With an intent to close one debate - Page 9

Agree 💯 I'm OK with anything, not loyal specifically to a ship and neither emotionally invested nor attached to any serial, if I feel it's against my personal values 🙏🏽

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Hahaha yes I am doing good 😁

Well yes I don't came upto me and i started this post.

It's like i am talking about how we can't compare apples and oranges and people are oranges doesn't deserve apple.

And apple now love pineapple what's the issue.

I am like mujhe matlab nahi hai 😂

Few things :

1. Just because Abhimanyu was from the sane class (read caste) doesn't make him or his actions safe or acceptable. Every such arguement leads back to Abhinav not having a (rich) family i.e. his class and caste. People can be good or bad irrespective of those markers. Even with family oversight, Abhimanyu managed to divorce their daughter twice, and, if they marry again, it will be their third time (The court registrar hating these corny ass people for making them document their cringe instead of going to therapy. Matlab ek hi insaan ke saath kitne baar alimony aur property settlement karega Birla boy!) Upar se in real world, no family will willingly marry their daughter to a guy who left their other daughter at the altar par woh baat rehne dete hain.

2. Agar postpartum depression is a valid anti-akshnav detraction with examples from Ross-Rachel's very real and very healthy relationship then I raise you something called emotional manipulation, grooming, and traumatic triggers. (I am writing this sincerely : Young people reading this post, that older guy/girl your sibling/friend has a crush over doesn't threaten you with suicide because they love you. When people love you, they protect your autonomy. Any person who is pressurising you or guilt-tripping you with suicide is massively abusive; you need to inform your parents, and report them irrespective of their social circle. It doesn't get better irl. It gets 100% worse.)

3. All the Abhira 'symbolism' in the recent episodes is rather awkward and shallow given how a grow ass man has just decided to live with his ex and her partner, and butt-in their deeply personal family functions alongside his deeply manipulative mother. Also he forced himself into their house when the ex herself was asking him to leave. Can never take a "no" is not a symbolism. It's called never growing up. All of them need to draw boundaries with maa-bete ki jodi kyon ki it'a pretry disgusting to watch a woman wish that the girl— she wasn't allowing inside her house just weeks ago— cheats on her husband to come and live with her raja bweta

Writers could do a 1000000% better job at showing destiny conspiring to unite a married woman with her sister's fiance than this. Destiny ain't doing these chindi harqatein. 🤣

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Few things :

1. Just because Abhimanyu was from the sane class (read caste) doesn't make him or his actions safe or acceptable. Every such arguement leads back to Abhinav not having a (rich) family i.e. his class and caste. People can be good or bad irrespective of those markers. Even with family oversight, Abhimanyu managed to divorce their daughter twice, and, if they marry again, it will be their third time (The court registrar hating these corny ass people for making them document their cringe instead of going to therapy. Matlab ek hi insaan ke saath kitne baar alimony aur property settlement karega Birla boy!) Upar se in real world, no family will willingly marry their daughter to a guy who left their other daughter at the altar par woh baat rehne dete hain.

2. Agar postpartum depression is a valid anti-akshnav detraction with examples from Ross-Rachel's very real and very healthy relationship then I raise you something called emotional manipulation, grooming, and traumatic triggers. (I am writing this sincerely : Young people reading this post, that older guy/girl your sibling/friend has a crush over doesn't threaten you with suicide because they love you. When people love you, they protect your autonomy. Any person who is pressurising you or guilt-tripping you with suicide is massively abusive; you need to inform your parents, and report them irrespective of their social circle. It doesn't get better irl. It gets 100% worse.)

3. All the Abhira 'symbolism' in the recent episodes is rather awkward and shallow given how a grow ass man has just decided to live with his ex and her partner, and butt-in their deeply personal family functions alongside his deeply manipulative mother. Also he forced himself into their house when the ex herself was asking him to leave. Can never take a "no" is not a symbolism. It's called never growing up. All of them need to draw boundaries with maa-bete ki jodi kyon ki it'a pretry disgusting to watch a woman wish that the girl— she wasn't allowing inside her house just weeks ago— cheats on her husband to come and live with her raja bweta

Writers could do a 1000000% better job at showing destiny conspiring to unite a married woman with her sister's fiance than this. Destiny ain't doing these chindi harqatein. 🤣

For the last time tell me where in this post I have talk about Abhinavs' class and caste.

By Caste- Sharma as per Indian Religion they are considered above Birlas any day so let's not go there.

Second the topic is simple: When no grudge with the family as such or as someone said she is forgiving person why not go back to the comfort atleast for the sake of the baby.

