Abhimanyu is a better parent

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Abhimanyu is a better parent. Period.

He talks to kids very nicely, in an understanding tone, and explains to them the complex situation in an easy way.

He doesn't manipulate them and self victimized himself in front of the kids

Abhimanyu Birla is a better parent coz he is a better human. He dosnt lie however difficult the situation is. He believes kids are pure, unbiased and smart enough to know truth if explained properly.

He has mellowed with age and he dsnt let his temper take over his decision making skills. He is rational and talks to the children as equals.

Thats the reason Ruhi is attached to him and Abhir automatically was drawn to him for all his issues, medical as well as abt his identity.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Abhimanyu Birla is a better parent coz he is a better human. He dosnt lie however difficult the situation is. He believes kids are pure, unbiased and smart enough to know truth if explained properly.

He has mellowed with age and he dsnt let his temper take over his decision making skills. He is rational and talks to the children as equals.

Thats the reason Ruhi is attached to him and Abhir automatically was drawn to him for all his issues, medical as well as abt his identity.

Agreed he has learnt from his mistakes and mellowed down.

Both kids trust him a lot.

@bold Indeed. I am sad how they told Abhir the truth. That's the worse way to inform him. The so called self righteous people made sure Abhir hates Abhi as a father.

I wonder as FL will Akshara ever realise how she is behaving and how vengeful she has become.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Abhimanyu Birla is a better parent coz he is a better human. He dosnt lie however difficult the situation is. He believes kids are pure, unbiased and smart enough to know truth if explained properly.

He has mellowed with age and he dsnt let his temper take over his decision making skills. He is rational and talks to the children as equals.

Thats the reason Ruhi is attached to him and Abhir automatically was drawn to him for all his issues, medical as well as abt his identity.

A better human? Not quite sure that that's true. He was still making rash decisions until recently lol so not sure what you mean by "doesn't let his temper take over his decision making skills".

What I admire most about him is his calm and composed demeanor when dealing with Ruhi or Abhir. Unlike others who create unnecessary melodrama, he has the remarkable ability to explain even the most conplex situations to the kids with ease and simplicity. This displays his maturity and makes me believe that he is a truly good parent. He prioritizes his children's well-being above all else and doesn't resort to manipulation or self-victimization in their presence.♥️

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

A better human? Not quite sure that that's true. He was still making rash decisions until recently lol so not sure what you mean by "doesn't let his temper take over his decision making skills".

If Abhimanyu is a bad human then so is the mother of Abhir.

I mean hit and run, constant lying, not thinking of the consequences of your actions and it's impact on others, not having basic courtesy, forgery, having fake passports overall part criminal.

So let's agree that Abhir has bad humans as parents.

Poor Kid

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

What I admire most about him is his calm and composed demeanor when dealing with Ruhi or Abhir. Unlike others who create unnecessary melodrama, he has the remarkable ability to explain even the most conplex situations to the kids with ease and simplicity. This displays his maturity and makes me believe that he is a truly good parent. He prioritizes his children's well-being above all else and doesn't resort to manipulation or self-victimization in their presence.♥️

Agreed.

And that's why as it's a fictional show i make judgement on what's being shown at present instead of judging basis the past actions.

Totally a fan of his way of parenting.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

If Abhimanyu is a bad human then so is the mother of Abhir.

I mean hit and run, constant lying, not thinking of the consequences of your actions and it's impact on others, not having basic courtesys, forgery, having fame passports overall part criminal.

So let's agree that Abhir has bad humans as parents.

Poor Kid

Yes I feel Akshara is not perfect either she also has exibited the ability to do mistakes,manipulative behaviour,gas lighting,selfishness,self-centeredness..So both of them are flawed..in my opinion, atleast Abhimanyu is trying to be a better human by giving his best to be a good father..he is constantly working on his flaws after the leap and shows proper character growth..which includes being more understanding,working on anger issues,impulsiveness by being calm and composed,being open to co-parenting and not being self-centered,prioritising the kids and their emotions,well being..Just my opinion..

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

A better human? Not quite sure that that's true. He was still making rash decisions until recently lol so not sure what you mean by "doesn't let his temper take over his decision making skills".

Plz, explain what you are not sure. N I will try to clear you doubts.

I find Abhimanyu Birla to be a better human than tthose who hide an innocent infant's identity for 6yrs and once his real father comes to know still refuse to acknowledge. Now when the court has summoned them to clean their act they are still in denial. If Abhimanyu has filed an FIR for wrongful doing against AK, Akshara would be in jail. But he dsnt even think of it.

No accha Aadmi will ever support in hiding a child's identity just coz the mother keeps insisting on it. Also shamlessly keep repeating it in front of the real father but when he needs help of Dr. Abhimanyu then fold hands n say he is your son too, shamelessly. And next moment agree to run back to Kasauli so that ABhir dsnt bond with Docman.

If Abhimanyu Birla has any trace of his original temper AK n her pati would have been in jail long ago. Instead makers are very slowly showing us the true colors of Liars Vs those who prefer to speak the truth however bitter it is.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Plz, explain what you are not sure. N I will try to clear you doubts.

I find Abhimanyu Birla to be a better human than tthose who hide an innocent infant's identity for 6yrs and once his real father comes to know still refuse to acknowledge. Now when the court has summoned them to clean their act they are still in denial. If Abhimanyu has filed an FIR for wrongful doing against AK, Akshara would be in jail. But he dsnt even think of it.

No accha Aadmi will ever support in hiding a child's identity just coz the mother keeps insisting on it. Also shamlessly keep repeating it in front of the real father but when he needs help of Dr. Abhimanyu then fold hands n say he is your son too, shamelessly. And next moment agree to run back to Kasauli so that ABhir dsnt bond with Docman.

If Abhimanyu Birla has any trace of his original temper AK n her pati would have been in jail long ago. Instead makers are very slowly showing us the true colors of Liars Vs those who prefer to speak the truth however bitter it is.

Honestly, the achaa admi repetition is getting old now lol. Abhimanyu is a good human, but better I still don't agree with. Perhaps it's because of his mistakes in his past and being unable to stand up for his wife in front of his mother, who he claimed to love like crazy. It leaves a poor taste yunno?