Why is it so hard for many of us to trust Akshara's actions? - Page 4

Very nicely written! Though I don’t fully agree with all your points I see where you come from. I differ when u say Akshara did right by leaving Abhimanyu. Yes he was 200% wrong in accusing her for Sirat and signing divorce papers - but all his other questions were totally on point (timing worst though). But let’s remember - both were not in sane mind that time. I’m not defending him - I have blasted him for his actions and especially not going after her during next 7 months. He failed as a husband there (he went to Goenkas to check on her and was calm only when news of her being found came). But let’s come to Akshara - did she also not fail as a wife that day? Did she try to think - my husband and Birlas are going through grief of 3 deaths and not thinking straight. Let me give some space - go to Goenkas - and come back when things settle. If Abhimanyu left her in most vulnerable time, didn’t she do the same? I have no issues with calling out abhimanyu - I’ve done it myself- but call out her too then. No special treatment. And forget that horrid day. Did she think once after few months to talk again? - 1 phone call by own and 1 call due to force by Abhinav - and she decides I’ll give father rights to Abhinav? What Abhimanyu did - it was in total grief, in total anger, after suffering a huge loss. But what Akshara did for 6 years - in total awareness, purposefully. In her own words after 2 calls she decided his fate as a father. That’s the difference. Also she didn’t stop after 6 years and still trashing him 24/7.

I personally as a viewer can never accept Akshara Abhinav and Abhinav as a character doesn’t warrant any attention from me as he isn’t worth it. Personal opinion.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

currently i am angry on her and in team abhirmanyu 😆 the day on which she flips i will be back on team abhira 😆

Abhira stans are nothing, if not self aware. 😄

In fact the makers also realise the impact of the chemistry Harshad and Pranali can create on screen. Ek din, ek random hug daal diya tha and the entire fandom lost it. Lol.

https://twitter.com/pnjknkh/status/1675687130478116864?s=20

Chalo look at her dialogues . Here she says akeli toh main hun. Nahi abhinav akela toh merw baccha hai 😆 in her grief she started calling herself alone.

AK is people pleaser and puts all her love /focus on one person to make them centre of her life to the point she will ruin herself is accurate.

But I also have another theory as I had read somewhere and kinda make sense too. Of course writers didn't put this much effort to sketch her character 😂😂 its we online audience writing thesis on her

Probably how she was treated since birth - thanks to aro ka emotional blackmail and goenkas being useless at defending three kids, she developed this habit of justifying herself at every step. She has to show her decisions are correct no matter how it impacts others, and when other people lash out she will sulk and hit back. But there is no self realisation on her part, since the start of this gen. This is a pattern which she has repeated with abhi a lot of times. She has to justify as the best sister to aro despite her being hurtful, at the cost of abhi Manju when they were directly impacted by aro. She has to be the best daughter in law even though the family is broken with too many scars. She has to bring harsh into family and try to mend the relationship when the man was abusive since start. When abhi lashed out at her he was the bad man, but she never tried to understand why he did so.

Regarding white day too- I watched it for the time yesterday. There was two women wailing at home Manju and aro. They have lost their son and husband. Abhi is a zombie completely in shock. AK herself lost her twins. Yet she has to justify how she's not at fault for neil - even when none uttered it when they brought the body. Everyone kept telling her to give others space but she don't have it. That's when Manju and aro lashed out. Who knows if she had really stated in her room, let them grieve, grieved herself too for her kids, things would have been way different. She went to a bus and got another man as husband, since the day she has to justify by saying again and again and again how they have the perfect family, how he's the actual dad and how it's abhir is their miracle. As if they have conceived the child 🤣

Now post this leap too - she has to justify her idea of family, she has to justify how she's best mother and can have abhir all to herself. She was so confident that she won't let abhi touch abhir, then she's like no you can have him and we will tell him truth. If she was so confident in three tier parenting but deep down she wanted to be successful in her own idea. Now that court has shattered the illusion, she's sad and broken cause she failed to justify herself to her own conscience. If she really wanted to tell abhir truth the court judgement wouldn't have mattered at all. She knows abhi isn't someone who will keep abhir away. But she wanted to win for her own self. She was so confident.

