has lost brother, sister, mother everyone but these things are important for story to move forward. It's not like Neil's death had anything to do with Goenkas. It wad a tragedy and let's not even start if akshu should be held responsible for it.. Because I say no, you say yes and we keep writing paras about it... Yaar bohot posts mein we have discussed that.

For Arohi, it was Neil's death, Akshu learnt that marriage needs respect as much as it needs love, and Kairav learnt.... Umm... Woh jaane do 😆

I believe that turning point applies for all characters. They did grow up.

And Ruhi too is having a happy childhood at Birla House so we cannot claim that Birla house will be a hell house for Abhir.

Originally posted by: Cookermaichane

Kya list nikala hai 👏🤣

Why not. 3 divorce , 1 suicide , 1 murder 😆

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Kairav learnt plastic surgery is a thing and did a crash course on “Kitne gande expressions de sakte hain hum in 6 years?”

Ha yaar Maine wooh clip dekha 🤣

Itne overacting kaun karta hai bhai 😆

Transformation of Kairav Goenka from tadpole to flatpole, such character development 😌

Originally posted by: Krinya

Why not. 3 divorce , 1 suicide , 1 murder 😆

Yaar akshara ki tarf se tumko case ladna thaa 🤣pakka jeet jaate wooh 😆

Originally posted by: Cookermaichane

Yaar akshara ki tarf se tumko case ladna thaa 🤣pakka jeet jaate wooh 😆

Akshara will also win. They made her lose so that she can win later. Heroine fighting her case gets the max trp 😆