Ak's Strange love - Page 2

Originally posted by: lagjagale

There were no grievances. That is the point. It wasn't some long-term abuse situation or anything like that. Abhi - Ak were happy, Abhi was the most caring husband and parent on the planet, and then suddenly, we were hit with white day.

Abhimanyu did have some longstanding problem with Ak. Just listen to his rant before he signed the divorce paper.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Abhimanyu did have some longstanding problem with Ak. Just listen to his rant before he signed the divorce paper.

His "Rant" was that he told her to take care of herself and her babies multiple times, and she just randomly threw that away for saving some strangers who were already being saved by the police. I can't argue on the same points again, so forget it.

No he wanted her to not interfere in his family matters, despite being a DIL of the family. This is a bit problematic for me. What is she supposed to do then? Turn a blind eye to everything and devote her full attention to her husband only.

Originally posted by: sweta2005

Ya for abhimanyu negative have only one day to to negate

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

No he wanted her to not interfere in his family matters, despite being a DIL of the family. This is a bit problematic for me. What is she supposed to do then? Turn a blind eye to everything and devote her full attention to her husband only.

I don't think his rant was about that. Arohi, Neil issue, he did tell her not to interfere cause he wanted to take Neil aside and explain things himself. In any case, the main point was that he wanted her to take care of herself and not get too entangled in Arohi's mess or any other mess. Nowhere was he saying take care of me. So I am not sure what u mean.

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

Love is so strange.. I don't get it.. is this only about irresistible attraction? Sexual tension? What ak feel for abhi now? Nostalgia?

No matter how good her current husband Nav is,no matter how much he loved her and her son, supported her, accepted her with all flaws, saved her and respected her,she couldn't love him...love cannot be forced I Know that,but why someone need to force themselves to love such a good partner? Naturally kyun nehi hota?

Dusri taraf Abhi her passionate lover,her first husband,who divorced her two time,left her the day she had a miscarriage,didn't look for her in 6 years if she's alive or dead somewhere..her anger is going away slowly and she's back to loving him,when he's actually doing bare minimum to redeem himself..he just have to behave normal and she will go gaga over him soon.. is passionate, intense love worth two,three divorce a year?so i actually don't know what love is and how it works

What you see in a person before falling in love? Good looks or Good behavior and good future ahead? I don't believe Pyaar ho jata hain,bina soche samjhe😂

in Telugu their is a saying “Love is blind” so she couldn’t goodness,respectful love and equality but blindly going back to her ex…then we have to believe it love is actually blind

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

Love is so strange.. I don't get it.. is this only about irresistible attraction? Sexual tension? What ak feel for abhi now? Nostalgia?

No matter how good her current husband Nav is,no matter how much he loved her and her son, supported her, accepted her with all flaws, saved her and respected her,she couldn't love him...love cannot be forced I Know that,but why someone need to force themselves to love such a good partner? Naturally kyun nehi hota?

Dusri taraf Abhi her passionate lover,her first husband,who divorced her two time,left her the day she had a miscarriage,didn't look for her in 6 years if she's alive or dead somewhere..her anger is going away slowly and she's back to loving him,when he's actually doing bare minimum to redeem himself..he just have to behave normal and she will go gaga over him soon.. is passionate, intense love worth two,three divorce a year?so i actually don't know what love is and how it works

What you see in a person before falling in love? Good looks or Good behavior and good future ahead? I don't believe Pyaar ho jata hain,bina soche samjhe😂

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I don't think his rant was about that. Arohi, Neil issue, he did tell her not to interfere cause he wanted to take Neil aside and explain things himself. In any case, the main point was that he wanted her to take care of herself and not get too entangled in Arohi's mess or any other mess. Nowhere was he saying take care of me. So I am not sure what u mean.

IRL I would say love is affection, care, respect, patience, kindness, doesnt keep record of prev wrongdoings, self sacrificial etc When both the partners have this kind of love, it is heathy, If only one is doing so, it becomes toxic over time.

What we see on screen often is affection and attraction being termed as love. It is true that you cant force yourself to be attracted to someone. But there are people who initially werent attracted to each other but over time start seeing them in a new light. It could be because they see personality traits or behaviour in certain situations or in certain looks that makes them attractive.

People can get attracted to multiple people at the same time or over a lifetime. Its the other things with commitment and loyalty that makes a relationship last.

People like AK and AB are attracted and addicted to the toxicity of their realtionship. There are couples who break up and make up often, it never becomes better but fall apart for similar reasons everytime, They are addicted and attached to what they have. They often run with the hope that this time things will workout. But... I think I've seen this film beforeee lol

Unless they learn to put boundaries, recognise things for what they are and work on themselves and learn to love healthy things, they'll often end up in the same toxic cycles.

I see AK trying to do that but the lack of boundaries these days with AB often around is triggering the same toxic cycle that they were stuck in 6 years ago. If AK changed and grew, she will make better choices. If she didnt, well we all know how pathetic and selfish the leads will look lol.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Why do you think people return to toxic exes?🙈

Bec they are played by handsome heros.

Strangely only men get this privilege while toxic females are called evil witches ..no takers for arohi and manjari you c 😆No 2nd or 3rd chance for them. No redemption possible for them.

There is an exception. If the actor is bad , char is boring and acha , no layers , no fun, no chemistry , he is rejected too..no takers for him also 😆