Navra cannot be compared to naitik akshara. Yes akshara was a family person and respected everyone, but she knew where not to meddle and actually listened to feedbacks from her family. There was a track of orphan kid but akshara talked to her family first and then went with naitik to the slum to meet the kid. There was so many small things she did the keep the families together. What she did mostly was giving time to things . Not like this modern ak jumping to justify herself and twist things further

Originally posted by: LoveHC

Very nicely written! Though I don’t fully agree with all your points I see where you come from. I differ when u say Akshara did right by leaving Abhimanyu. Yes he was 200% wrong in accusing her for Sirat and signing divorce papers - but all his other questions were totally on point (timing worst though). But let’s remember - both were not in sane mind that time. I’m not defending him - I have blasted him for his actions and especially not going after her during next 7 months. He failed as a husband there (he went to Goenkas to check on her and was calm only when news of her being found came). But let’s come to Akshara - did she also not fail as a wife that day? Did she try to think - my husband and Birlas are going through grief of 3 deaths and not thinking straight. Let me give some space - go to Goenkas - and come back when things settle. If Abhimanyu left her in most vulnerable time, didn’t she do the same? I have no issues with calling out abhimanyu - I’ve done it myself- but call out her too then. No special treatment. And forget that horrid day. Did she think once after few months to talk again? - 1 phone call by own and 1 call due to force by Abhinav - and she decides I’ll give father rights to Abhinav? What Abhimanyu did - it was in total grief, in total anger, after suffering a huge loss. But what Akshara did for 6 years - in total awareness, purposefully. In her own words after 2 calls she decided his fate as a father. That’s the difference. Also she didn’t stop after 6 years and still trashing him 24/7.

I personally as a viewer can never accept Akshara Abhinav and Abhinav as a character doesn’t warrant any attention from me as he isn’t worth it. Personal opinion.

Thank you :)

I get what you are trying to say here. And I agree that they were both in extremely unfortunate circumstances, however in my view Akshara needed Abhimanyu more critically that day. And he not only let her down but also completely broke her trust on him. It's because of that I say that Akshara can move on if she really wants to. (Logically Abhimanyu should also move on and give us some respite from this headache 🤭, but as long as Harshad keeps looking at Pranali with those mesmerized eyes, hard chance of that happening for us. 🥲). Jokes aside, I genuinely believe everyone has the right to move on, even if nothing dramatic happens and you simply no longer feel for the other person.

Having said that I also realise that Abhimanyu as a character has been dragged through the mud for what he did, additionally he is making efforts to redeem himself in his own eyes. Akshara on the other hand, remains completely oblivious to the pain she has caused and there isn't even a hint at her redemption as a character. Hence, it's easier to understand and sympathize with Abhimanyu's POV as of now.

Regarding Akshara Abhinav, I wouldn't mind giving them a chance if the writers present their story well, but I do not see any romantic chemistry up until now. So I don't know how will they take this forward.

I feel very neutral about Abhinav as a character. He just feels like a filler to me. We do not know anything about him apart from the fact that he is a decent man. It's such a one dimensional character. See this is what I mean, when I say this is just sad, lazy writing for a character which is supposed to replace the male lead of Abhimanyu Birla played by Harshad. 🤦🏻 Make it make sense, writers!

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

https://twitter.com/pnjknkh/status/1675687130478116864?s=20

Chalo look at her dialogues . Here she says akeli toh main hun. Nahi abhinav akela toh merw baccha hai 😆 in her grief she started calling herself alone.

Mujhe yeh sad lgta agar verdict se phele attitude nahi hota par ab it's funny be it AK, BP & KV sab next level attitude mein the.

