With an intent to close one debate - Page 7

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Honestly speaking many here are saying same thing but no one has answered in a simple yes or no

Coz we all know the answer will be no.

coz ur ques is wrong .

If I'm in aksharas shoes I wouldn't be doing a lot of stuff right from the day this story started . I wouldn't be licking arohis feet either or defend her or protect her by lying. So I don't see myself in this situation at all. I am not a sucker for family , nobody would call me for help , I won't go out to help anyone in pregnancy, I won't fight goons , I won't ask anyone to fight goons , I won't go to the doctor without my husband in case of complications, I'll call my family for help if I'm in trouble . But inspite of all that, I dont see akshu wrong here ..

Whatever she did post the divorce was justified ...she decided to stay away frm abhim after giving him the last chance. She gave a chance to abhin , she gave him the father's rights, she married abhin.everything was fine given her situation & the trauma she faced.

When you have a family like Goenkas, a stranger is 10 times better option. 🤪

Originally posted by: Krinya

coz ur ques is wrong .

If I'm in aksharas shoes I wouldn't be doing a lot of stuff right from the day this story started . I wouldn't be licking arohis feet either or defend her or protect her by lying. So I don't see myself in this situation at all. I am not a sucker for family , nobody would call me for help , I won't go out to help anyone in pregnancy, I won't fight goons , I won't ask anyone to fight goons , I won't go to the doctor without my husband in case of complications, I'll call my family for help if I'm in trouble . But inspite of all that, I dont see akshu wrong here ..

Whatever she did post the divorce was justified ...she decided to stay away frm abhim after giving him the last chance. She gave a chance to abhin , she gave him the father's rights, she married abhin.everything was fine given her situation & the trauma she faced.

Originally posted by: Krinya

coz ur ques is wrong .

If I'm in aksharas shoes I wouldn't be doing a lot of stuff right from the day this story started . I wouldn't be licking arohis feet either or defend her or protect her by lying. So I don't see myself in this situation at all. I am not a sucker for family , nobody would call me for help , I won't go out to help anyone in pregnancy, I won't fight goons , I won't ask anyone to fight goons , I won't go to the doctor without my husband in case of complications, I'll call my family for help if I'm in trouble . But inspite of all that, I dont see akshu wrong here ..

Whatever she did post the divorce was justified ...she decided to stay away frm abhim after giving him the last chance. She gave a chance to abhin , she gave him the father's rights, she married abhin.everything was fine given her situation & the trauma she faced.

I don't think my question is wrong.

First my initial post was quite clear that stating abhimanyu was a stranger too just to retriate someone who is saying she married abhinav the stranger is not feasible. Give better points there are many.

Second i am simply asking why didn't she go back to her family. She is clearly not holding any grudge from them. Also, season 1&2 i don't know but after watching this gen. Goenkas doesn't seem so bad to me.

I was all akshara did what seems best at that time but seeing these episodes where she was all like mere bhaiya best, meri family best for another girl is quite contrary to her initial decisions.

Why didn't she asked badepapa to be her confidant. Stay away from birlas all you want but the struggles she chooses and everything was not good for her health and the baby - Isn't this what Abhimanyu meant tumlo padi hi nahi hai.

I used to justify her actions and this is the first time I am questioning them coz look at how she is with all now.

Due to this behaviour her struggles have become her doing only.

And by saying this neither am I demeaning Abhinav nor saying what abhimanyu did was not wrong.

I don’t understand the point of the debate either. Whatever happened between ak and AbhiM was their own doings. AbhiN was only trying to help her and with good intentions. No one forced Ak to stay with AbhiN or marry him. No one forced AbhiN too. Bottom line, They both were consenting adults and did what they thought was best for them and the child at the moment. AbhiN tried to convince her to contact her family and AbhiM and so Ak tried but it didn’t work out. Toh kya ab woh baar baar Ak se yahi kehta rehta? In the end, it was all Ak’s choice and decision and he respected that. Simple!

