Ak's Strange love

Love is so strange.. I don't get it.. is this only about irresistible attraction? Sexual tension? What ak feel for abhi now? Nostalgia?

No matter how good her current husband Nav is,no matter how much he loved her and her son, supported her, accepted her with all flaws, saved her and respected her,she couldn't love him...love cannot be forced I Know that,but why someone need to force themselves to love such a good partner? Naturally kyun nehi hota?

Dusri taraf Abhi her passionate lover,her first husband,who divorced her two time,left her the day she had a miscarriage,didn't look for her in 6 years if she's alive or dead somewhere..her anger is going away slowly and she's back to loving him,when he's actually doing bare minimum to redeem himself..he just have to behave normal and she will go gaga over him soon.. is passionate, intense love worth two,three divorce a year?so i actually don't know what love is and how it works

What you see in a person before falling in love? Good looks or Good behavior and good future ahead? I don't believe Pyaar ho jata hain,bina soche samjhe😂

I still feel that Ak has feelings for AbN but is unaware of them. She will realize that only when something big happens that may jolt her very life.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I still feel that Ak has feelings for AbN but is unaware of them. She will realize that only when something big happens that may jolt her very life.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I still feel that Ak has feelings for AbN but is unaware of them. She will realize that only when something big happens that may jolt her very life.

NOPE.....

I never felt that...

She still loves AbhiM...

Something big happened...

He was about to die... Uss din kuch nahi hua...

Her Paro reaction was for AbhiM

Their son was battling between life and death and madam ne ex-husband/doctor ko gale lagaya tha... Because she can show her weakness only to AbhiM voluntarily....

She considers AbhiN as a friend who has a crush on her... But she loves AbhiM

Originally posted by: AKHIAWAL

Love is so strange.. I don't get it.. is this only about irresistible attraction? Sexual tension? What ak feel for abhi now? Nostalgia?

No matter how good her current husband Nav is,no matter how much he loved her and her son, supported her, accepted her with all flaws, saved her and respected her,she couldn't love him...love cannot be forced I Know that,but why someone need to force themselves to love such a good partner? Naturally kyun nehi hota?

Dusri taraf Abhi her passionate lover,her first husband,who divorced her two time,left her the day she had a miscarriage,didn't look for her in 6 years if she's alive or dead somewhere..her anger is going away slowly and she's back to loving him,when he's actually doing bare minimum to redeem himself..he just have to behave normal and she will go gaga over him soon.. is passionate, intense love worth two,three divorce a year?so i actually don't know what love is and how it works

What you see in a person before falling in love? Good looks or Good behavior and good future ahead? I don't believe Pyaar ho jata hain,bina soche samjhe😂

Great post! Even I am trying to understand AK's recent overall amicable relationship with AbhiM. AK is overall a loving, forgiving person. AbhiM has been well- behaved since he has come to Kasauli, helped her with law exam, helped her with KV- MK marriage and most importantly handled Abhir knowing the truth issue pretty well. Due to all this she is being to amicable with him. In issues like love and marriages, AK and AbhiM hv better understanding than AbhiN. They both thought of asking MK whereas AbhiN thought of asking Nilamma. AK thinking about her wedding was a plain memory, but it did give impression otherwise. She is not nostalgic about it.

Above all, AK is being amicable with AbhiM from her safe heavens with AbhiN and because AbhiN is the cushion between them. If anyone suggests her to move back with him, I think it will be a big NO, at least now as I see it.

For me AK is still moving on. (I don't make fuss about 6 years as Abhir needed to grow up so a drama could happen). What is holding her from completely falling for AbhiN (with many other factors) is her not wanting to go through excruciating pain she has been through once. Inspite of closing her heart doors tightly, AbhiN has made his place there and hence, she does not let him go, but at the same time, not allowing him to come too close so he can hurt her.

What is so confusing? Lots of people on this forum like Abhi as a person more than Nav. So why can't Ak? You simply can't fall in love with someone cause they treated you well or any of that. You need to like their personality, have fun with them, feel free with them, and even be proud of them. Ak is trying really hard to do these things with Nav, but with Abhi, there wasn't any need to try right. They just were good together. Their personalities meshed well together cause they were so different from one another. Nav and Ak are so similar; it's like loving someone who is your replica. Unless you are narcissistic, you won't find that too appealing. Partners don't just need to maintain the status quo and keep you happy with yourself; they also need to challenge you and encourage you to grow.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

What is so confusing? Lots of people on this forum like Abhi as a person more than Nav. So why can't Ak? You simply can't fall in love with someone cause they treated you well or any of that. You need to like their personality, have fun with them, feel free with them, and even be proud of them. Ak is trying really hard to do these things with Nav, but with Abhi, there wasn't any need to try right. They just were good together. Their personalities meshed well together cause they were so different from one another. Nav and Ak are so similar; it's like loving someone who is your replica. Unless you are narcissistic, you won't find that too appealing. Partners don't just need to maintain the status quo and keep you happy with yourself; they also need to challenge you and encourage you to grow.

Indeed, AbM did challenge Ak to grow by giving her divorce multiple times and treating her as dead for six years. 👍

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Indeed, AbM did challenge Ak to grow by giving her divorce multiple times and treating her as dead for six years. 👍

Ya for abhimanyu negative have only one day to to negate

I don’t want to waste my time writing essays on something that has already been told by many members here multiple times.

Just wanna say this no relationship goes sour by a sudden incident it does so when that incident acts as a catalyst to bring to the fore accumulated grievances over time.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I don’t want to waste my time writing essays on something that has already been told by many members here multiple times.

Just wanna say this no relationship goes sour by a sudden incident it does so when that incident acts as a catalyst to bring to the fore accumulated grievances over time.

There were no grievances. That is the point. It wasn't some long-term abuse situation or anything like that. Abhi - Ak were happy, Abhi was the most caring husband and parent on the planet, and then suddenly, we were hit with white day.