Ab yeh phir se case open ho, Abhi wapas dede, Abhira hi ek ho jaaye matlb nahi hai mujhe do din ki khushi mein pawri ho rhi hai 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I agree Akshara needed him most that day and he failed as husband and doctor that day. Let’s rewind a little - he gave her water, asked her to go to room to rest. Did she listen? Forget that too. May I ask why is support always expected 1 sided? - did she attempt to heal Abhimanyu from childhood trauma due to Harshvardhan? Abhimanyu went out of the way to know her trauma. She coldly told him I don’t want to know your family past during tilak. Instead of healing him she told him - You are like your father. When he spoke nonsense after being riled up she went away to Goenkas. Abhimanyu has always kept away his hurt for her and healed her. He didn’t even realize for days that he won’t be able to be a father - he was so engrossed in Aksharas pain of not being able to be a mother. Got blackmailed but didn’t want to tell her before he found solution. ONCE - ONCE in life he acted out in his pain - losing 3 lives is no joke - and she for a change couldn’t handle him? Once he prioritised own pain and he’s the worst human and monster in the world?

As to 2nd chances in love - I’m very old school and prefer original couple UNLESS one partner is so so wrong that it’s ok to move on. Don’t think it applies to Akshara Abhimanyu. Personal view.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

https://twitter.com/pnjknkh/status/1675687130478116864?s=20

Chalo look at her dialogues . Here she says akeli toh main hun. Nahi abhinav akela toh merw baccha hai 😆 in her grief she started calling herself alone.

Truth is coming out slowly

Originally posted by: LoveHC

I agree Akshara needed him most that day and he failed as husband and doctor that day. Let’s rewind a little - he gave her water, asked her to go to room to rest. Did she listen? Forget that too. May I ask why is support always expected 1 sided? - did she attempt to heal Abhimanyu from childhood trauma due to Harshvardhan? Abhimanyu went out of the way to know her trauma. She coldly told him I don’t want to know your family past during tilak. Instead of healing him she told him - You are like your father. When he spoke nonsense after being riled up she went away to Goenkas. Abhimanyu has always kept away his hurt for her and healed her. He didn’t even realize for days that he won’t be able to be a father - he was so engrossed in Aksharas pain of not being able to be a mother. Got blackmailed but didn’t want to tell her before he found solution. ONCE - ONCE in life he acted out in his pain - losing 3 lives is no joke - and she for a change couldn’t handle him? Once he prioritised own pain and he’s the worst human and monster in the world?

As to 2nd chances in love - I’m very old school and prefer original couple UNLESS one partner is so so wrong that it’s ok to move on. Don’t think it applies to Akshara Abhimanyu. Personal view.

I completely understand your frustration, trust me. And this is coming from someone who only watches this sorry excuse of a show because Harshad plays Abhimanyu. But I will still maintain that on that particular day, Abhimanyu's anger got the better of him. Akshara, how much of a flawed character she must be did love and trust Abhimanyu immensely. He kind of made her believe that day that she shouldn't have. But that's just my take on things.

Well, I am an Abhira stan through and through. In fact to tell you the truth, I am just a Harshad stan. If he goes, I go. (Dude, I have still not been able to watch season 8 and 9 of The Office, since Michael leaves in season 7 and I was a huge Michael fan 🥺) I am willing to give a chance to Akshara and Abhinav, because I faithfully believe that script (good writing) surpasses everything but that's too much to expect from DKP. Lol.

Ditto. I’m a Harshad fan through and through and he has spoilt me so much I haven’t ever watched and maybe won’t watch any non Harshad TV show. Just like u I’m here till he’s here. It’s frustrating he’s relying only on TV and he’s nowhere close to being rewarded for trusting Rajan shahi for this show😒. His caliber is something else and I truly hope he keeps option of quality finite web series open. Not all are only abuse and not all have too many bold scenes. He has to give them a chance and TV doesn’t deserve him.