We all like to think k hum hote toh kya karte or hum to aisa kabhi hi nahi karte. Or this could never be me etc etc. but the reality is that we don’t know for sure! Or at least idk. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Sometimes circumstances can make us do something that we could have never imagined. Kabhi kabhi ek stranger ki help accept karna zyada asaan aur sahi Lagta hai in comparison to your own family members.
And sadly kindness is soo underrated these days that we have to think and analyze so much before accepting someone’s kind gestures. 😔

Speaking for myself, idk maybe I would be hesitant to accept a stranger’s help initially like AK was. But then AK was also shown to have met him a couple of times before she decided to go with him and trust him. So if I was in Ak’s situation and in that state of mind, maybe I would accept the help too. But then again, I don’t know because I have never been in that situation and God forbids that I ever am. You may differ but that’s just how I perceive myself. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Just being part of discussion since everyone's still asking and wondering why a so-called stranger - so just going with the flow..😆

I am bored with this debate too but it does piss me off when blame is shifted on Abhinav for everything that's happening in Abhira's life/relationship.

Abhinav should consider hiring me permanent lawyer😆

Originally posted by: janecastle

When you have a family like Goenkas, a stranger is 10 times better option. 🤪

Again this. When the family is so bad why not stop Muskan to make this mistake. Why hosting the whole family in your abode.

Why go stay there for so long.

Originally posted by: Krinya

coz ur ques is wrong .

If I'm in aksharas shoes I wouldn't be doing a lot of stuff right from the day this story started . I wouldn't be licking arohis feet either or defend her or protect her by lying. So I don't see myself in this situation at all. I am not a sucker for family , nobody would call me for help , I won't go out to help anyone in pregnancy, I won't fight goons , I won't ask anyone to fight goons , I won't go to the doctor without my husband in case of complications, I'll call my family for help if I'm in trouble . But inspite of all that, I dont see akshu wrong here ..

Whatever she did post the divorce was justified ...she decided to stay away frm abhim after giving him the last chance. She gave a chance to abhin , she gave him the father's rights, she married abhin.everything was fine given her situation & the trauma she faced.

Also, about Akshara's pre leap doings her prioritising aruhi etc.

See doing things for your siblings however stupid that seems is somewhere fine. It's their relationship.

I won't be doing that either, i won't date abhimanyu either i will get pissed off on how strongly he came with his love. But that is something that depends person to person.

Her marrying abhinav isn't my point. I watched it, i made countless posts too on how it's not right after she left udaipur but 6-7 months of living together.

But we can't deny how she met abhinav, did she ask his help? No. He clearly intrude her space and denies to leave I agree humanity and everything but it is what is. I would not go and live with this guy.

When she clearly left for Priya(her friends place) why not stay there.

Obviously it happened coz story kaise hoti, toofani raat bhi dikhani thi and all. But here we are debating while the character is dancing claiming what a great family goenkas are. Yet she chose to struggle on toofani raat. Does that make sense?

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Again this. When the family is so bad why not stop Muskan to make this mistake. Why hosting the whole family in your abode.

Why go stay there for so long.

Because she's not the one to decide for grown up people like Muskaan and Kairav. And Akshara is forgiving to a fault. When she can let Abhimanyu and Manjari stay after all what they did, then Goenkas can also be accommodated.

This is the part that never made sense to me.... whatever we may think as an audience about goenkas as a ckt AK doesn't seem to have any grievances against them...she didn't say a word to them

She's having a good time bonding with her family... she's stated her grievances to all birlas but never had anything to say to her family.... believe it or not BP went to get her, swarna was super pissed off at AbhiM the white day, KV was super pissed of at AbhiM, she made one call when Abhir was sick nd they made immediate arrangements nd she didn't have any qualms taking there help

Everything they've been showing,her decision of not going back makes less nd less sense

She had grievances with her family what about her friend.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Because she's not the one to decide for grown up people like Muskaan and Kairav. And Akshara is forgiving to a fault. When she can let Abhimanyu and Manjari stay after all what they did, then Goenkas can also be accommodated.

Okay so wasn't she the one who convinced muskaan to give kairav a chance? Abhinav ko seedha and then tede dhang se convince kisne kiya.

There is a thing called indifference no?

Like if i was her and family is so bad- i will go like see you are an adult but beaware. And definitely not spend all my hard earned money in this marriage.

Doesn't abhir still needs med? Phir bache k aur expenses? Pta nahi baap kab behek jaaye phir case karde.

But as we can see she not only convinced muskaan, abhinav she is quite involved too so please don't say they are adult and everything.

Let's end this debate coz no one has answered my query all i got in gist is how bad abhimanyu was and how good abhinav is and how it wasn't abhinav's fault and all.