The toofani raat struggle makes no sense after Akshara advocating how good of a guy Kairav is and what a great family Goenkas are and then spending their hard earned money in the said wedding and dancing on dil se dil ki sagai.

The struggle now become her choice and not atleast her family ka fault. Again please note not talking about Abhimanyu and what he did. How achaa abhinav is.

Please enlighten me on how everything becomes a conversation about Abhimanyu kya kr rha kya nahi.

I don't want to talk about a 35+ year old man jiske mummy party se haath pakad ke le jaati ho.

I am talking about a character i support and whose pov i usually understand but not getting her behaviour now.

Choosing to live with a stranger you know nothing about over your family and friends(read when they are not so bad too) is stupidity.

Akshara was lucky or let's say obviously scripted hence nothing happened but it's stupidity and we can't deny it, counter this.

You know however people find fault in how akshu should not go and save those girls. I support that decision. You have to be a good human too and they did what they felt like doing bache kya she didn't thought for herself. That's pretty selfless.

Originally posted by: umawanderer

so...

did the debate end?

No, still going on. 🤪

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Also, if you feel this post is a heartbroken thing came coz Akshara decided to love Nav then it's not.

She was with him for 6 years I am surprised how they never got physical too. I think IRL people will. they are officially married too so no stigma attached. It's very normal for her to fall in love with him. It's just what they are showing and how they are showing us is the issue.

Surekha chachi behaviour 😛😛

Originally posted by: chaipaani

For the last time tell me where in this post I have talk about Abhinavs' class and caste.

By Caste- Sharma as per Indian Religion they are considered above Birlas any day so let's not go there.

Second the topic is simple: When no grudge with the family as such or as someone said she is forgiving person why not go back to the comfort atleast for the sake of the baby.

The toofani raat struggle makes no sense after Akshara advocating how good of a guy Kairav is and what a great family Goenkas are and then spending their hard earned money in the said wedding and dancing on dil se dil ki sagai.

The struggle now become her choice and not atleast her family ka fault. Again please note not talking about Abhimanyu and what he did. How achaa abhinav is.

Please enlighten me on how everything becomes a conversation about Abhimanyu kya kr rha kya nahi.

I don't want to talk about a 35+ year old man jiske mummy party se haath pakad ke le jaati ho.

I am talking about a character i support and whose pov i usually understand but not getting her behaviour now.

Choosing to live with a stranger you know nothing about over your family and friends(read when they are not so bad too) is stupidity.

Akshara was lucky or let's say obviously scripted hence nothing happened but it's stupidity and we can't deny it, counter this.

You know however people find fault in how akshu should not go and save those girls. I support that decision. You have to be a good human too and they did what they felt like doing bache kya she didn't thought for herself. That's pretty selfless.

For the last time, I wasn't pinpointing you. There is no such thing as "Indian religion." The anxiety about Abhinav not having a family or being an orphan from unknown roots has been present in the forum from a long time. Would his actions be okay if he were just a bachelor living away from his family? And Goenkas being chummy with his family than the family of their daughter's abusive ex? If not, then why are Birlas running in the same circles as the Goenkas is a justification for Abhimanyu's very Kabir Singh behaviour? Stranger danger applies to both. It was stupid to get married to man who sends you rishta after meeting you by chance and interacting for a few days. Akshara paid the price for that as well

Akshara not going back to Goenkas is very apt because they are shit parents tbh. Not just to Akshu but to Kairav and Arohi as well. They just let their widowed daughter and a baby of a granddaughter to play proxy therapist to a vile woman like Manjari. What would be the position of Ru and Aru in the Birla household now that ma and raja beta have a new obsession, they don't care as far as they get shat upon by Manjari in fancy clothes every few days They even invited the people who accused Kairav of murder to his own wedding without asking him.

Akshara not going back to them in a traumatic situation is not the same as her having no hard feelings for them now that she doesn't have to deal with their interference.

Baaki my post wasn't directed to you or anybody in particular.

Editing to add : i think they intially had planned Abhinav-Akshara as a fake marriage then Akshnav's and Navir's response got them to change tracks and make the eg more open-ended. Now if there was possibility of them exploring Akshnav then they couldn't have made them consummate because that is a highpoint in itv.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Surekha chachi behaviour 😛😛

Haanji... 😳

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Hahaha yes I am doing good 😁

Well yes I don't came upto me and i started this post.

It's like i am talking about how we can't compare apples and oranges and people are oranges doesn't deserve apple.

And apple now love pineapple what's the issue.

I am like mujhe matlab nahi hai 😂

You forgot to add the loop here. 🤣